so as im sure as everyone before me, I'm not pleased to be here, but I am at the same time grateful( to find support and comfort hopefully).
my story:
had DD #1 right at the end of my freshman year of college with DS#1 born right after my nursing boards. DD#2 after DS finally weaned conceived after 4 cycles (at only 22)
been TTC #4 essentially since DD#2 came along ( though a bunch of cycles were NTNP) she was born 6/14 and considering we've been not preventing for so long I'm not sure what has come to be a barrier for us.
were both overweight ( but were when DD#2 was conceived)
DH has since been put on Zoloft ( which has its own set of problems in the bedroom) and am wondering if that's part of the issue
the he hardest thing right now is after 2 losses DH isn't even sure he wants to continue to try for a fourth ( where I'm dead set on it)
sorry for the rant, but I'm newly hopeful on getting to know you ladies as well as conceiving our rainbow baby
#1 DD June 2009
#2 DS July 2011 #3 DD June 2014 CP December 2015 M/C 8/2016 Rainbow & Babe #4 EDD 7.28.18
I'm not sure what to say other than I'm sorry for your losses and there is a LOT of support, comfort, and also great information here.
I'm not sure if you're ready for questions so we can maybe get a little info and help you more? For instance: How old are you? If you've been trying for over a year have you considered an RE? How are you tracking your cycles (or are you)?
If you're not feeling ready for advice/info, that's okay, too Sorry you're here and I hope you get your rainbow baby soon, too
@rainbowturtles I am 25 will be 26 in October. i use FF and have been tracking my bbt as well as secondary signs ( cp and cm)on and off since DS was born but consistently since my previous chemical In December
I do not see a RE currently but wouldn't rule it out in my future
not sure when I will ovulate again and as much as apart Of me is ready to move on to another cycle, the other side wants to grieve and wait before even attempting again...
i feel so conflicted, I want to take time to just be sad but I realize the world is turning and continuing without me and I don't want to miss out on my living blessings and regret not being present for them. But i also don't want to regret not taking time for my loss and giving it the value and grief it deserves...
thank you for listening and welcoming me
#1 DD June 2009
#2 DS July 2011 #3 DD June 2014 CP December 2015 M/C 8/2016 Rainbow & Babe #4 EDD 7.28.18
Also, sorry if any of that info is in your siggy, I'm mobile Bumping and it doesn't show siggies, in case you were wondering why I was asking lol
Be sad as much as you need to. I truly believe you can do both: be present for your children and be present for your grief Both are incredibly important.
I'm so sorry for your loss. The women here are amazing and I hope you find great support.
About me: TTC#1: October 2015 dx: PCOS & MFI IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP July 2016: Blighted Ovum IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN FET February 2017 ~BFN IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17 Team Blue X 2!
Re: Intro ** trigger warning in siggy**
I'm not sure if you're ready for questions so we can maybe get a little info and help you more? For instance:
How old are you?
If you've been trying for over a year have you considered an RE?
How are you tracking your cycles (or are you)?
If you're not feeling ready for advice/info, that's okay, too
Sorry you're here and I hope you get your rainbow baby soon, too
i use FF and have been tracking my bbt as well as secondary signs ( cp and cm)on and off since DS was born but consistently since my previous chemical In December
I do not see a RE currently but wouldn't rule it out in my future
not sure when I will ovulate again and as much as apart Of me is ready to move on to another cycle, the other side wants to grieve and wait before even attempting again...
i feel so conflicted, I want to take time to just be sad but I realize the world is turning and continuing without me and I don't want to miss out on my living blessings and regret not being present for them. But i also don't want to regret not taking time for my loss and giving it the value and grief it deserves...
thank you for listening and welcoming me
#3 DD June 2014
CP December 2015
M/C 8/2016
Rainbow & Babe #4 EDD 7.28.18
Be sad as much as you need to. I truly believe you can do both: be present for your children and be present for your grief Both are incredibly important.
most of the important details were not in there anyways
#3 DD June 2014
CP December 2015
M/C 8/2016
Rainbow & Babe #4 EDD 7.28.18
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
TTC#1: October 2015
dx: PCOS & MFI
IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
July 2016: Blighted Ovum
IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
FET February 2017 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
Team Blue X 2!
Married 5/08
BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
TTCAL 3/16
BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
DS #2 born 12/11/17