I got my first "Removed for TOU Violation" last night for flaming that idiot asking about "pg after NuvaRing". So I feel pretty legit.
I don't care about other people's kids. On a basic human level I care about their safety and well being, but I don't need to be held hostage and forced to listen to a 10 minute story about some boring shit they did or said that only their parent finds interesting and entertaining. I swear when I become a parent I will never assume other people care about my kid as much as I do. So many people don't seem to understand that. But maybe I'm a mean person. I don't know.
SN used to be soemthingclever Me: 28 DH: 35 Dx PCOS May 2015 Baby #1 due 12/7/17
@soemthingclever If this makes you mean then I'm right there with
you. I adore my own godchildren and I really do like kids. However, when
coworkers come to my desk to show me the new photo album (note: not just one
photo) of their children, grandchildren, nieces/nephews for the third time that
week...well I find it incredibly
awkward because I just don't know what to
say...I can only fake sincere interest so much when mentally I checked out 15 seconds into the conversation and am like... I've always felt like a bitch for feeling this way, so I'm glad I'm not alone in this sentiment.
@magnolia131@soemthingclever I totally agree. Family/kid pictures/albums are for Facebook - where I can unfollow their ass if their photos get too annoying.
My FFFC is that while I should have been prepping my room and lessons for next week, I spent a big chunk of the day online shopping and just chatting with co-workers. I'll have to do it all tomorrow, but I just couldn't be bothered today...
Lol guys I thought I was the only one. @soemthingclever@magnolia131 I'm always like and I always feel bad about it because I obvs want a baby soooo bad.
My FFFC is MH is away and I am literally eating cheese meat and bread (and wine) for dinner and binge watching Suits from the beginning and this is how I feel
Qdoba tops them all. Melty queso goodness in your burrito and no $2 charge for guacamole
Me: 30 DH: 31 Married: 11.12.11 TTC: Nov 2015 BFP #1: 1.22.16 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX) D&C: 3.2.16 BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16 BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.2016 RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending 8.15.16 Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
@soemthingclever; I got half censored in that thread. Half tou/half community support. Meh.
Eta: whoa. Just looked back at the thread and it's like Oprah was editing it. You get a TOU violation! You get a TOU violation! VIOLATIONS for everyone!
I just found cheese in a drawer. Not in a drawer in the fridge but in the drawer where I keep the oven mitts. Which was obviously put there when I made late night (ok, 9pm) nachos three days ago.
Also, sometimes I melt cheese on a plate and eat it.
My FFFC is that after reading @furbabymom2007 FFFC, my dinner tonight will consist of white cheddar popcorn, and some other kind of junk food that I'm not sure of yet.
Well? What else did you have?
my other Confession... DH was making coconut curry chicken nuggets and I just wasn't feeling it. So I stopped at a gourmet burger drive thru place on the way home and grabbed some amazing garlic Parmesan fries to hold me over.
Re: FFFC
I don't care about other people's kids. On a basic human level I care about their safety and well being, but I don't need to be held hostage and forced to listen to a 10 minute story about some boring shit they did or said that only their parent finds interesting and entertaining. I swear when I become a parent I will never assume other people care about my kid as much as I do. So many people don't seem to understand that. But maybe I'm a mean person. I don't know.
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17
eta: typo
Together since 2007 | Married June 2013
TTC #1: June 2015
TTC #2: December 2018
BFP: 2/26/19 | EDD: 11/7/19
TTC #3
Mirena out 1/23/24
Boloco is a local burrito chain in Boston. Name comes from Boston Local Company.
DD #2: May 2020
Baby #3: EDD May 2023; MC October 2022
https://boloco.com/
Together since 2007 | Married June 2013
TTC #1: June 2015
TTC #2: December 2018
BFP: 2/26/19 | EDD: 11/7/19
TTC #3
Mirena out 1/23/24
If this makes you mean then I'm right there with you. I adore my own godchildren and I really do like kids. However, when coworkers come to my desk to show me the new photo album (note: not just one photo) of their children, grandchildren, nieces/nephews for the third time that week...well I find it incredibly awkward because I just don't know what to say...I can only fake sincere interest so much when mentally I checked out 15 seconds into the conversation and am like...
I've always felt like a bitch for feeling this way, so I'm glad I'm not alone in this sentiment.
My FFFC is that while I should have been prepping my room and lessons for next week, I spent a big chunk of the day online shopping and just chatting with co-workers. I'll have to do it all tomorrow, but I just couldn't be bothered today...
My FFFC is MH is away and I am literally eating cheese meat and bread (and wine) for dinner and binge watching Suits from the beginning and this is how I feel
Together since 2007 | Married June 2013
TTC #1: June 2015
TTC #2: December 2018
BFP: 2/26/19 | EDD: 11/7/19
TTC #3
Mirena out 1/23/24
Married: 11.12.11
TTC: Nov 2015
BFP #1: 1.22.16 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
D&C: 3.2.16
BFP #2: 4.14.16 CP: 4.17.16
BFP #3: 6.10.2016 CP: 6.17.2016
RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending 8.15.16
Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid
half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006
Eta: whoa. Just looked back at the thread and it's like Oprah was editing it. You get a TOU violation! You get a TOU violation! VIOLATIONS for everyone!
Edit- I posted this in the wrong thread. You guys were probably like, "Why the hell is she randomly talking about burritos?"
Edit again- Because this IS the burrito thread and I can't effing keep track of which thread I'm in. I need to go to bed.
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17
Also, sometimes I melt cheese on a plate and eat it.
my other Confession... DH was making coconut curry chicken nuggets and I just wasn't feeling it. So I stopped at a gourmet burger drive thru place on the way home and grabbed some amazing garlic Parmesan fries to hold me over.
Together since 2007 | Married June 2013
TTC #1: June 2015
TTC #2: December 2018
BFP: 2/26/19 | EDD: 11/7/19
TTC #3
Mirena out 1/23/24
I had to come out of lurkdom to tell @RatParade that I love you for the RHPS reference!
@SnobunnieMel I used to be a Qdoba girl! Now my list goes Moes > Qdoba > Chipotle.
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP #1: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
BFP #2: 10/06/16: 6 - EDD: 06/20/17
DD Born 06/23/17
TFAS: April 2018
BFP #3: 03/21/18 - CP
BFP #4: 04/23/18 - EDD 01/04/19
We're not alone! I don't think we're mean. It just gets tiresome.
Me: 28 DH: 35
Dx PCOS May 2015
Baby #1 due 12/7/17