@maf9866 My son will not stop talking about this damn Suicide Squad movie. I'm not happy about it, but I might have to see that one. I did see some of those Batman movies, but I missed the last one and I'm fine with that. The only thing I like about DC is Wonder Woman, and only because my mom bought me her comic books as a kid. But even her I'm kind of "Eh" about. I don't fully understand my DC aversion. Lol
@SpaceBurger samesies with my daughter! I puke in my mouth when people refer to the daughter as "princess."
@mrskratt DH calls our goddaughter his princess and I'm kind of eh about it. I wonder how I would feel about it if we had a girl tho. But I'm done after this so I guess I'll never know. Lol
@serenaxo84 My doc put me on pelvic rest because of the location of my placenta and the potential for bleeding, not because I'm at risk for pre-term labor/contractions. So, we're cleared to engage in that activity. Although, it's not the same and it's become a source of frustration for me. Oh well!
@krzyriver, not an UO with me. I don't mind giving them at all. I think the power thing does have something to do with it, like I'm in control lol
@mrskratt completely agree! love animals, but cats are useless to me. our neighbors cat followed me in one afternoon and peed all over our floor then swatted at our dog before i could get it outside. hate them!!
Same here with the pelvic rest, @ball4768 . We were also cleared for activities that didn't involve penetration. We didn't partake lol. I'm off pelvic rest now, and still don't partake hahaha!!!
You guys, I feel like a terrible wife... DH gets a BJ mayyyyyybe once a year lol. I just hate doing it, but I also don't like receiving either so we just skip to the good stuff. Although lately there has been none. I keep telling him we've been cleared, but I think he's scared to touch me. The other day I told him I didn't think he thinks I'm sexy because I'm pregnant and he shut that right down... still... no sexy time. I'm really ok with that because I personally don't feel sexy or into it right now. I just feel bad for him.
@ball4768 I am jealous! I have complete placenta previa and they said nada! All doctors are different though! I've had bleeding though- so that might be the difference!
I don't like giving BJ's...poor DH gets them a few times a year. I also don't like him going down on me either so it works out.
@mrskratt I LOVE cats. Like I would totally be a crazy cat lady if DH would let me....BUT, cats are assholes and that's partially why I love them. Our cat knocks stuff off the counters all the time and does sprints all night up and down the hall. I can definitely see them not being everyone's cup of tea.
I'm with @krzyriver. I love giving BJs. I think it may be more of a turn on for me than for DH. Don't get me wrong- he LOVES them, but they do way more for me than they should lol.
Cats suck. I love animals, especially dogs, but cats are just freaking terrible.
And summer totally sucks. Not since high school have I looked forward to one. Fall is where it's at!
I do not enjoy giving BJs at all. It makes my jaw hurt, I have a stupid sensitive gag reflex, and I get bored of it really fast. So I looked up every trick and tip I could to make them as pleasurable as possible to get the job done as quickly as I can... works out for both us in the end.
My UO is that I think Pixar and Disney movies are by and large, stupid. My husband loves them and I hate watching them.
I like cats. At one point we had four. We don't do harnesses or stupid crap like that, though. And our house does NOT smell like cat piss or dirty litter (by admission of very good non-animal keeping friends, who would tell us if it were otherwise). I also like dogs. We want a second one, too.
I like summer. I hate winter because I hate being cold, but I like snowboarding.
BJ's are like ehhh here. I like being in charge, but I can only do it for so long.
I love my cats. I have two, one who thinks he's a dog and the other who thinks he gave birth to my kid. Kobe also fetches and gives hugs. Your SIL's cat sounds like the devil and that cleaning isn't her forte. Our litter box is in the garage, self cleans, and my cats have never peed anywhere they shouldn't. I would take my cats over my two dogs any day. That said, I wouldn't put up with dirtiness so they would be gone if they ever peed somewhere they shouldn't. I would be livid if someone's cat peed on my bed and in my suitcase. @mrskratt
Sequels are rarely done well, and it was a little ridiculous lately when 8 out of 9 previews were for remakes/sequels. I need a new movie!
