Hey everyone. I just found out I am 13 weeks pregnant with our second child. It's come as a surprise, as our first is barely 8 months old. Our 8 mo is a beautiful girl with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome and a rare form of dwarfism called Ellis Van Crevald. She has history of seizures, sepsis, hypoxia, has a gtube, wears bipap at night, you name it, we've probably been through it. She's an amazing little girl, but still young and developmentally delayed by 4+ months across the board. I'm really worried about everything that comes into having a second child in general, and since we don't know we it's a heart healthy kid or even genetically "normal" the anxiety is through the roof. Anyone have any advice on anything involving having a second child after the first being special needs?