I will be a single mother with no child support coming. The father is from France and it was a one night stand while traveling abroad. I make enough at my job to support me but after rent, car payments and school loan, there isn't much left over. I have no idea how to pay for child care. I make too much to get assistance from the state but not enough that it would cover child care. I can't quit my job other wise I won't be able to pay rent and my family is 3,000 miles away. Any thoughts?
Re: Middle class-can't afford day care
I started grocery shopping at cheaper stores and also went to thrift stores for clothes, especially for my DD since babies grow so fast, your LO will be in and out of each size pretty quick (or at least my DD was, she's already in the "big kids" section at some places and she's only 3!)
Good luck!!
When I was pregnant, I tried to apply for WIC but I made too much for that. When I applied for subsidized daycare I got a very low rate for a center that was approved on my state's list. There were people going to a top notch center (where we go) paying as low as $36/week ($144/mo). It was weird to me that the state thought that I definitely needed help with daycare but not feeding my kid.
Also, allkidscovered.com provides coverage for all children, regardless of income.
As for the car loan and student loan, is there a number to call to see if you can get your payments temporarily lowered until you can get some more money in? I had a $225 car loan payment due each month up until DD was almost 6mo (car then was paid off) and that I chipped into my tax refund to pay off. Also, I remember hearing (didn't research since it didn't apply to me) that student loans will stop being due if you continue being a student. It's a shitty work-around and might add to the loan (again, no personal experience, so I don't actually know for sure), but maybe you could find an online course to stop the payments from being due...? Again, I'm not sure how great of a plan that is, nor do I know for sure that's something that can be done, I just heard about it.
There is a page on facebook I bring up now and then called The Penny Hoarder. The admin usually posts a lot of ways to make extra money, stuff that he has tried or some of the followers have tried that have turned out to be not scams. I also "like" Budget101, cheap recipes and DIY stuff, and BabyCheapskate, scours the internets for deals on baby items.