My UO of the day: I don't like princess stuff. I will never call my daughter a princess either. I'm hoping against hope I don't get any princess theme items at my shower because they will be donated
I totally agree. A couple years ago I went to my bff's daughter's birthday party. All of the girls are running around squealing in their princess dresses and everything is princess-y and I'm all like
I asked what the movie playing was, which matched the theme. It was Frozen and I swear everybody stopped what they were doing and stared at me. I don't have girls and I don't do princesses. I hope like no other that this baby isn't a girly girl because I can't.
@krzyriver and @maf9866 studios keep making comic book movie reboots and sequels, even bad ones that don't make money, because if they don't, they lose the copyright. That's why they keep making Fantastic Four movies even though they never do well.
@AllyTheKid At least you didn't put it in an email to all your friends or something. You should just say you were trying to steer more views to this thread
BJs: For foreplay, I kind of half ass it, but some days I feel really powerful and go all out. I even found this throat numbing spray so you can deepthroat. Bwahaha. I haven't tried the throat spray yet, but I will when I'm no longer pregnant. That being said, we have like an entire alcove of sex toys and costumes and we love them. And yes @AllyTheKid, I think that anything anal is so taboo, but men love that shit. If I ever need the bj to be over quick, I just go there and *boom* it's like magic. Hahaha. OMG DH would die if he read this.
VJs: I love VJs. Thankfully DH loves them too. I have a friend whose husband won't go down on her. She's like "I've tried everything, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, but he just won't!" I feel so bad for her.
Cats: most of them are assholes, and yes their pee totally stinks.... but some cats are an exception to the rule and I love mine to death.
@ignoscemihi Or somehow send that as a giant text to FI hahaha Yes, just trying to divert more attention here is all hey, it worked on Anna! @annabenanna
Oh I forgot one more topic, Circumcisions! Thankfully I don't have to worry about this one because of DH's heritage. He's Jewish, so baby is having a bris. I'm actually glad, because then none of my friends will say "why would you circumcise? why would you not?" Either way, my answer is just: "he's going to be raised Jewish, so he's having a bris."
I really have no opinion on sequels except I loved Mighty Ducks 2 as much as I loved Mighty Ducks.
OMG I pulled an @AllyTheKid too! I talked about circumcisions here when it belongs to the shit got real thread.
Speaking of sequels, have y'all seen the trailer for Resident Evil: The Final Chapter? OMG! Also, my UO is that V8 juice is awesome. Especially during pregnancy. That is all.
Hhahahahaha @nlane0723, this convo is making me LOL at my desk! Also because of the current discussion, my brain is totally thinking "BJs and VJs" and I read @BluMommy 's statement as "VJ juice is awesome"
@annabenanna - I have a friend who used that numbing throat spray for a bf who was bigger than she was used to. She said it helped, but didn't last very long, so she had to keep respraying and it kind of killed the mood.
Also, I'm totally jealous of your toy/costume collection. DH is very vanilla and things like that freak him out. Before him, I was a whips and chains kind of girl (nothing extreme; just enough to spice things up!) and I miss it
Hhahahahaha @nlane0723, this convo is making me LOL at my desk! Also because of the current discussion, my brain is totally thinking "BJs and VJs" and I read @BluMommy 's statement as "VJ juice is awesome"
@CopperBoom86, I bet you can find what DH likes. Does he watch porn at all? If he does, what kind does he like? You can base your costumes on that. Maybe he just doesn't like whips and chains. Amazon has so many amazing sexy costumes for like $2-$5 all shipped from China! Also, re-spraying the throat numbing spray does not sound sexy.
@BluMommy , hahahahahaha, sooooorrrrrry!!!! It was the V in V8!!!
Side Story: I think my most favorite sex costume of all was the one time I dressed up as a hooker for an ex-bf. I waited for him outside his apartment in my costume so he could "pick me up" in his car. I took role playing to an extreme, y'all! And I almost got picked up by SOMEONE ELSE. Where is the crying with tears emoji???
I keep reading "foreclose" as "foreplay" at work. I was so much more of a freak when DH and I first met. Sex all day, every day. I miss drunk sex so much.
@nlane0723 - drunk sex only when both are drunk. DH will try to get busy when he's drunk and I have no time for that. It.takes.for.everrrrr.
