TTC After a Loss

TGIF

happy Friday everyone! 

What is everyone up to this weekend? Fill us in!

afm... I am starting the countdown for my FET next week, so adding some progesterone to my hormone cocktail! Other than that DH has a birthday this weekend so trying to find ways to celebrate him and life. The details of that are still unknown, but TBD. 


hope you all have a wonderful weekend!

Re: TGIF

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  • @BornReady hope you and DH have a fun time celebrating his birthday!  And I can't believe your FET is next week, so exciting!!  Keep us posted :)

    @lilylover27 that festival sounds like so much fun!  DH and I love craft beer and we love finding new breweries when we travel.  

    @chloe97 my DH was away for a night last week, and it was oddly kind of amazing.  Not that I don't love spending time with him, but it was seriously so nice to just do whatever.  I hope you enjoy whatever it is you decide to do, whether it's Netflix or out with some girlfriends!

    @RiverSong15 a little pampering is always nice ;) especially when you have an upcoming event!

    ...as for me, not much this weekend {thank God}.  This week DH and I have been watching the Bourne movies so we can go see the new one tonight.  DH wants to go to the zoo tomorrow but 1.) I think it will be too freaking hot, 2.) it will be crowded with tons of kids/babies -- so I am hoping he changes his mind.  Other than that, relaxing, errands, brunch, church.  Happy Friday!!
  • @BornReady so exciting! Hope the progesterone goes well

    @AandDM2014 isn't your beta this weekend??

    Boring weekend. I have DH permission to golf both days since he brought me food last night when I worked until after 11 so open mornings. The dogs get their shots tomorrow then continuing to organize the garage. Sunday: nada. I'm lame right now 
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

  • @chloe97 yes the wedding went well just extremely hot!! Also happy to announce no bites what-so-ever so Zika phobia has subsided. Also I fully support Netflix marathons!
    @riversong15 it is! We went like 3 years ago when they first started it out here but now they have perfected it a little so excited to see it more put together! And yes do the hair! The wedding last weekend is the excuse I used to dye mine for the first time in like 3 years!
    @aera11 love the craft beer and I love cider so it is nice to try some different hard ciders besides what you see in the supermarket!
    Married: June 2011
    TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
    BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
    TTCAL: June 2016
    BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
    Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
      Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • Sounds like some fun plans!

    I'm doing my best to keep my stress low but my little dogs just disappeared on me and I spent half an hour looking for them. They were being soooo good just chilling in the yard with me and then BAM gone. I can't wait til DH builds a fence but I really wish he'd do something temporary in the meantime, because the actual fence will take a while :/  Turns out they were at one of the neighbors visiting their dogs but I worry about them getting hit by a car :(

    Other than that fiasco lol...DH is home tonight :) I think we might have a fire tonight (he's been dyyyyying to and I said no last weekend and he got grumpy lol) and possibly a hike on Sunday. Just hope my neck is feeling better by then or we pick an easy hike. Guess we'll see!
  • TGIF, indeed! Since I got my BFN yesterday, I plan on drinking some cocktails and watching the Olympics Opening Ceremony tonight. I am really excited about the games. DH and I both enjoy them!

    Tomorrow, I am taking one of our dogs to the vet, getting a haircut and some color touched up and then chilling at the house.

    Can't remember what I have posted where, but we discovered a massive leak under our dishwasher two nights ago, so we are in damage control mode right now and have had a remediation company out to start the process of mold removal, etc. So, I will probably spend Sunday cleaning everything out of the kitchen before demo starts. (The damage is significant. We'll be replacing floors and one wall, along with the lower cabinets/counter. I try to keep telling myself, at least I get a new kitchen! :D )

    Good times!

    Very excited for your transfer, @BornReady !!

    So happy the wedding weekend passed with no Zika worries. I was thinking about you last weekend when all the news started to come out about the local cases, @lilylover27.

    @chloe97 I always enjoy when DH is away (it's very rare, so I just don't have the house to myself much at all and it's nice to have a night to chill by yourself!).

    @RiverSong15 Your weekend sounds a lot like mine! Hope you have fun and get to the salon!

    @Aera11 Hope you can talk him out of the zoo. I would be annoyed with the hot and baby-filled zoo on a Saturday in the summer too! Movie def sounds like the better option. :)

    @SnobunnieMel Your DH must be like mine, he will play golf even when it is 100+ degrees outside. Hope you enjoy your quiet mornings!

    @rainbowturtles I freak out if any/all of my dogs get out. I am sure you were terrified! Glad they were found safe!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • @BornReady i hope you and dh have a great weekend celebrating his birthday.
    @lilylover27 craft beer festival sounds awesome, have fun.
    @chloe97 +1 to loving netflix nights and relaxing. 
    @RiverSong15 enjoy the pampering, you deserve it! i need a little pampering time too, hopefully next week.
    @Aera11 i love going to the zoo! i agree going midday is not ideal, we usually go right when they open before the madness starts.
    @SnobunnieMel your weekend sounds so nice and relaxing, just what the dr ordered.
    @rainbowturtles i'm glad you found your dogs safe and sound, so scary!

