I will... we live in Central Florida, so we have Disney Passes and we take DD a lot. I HATE seeing people have their kids on a leash more than anything! I know it sucks chasing a crazy toddler around... but just don't... leashes are for dogs... not toddlers
I know I originally contributed to the madness, but I really wish the Board would stop talking about the organization of the Board.
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This! And honestly, have you gone over to the March board and looked around? It's an absolute MESS! It's a free for all and I get a headache just lurking over there. I had to stop.
I know I originally contributed to the madness, but I really wish the Board would stop talking about the organization of the Board.
:insert fight club gif:
This! And honestly, have you gone over to the March board and looked around? It's an absolute MESS! It's a free for all and I get a headache just lurking over there. I had to stop.
Have you seen them completely bash the April board? It's really irritating.
I know I originally contributed to the madness, but I really wish the Board would stop talking about the organization of the Board.
:insert fight club gif:
This! And honestly, have you gone over to the March board and looked around? It's an absolute MESS! It's a free for all and I get a headache just lurking over there. I had to stop.
Have you seen them completely bash the April board? It's really irritating.
seriously? you would think they have better things to do! I feel like in every thread there is a "March lurker" feeling the need to comment on what we do here...we get it...we are the "cool board..." now march along March 2017!
...since I am a thread hogger today...this might be a FFC...I forgot today was Thursday...totally thought it was Wednesday....pregnancy brain is real!!!
So over in April they are claiming if I was just a nicer person I wouldn't have depression. Yep, they are laughing over a mental health issue I am struggling with. I literally can't. They claim we are jerks. So, my UO is that crying in your bed over people mocking your mental health is pretty weak. But, I can't help it.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
So over in April they are claiming if I was just a nicer person I wouldn't have depression. Yep, they are laughing over a mental health issue I am struggling with. I literally can't. They claim we are jerks. So, my UO is that crying in your bed over people mocking your mental health is pretty weak. But, I can't help it.
Wait, in April? As in this board? Point me to where, por favor, because I am not cool with this.
over in March. someone sent me the link so I could see what they were saying about us and then I stumbled on that. I might need to step away from TB for a day or two. That really sent me over the edge. I mean, I get that we disagree and stuff. But, I was being really brave putting that out there for the 1st time and then they just use it against me. I don't think I can just get over that easy.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Can we all just agree to never go over to the March board? And if they come over here, we just don't respond to their BS. They are all love-y and preach-y but then treat @mrsstuessy like crap. WTF?!?!
yeah, I had someone send me the link because she wanted me to see something else over there and then I saw that. I am definitely done going over there now. I am in shock at how horrible someone can be. I am a huge supporter of just being done with it. Ignore them over here!
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
@mrsstuessy That is not acceptable at all!!! why do they feel the need to keep bashing us?? Hugest hugs to you!!! You are not alone, I am going to go out on a limb and speak for us all in saying we support you and are on your side. There is no excuse for Bullies like March. I am so sorry you have to deal with it. I don't get it...
@mrsstuessy, my jaw dropped when I read what you wrote. I hope you don't, for a minute, believe what they wrote. Number one, you haven't said anything that indicates you are a mean person. Number two, I'm quite confident that there is no link between nice people and mental health. Take a break if you must, but please come back. If I see any A'17 person stigmatize mental health issues like that, I will lose my shit. I'm so, so sorry that people can be such assholes.
@mrsstuessy I'm so sorry that you had to read that. Please do not believe a word of it for a second. Anyone who would say that has no idea what they're talking about, and frankly, that is the straight up definition of being "mean." I find it amusing that the same group of people who are all sunshine and rainbows and the land of unlimited support for strangers can whip out the claws and attack someone who is clearly struggling. They were so sure we were the "mean" board for trying to maintain a little order over here and promote a climate of support for one another (not just for self). True colors always shine through eventually.
Speaking of the Pokémon craze... my local fair just started today and they mentioned on the news that they have 24 pokestops! As a fan of the game, I'm excited- maybe that's my UO this week lol.
@mrsstuessy that is so wrong and I'm so sorry about the nonsense that was written about you. I have had my fair share of depression and anxiety for years and it's not a choice or something you just can get over. People who disregard mental health issues make me stabby. Please take care of yourself and ignore the morons who obviously are so awful they need to bring people down to feel good.
@mrsstuessy that is so wrong and I'm so sorry about the nonsense that was written about you. I have had my fair share of depression and anxiety for years and it's not a choice or something you just can get over. People who disregard mental health issues make me stabby. Please take care of yourself and ignore the morons who obviously are so awful they need to bring people down to feel good.
Maybe we didn't read the same thing because I've never seen anyone in March OR April disregard mental health issues or disparage someone because they had those issues.
Edited because I posted in the wrong place & @Rileypie I apologize for my breach of board etiquette for board-jumping. I'm on mobile & the top stripe was showing "March 2017 Moms". I haven't been on much today so I thought I was responding to a thread in my own group (although it's plausible I may span both March/April). Then my app crashed (and this is still showing up as March. Anyway, I apologize!
It's ok @onefootinthebayou. I am done talking about it and moving on. Thanks for your support everyone. I had to step away today. I will probably distance myself tomorrow as well. It was a hard blow for me today and I had to work through some stuff on my own and just get in the right mindset. It is good to know April is so supportive and great. I will definitely be sticking around here after all the wonderful encouragement I got from this board today. Thank you!
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Re: * UO Thursday *
I love unpopular opinions but I just can't think of any right now.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
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DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Me: 28 & Partner: 32 | Married 2014
BFP 7/29 EDD 4/11
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
DS: 10-9-14
MC: 9-4-16
This Pokémon craze is RIDICULOUS and should be banned.
Married: 5/30/2013
DSS #1: 5/25/2007
DSS #2: 1/22/2011
DS #3: 7/8/2012
BFP: 3/14/2016 ~ MC: 3/19/2016
DS #4: 4/21/17
Just kidding. I get it, but I still love it. I was a huge Pokemon nerd as a kid so I am irrationally excited about actually getting to "catch" them.
Edited because I posted in the wrong place & @Rileypie I apologize for my breach of board etiquette for board-jumping. I'm on mobile & the top stripe was showing "March 2017 Moms". I haven't been on much today so I thought I was responding to a thread in my own group (although it's plausible I may span both March/April). Then my app crashed (and this is still showing up as March. Anyway, I apologize!
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DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019