DH definitely wishes he got BJs like he did when we first got together. Now it's only if I'm drunk or a special occasion and he initiates. I have the higher drive, so I really should get over it and just do it more often so I could get lucky more frequently. Maybe after this baby comes . We do like toys though - I need a little extra to make sure I'm there too.
Me: 31
DH: 32
Married: Sep 2012
TTC #1: Jan 2015 Baby A (via IUI due to MFI): Sep 2016 born at 35+6
Surprise but very welcome + on 5/16/2019, EDD 1/25/2020
Soooooo DH used to work as a dom at a club (no actual sex or sex acts though... that would be a deal breaker. Ew.) and I used to sell for passion parties, so we're no strangers to toys. Funny thing is though, he doesn't like to use them with me. He see's them as impersonal because it WAS so impersonal for him before. I sure wouldn't mind them though!
I'm glad I'm not totally alone in thinking BJs are great. Lol. Ironically, drunk sex is what prompted my BJ UO. I prefer drunk sex when he's drunk and I'm mostly sober. I enjoy it way more then. But again, I have the higher sex drive of the two of us, so I'm pretty much always in the mood. Even if I didn't think I was, it usually doesn't take much for me to get on board. So when came in at 2 this morning, clearly drunk, I was like "Oh yeah, mama's gunna get some!" Lol.
@annabenanna I always want to roleplay, but I think I'm too shy! Lol. And I don't think DH really cares, he probably wouldn't really play along with it anyway. He likes sexy outfits, not so much costumes. And he's brave enough to try most any toy. Anything in the back door is strictly off limits for him though! It freaks him out too much!
ETA: I texted DH to tell him that he should appreciate me more, cause it seems like most wives hate giving their husbands BJs. And he responds with "Thank you for my BJs baby." Lol. Um, no. That's not what I meant when I said appreciate me more. Try again.
Re: UO Thursday (8/11)
I call my dog princess but there's no need for a princess room, nursery or clothes, just no
Fell in love: Dec 2005 // Married: Feb 9, 2013
Little Miss Rosalie Harper--Born Jan 9th, 2014
@mrskratt completely agree! love animals, but cats are useless to me. our neighbors cat followed me in one afternoon and peed all over our floor then swatted at our dog before i could get it outside. hate them!!
You guys, I feel like a terrible wife... DH gets a BJ mayyyyyybe once a year lol. I just hate doing it, but I also don't like receiving either so we just skip to the good stuff. Although lately there has been none. I keep telling him we've been cleared, but I think he's scared to touch me. The other day I told him I didn't think he thinks I'm sexy because I'm pregnant and he shut that right down... still... no sexy time. I'm really ok with that because I personally don't feel sexy or into it right now. I just feel bad for him.
BFP #1: 7/15/15, SB: 11/14/15
Rainbow baby DS born 9/29/16!!
BFP #3 3/26/18 | Due 12/3/18
I don't like giving BJ's...poor DH gets them a few times a year. I also don't like him going down on me either so it works out.
@mrskratt I LOVE cats. Like I would totally be a crazy cat lady if DH would let me....BUT, cats are assholes and that's partially why I love them. Our cat knocks stuff off the counters all the time and does sprints all night up and down the hall. I can definitely see them not being everyone's cup of tea.
Dating: 10/3/08 | Married: 12/27/14
TTC #1: August 2015 | BFP: 2/3/16 | EDD: 10/7/16
DD: 10/5/16
TTC #2: September 2017 | BFP: 4/28/18 | EDD: 1/7/19
DS: 1/9/19
I'm with @krzyriver. I love giving BJs. I think it may be more of a turn on for me than for DH. Don't get me wrong- he LOVES them, but they do way more for me than they should lol.
Cats suck. I love animals, especially dogs, but cats are just freaking terrible.
And summer totally sucks. Not since high school have I looked forward to one. Fall is where it's at!
I like cats. At one point we had four. We don't do harnesses or stupid crap like that, though. And our house does NOT smell like cat piss or dirty litter (by admission of very good non-animal keeping friends, who would tell us if it were otherwise). I also like dogs. We want a second one, too.
I like summer. I hate winter because I hate being cold, but I like snowboarding.
No comment on the rest.