    I don't have much planned at all this weekend. I'm going to my brothers house tomorrow for a while in the morning to get out of the house so DH can sleep. he's on overnights and hasn't been able to sleep yesterday or today so he really needs a day to sleep tomorrow. maybe i'll take after @Aera11 and go to the zoo on sunday morning. the zoo near me has a new baby penguin so I want to check that out. hope everyone has a great weekend!
    TW*** Child and loss mentioned
    Married 10/12
    DS 11/14
    Ectopic 2/16
    PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
    IUI x 3- BFN
    Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
    IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
    FET- 6/17- BFP!
    Due Feb 15, 2017
  • @SnobunnieMel Yup! My beta is on Sunday morning between 7 and 9:30, whenever I decided to go in, then I'll get the call later that day!
    About us:
    Me - 28, Lean PCOS
    DH - 31
    Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
    Blog: ourbinarystar.com

    FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!

  • edited August 2016
    @fivetimesnoluck Grooooaaaaaaan! So sorry you're on kitchen renos now, too  :s
    @brooklyngirl18 aww baby penguin! :smile:
    @amberruka hooray for being off the bench!

    edited because the emojis continue to annoy me!!!
  • @AandDM2014 are you testing that morning!?!?!?!?
    Me: 30     DH: 31
    Married: 11.12.11
    TTC: Nov 2015
    BFP #1: 1.22.16                 MMC: 2.29.16 ( tetrasomy 11, partial deletion 1, XXX)
    D&C: 3.2.16
    BFP #2: 4.14.16                 CP: 4.17.16
    BFP #3: 6.10.2016             CP: 6.17.2016
    RE appt: 6.27.2016- saline sono all clear
    Chromosome karyotype- Normal both me and DH
    Progenity: + carrier Tay-Sachs, Gaucher's, hemachromatosis. DH: carrier Alpha 1 anti-trypsin
    Clomid + TI Cycle #1: pending  8.15.16
    Fur mom to 2 sled masters: an Alaskan malamute and a malamute wolf hybrid 
    half marathon running, surgery loving trauma hand and reconstructive plastic surgery PA-C
    PCOS, hypothyroid, MTHFR, hx of LEEP in 2006

  • @SnobunnieMel No way. I can't take the stress of HPTs. Just being in the test aisle and holding one at Target today was too much.
    About us:
    Me - 28, Lean PCOS
    DH - 31
    Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
    Blog: ourbinarystar.com

    FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!

  • RiverSong15RiverSong15 member
    edited August 2016
    @AandDM2014 - good luck!!! Props for going beta or bust!! Just thinking about that gives me anxiety, but I am a 9 DPO tester :)
  • @AandDM2014 Good luck! Keeping all my fingers and toes crossed for you!
  • @RiverSong15 Thanks! Yeah, I've just had such bad luck with HPTs, like I've only ever seen a positive twice, and first time was ectopic, second time was chemical. I've seen "not pregnant" flash at me so many times, I can't even remember how many it's been, so I really am not a fan.

    @chloe97 Thanks!

    As of right now, I am firmly in the "it didn't work" mindset. I haven't felt anything in my abdomen for a while, which I know doesn't signify anything, but still bums me out. Hopefully Sunday comes quickly.
    About us:
    Me - 28, Lean PCOS
    DH - 31
    Married June 2010, TTC since March 2014
    Blog: ourbinarystar.com

    FET cycle #3 Transfer July 28th 2016, Triplets born healthy on February 26th 2017 at 33w1d!

  • @AandDM2014 keep us posted for Sunday!

    I just had to share this....what happens when you're benched for 7 months? Last night BD DH POM basically because it's a REFLEX now. Then he was like, "oh, I'm so sorry!" We both started laughing. It's too early anyway, but that was funny.
    Me: 39 DH: 39
    CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
  • Haha funny story @amberruka - crazy what this ttc game does to you!!

    @rainbowturtles I'm so glad puppy made it home. I would freak out. I'm dreaming of a day where we have a safe fenced in yard. Hey - an nyc girl can dream, right?
    @lilylover27 - beer fest sounds fun! I love trying new ones - I have that app "tappd" where you can check in with different beers you try! Right now I'm all about summery fruity ales.

    This weekend is a chill one with not much of anything going on, but I'll take it. last night went out for some drinks, today cleaning and possibly yoga. Take the dogs on long walks!
    Me:35, DH 37  ~ Married July 2014
    ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp)
    bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease)
    ttcal May 2016
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