Baby GIRL born 9/16/201
BFP! EDD 8/1/2019 CP 4w2d
I love my cats. I have two, one who thinks he's a dog and the other who thinks he gave birth to my kid. Kobe also fetches and gives hugs. Your SIL's cat sounds like the devil and that cleaning isn't her forte. Our litter box is in the garage, self cleans, and my cats have never peed anywhere they shouldn't. I would take my cats over my two dogs any day. That said, I wouldn't put up with dirtiness so they would be gone if they ever peed somewhere they shouldn't. I would be livid if someone's cat peed on my bed and in my suitcase. @mrskratt
Me: 28 DH: 27
I asked what the movie playing was, which matched the theme. It was Frozen and I swear everybody stopped what they were doing and stared at me. I don't have girls and I don't do princesses. I hope like no other that this baby isn't a girly girl because I can't.
@AllyTheKid At least you didn't put it in an email to all your friends or something. You should just say you were trying to steer more views to this thread
BJs: For foreplay, I kind of half ass it, but some days I feel really powerful and go all out. I even found this throat numbing spray so you can deepthroat. Bwahaha. I haven't tried the throat spray yet, but I will when I'm no longer pregnant. That being said, we have like an entire alcove of sex toys and costumes and we love them. And yes @AllyTheKid, I think that anything anal is so taboo, but men love that shit. If I ever need the bj to be over quick, I just go there and *boom* it's like magic. Hahaha. OMG DH would die if he read this.
VJs: I love VJs. Thankfully DH loves them too. I have a friend whose husband won't go down on her. She's like "I've tried everything, chocolate syrup, whipped cream, but he just won't!" I feel so bad for her.
Cats: most of them are assholes, and yes their pee totally stinks.... but some cats are an exception to the rule and I love mine to death.
Oh I forgot one more topic, Circumcisions! Thankfully I don't have to worry about this one because of DH's heritage. He's Jewish, so baby is having a bris. I'm actually glad, because then none of my friends will say "why would you circumcise? why would you not?" Either way, my answer is just: "he's going to be raised Jewish, so he's having a bris."
I really have no opinion on sequels except I loved Mighty Ducks 2 as much as I loved Mighty Ducks.
OMG I pulled an @AllyTheKid too! I talked about circumcisions here when it belongs to the shit got real thread.
Also, my UO is that V8 juice is awesome. Especially during pregnancy.
That is all.
Me: 28 DH: 27
I need to STOP!
Also, I'm totally jealous of your toy/costume collection. DH is very vanilla and things like that freak him out. Before him, I was a whips and chains kind of girl (nothing extreme; just enough to spice things up!) and I miss it
@BluMommy , hahahahahaha, sooooorrrrrry!!!! It was the V in V8!!!
Side Story: I think my most favorite sex costume of all was the one time I dressed up as a hooker for an ex-bf. I waited for him outside his apartment in my costume so he could "pick me up" in his car. I took role playing to an extreme, y'all! And I almost got picked up by SOMEONE ELSE. Where is the crying with tears emoji???
Me: 32 & DH: 37
BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16
IT'S A BOY!!!!
DS Born 10/16/16
much.
Me: 28 DH: 27
DH definitely wishes he got BJs like he did when we first got together. Now it's only if I'm drunk or a special occasion and he initiates. I have the higher drive, so I really should get over it and just do it more often so I could get lucky more frequently. Maybe after this baby comes
Baby A (via IUI due to MFI): Sep 2016 born at 35+6
BFP #1: 7/15/15, SB: 11/14/15
Rainbow baby DS born 9/29/16!!
BFP #3 3/26/18 | Due 12/3/18
BFP #1: 7/15/15, SB: 11/14/15
Rainbow baby DS born 9/29/16!!
BFP #3 3/26/18 | Due 12/3/18
@annabenanna I always want to roleplay, but I think I'm too shy! Lol. And I don't think DH really cares, he probably wouldn't really play along with it anyway. He likes sexy outfits, not so much costumes. And he's brave enough to try most any toy. Anything in the back door is strictly off limits for him though! It freaks him out too much!
ETA: I texted DH to tell him that he should appreciate me more, cause it seems like most wives hate giving their husbands BJs. And he responds with "Thank you for my BJs baby." Lol. Um, no. That's not what I meant when I said appreciate me more. Try again.