Can't wait till September and so I can stop hurting all the time. This is my last baby so I'm trying to enjoy it, but I just can't everything just hurts.
Re: "can't wait to get baby out of me": I think most of us can agree almost everyone says "I want to have a baby", not "I want to be pregnant" when trying to conceive
Re: "can't wait to get baby out of me": I think most of us can agree almost everyone says "I want to have a baby", not "I want to be pregnant" when trying to conceive
well said!
When i try to put myself in my husbands shoes like "we had sex....about 9 months passes..... I drink beer and eat whatever I want, maybe move some furniture. Now there's a baby that's 50% mine! And my body is the same that it's always been, no one needs it for anything unless we want to make another baby! When I laugh or jump, my underpants stay dry!" I can't even imagine. The grass is greener, man.
I'm just crackers about cheese! Seriously though... we have an organic cheese company based locally, and you can go in on Friday's to sample ALL THE THINGS. Soooo guess where I'm going tomorrow :D:D They make their own cheese curds... my Canadian mama's know the absolute sinful amazingness that are cheese curds. GIVE ME ALL THE CHEEEEEESE
@KimmySchmidt and whoever else mentioned it, I am so sick of being tagged in that "challenge"! Even if I wanted to participate in think I stopped taking pictures of just DH and I when DD1 was born 3 years ago. Babies are cuter to take selfies with than husbands, no matter how much you love him.
My SIL did the FB spouse "challenge" and didn't tag me or DH (her brother).
Most of me is happy because it's ridiculous for all the reasons mentioned (and we literally have maybe one digital picture of us together because we both hate having our picture taken), but part of me is wondering if she thinks we don't love each other or something and that's why she didn't "challenge" us.
I am not a fan of having my picture taken at all and my fiancé isn't either. My SIL used to constantly ask us why we never took a million selfies or couple photos together?! Ummm...its been 7 years, we know we love each other and don't need to document every moment with a photo?!
I need to remind myself that these comments came from the girl who likes her boyfriend to match colors in their clothes when they go out so they look good together!
The only legit pictures I have with dh since ds was born are the photo shoots we did for ds. And one selfie we took a few months ago when he complained I never post pictures with him. We both look like doofuses.
Re cheese: When I was pregnant the first time, DH told me verbatim "Cheese does not fix everything." I had the brief thought that I'd clearly married the wrong person.
Re cheese: When I was pregnant the first time, DH told me verbatim "Cheese does not fix everything." I had the brief thought that I'd clearly married the wrong person.
I read this, and caught myself rereading it with a look of absolute disgust on my face.. like it really offended me. This pregnancy is making me SO WEIRD.
My UO is I HATE cheese...except for the cheese in Kraft Mac N Cheese...I know it's not real but I wish they would bottle it up so I could pour it on everything....I do love pizza so Mozzarella doesn't bug me, but most cheese makes me gag
OMG...NOOO! Cheese lover from WI here. My jaw literally dropped.
I agree that if you are married you should love your spouse. Will I participate in the love your spouse? No, because I don't want too, but I don't fault those who do.
So now I do have to admit that I did say something nice about my husband just this week on FB because he made me feel super special on my birthday. I never post about us, but sometimes it's nice to say something nice once and awhile. He did hear it in person many times too.
My UO is I hate my OB. I am actively trying to switch at 36 weeks. He is beloved by many in the area. He has been nothing but rude to my husband and I because we question him (not rudely, but want to know more about things before we agree to them). He is refusing to even discuss my goals for the birth etc.
@rebecca&raphael - that does not sound like an OB i'd like to be with! Good luck in finding someone else!
Thanks, it's pretty toxic with him right now. He keeps giving me a GD diagnosis that is not necessarily accurate. He accused me of lying about what I eat because he doesn't believe my numbers could be that low by eating normal meals. He threatened to call the state on me. I am not a bad patient. However, I am a paid to be an advocate. The first person I will always advocate for is my child. He also sabotaged my appointments with two other doctors who agreed to take my case. He told them I am non-compliant/putting my child at risk/high risk etc.
@Rebecca&Raphael I'm so sorry you're dealing with that, it's so incredibly important to have a practitioner that you feel supported by. I also HATE the term "non-compliant" as a nurse, because people usually slap it on a patient or client that has other factors going on that make them not want to take a certain course or do things a certain way. I know you've had a lot of strife with the whole GD saga, I hope you can find a practitioner who's willing to actually listen to your concerns.
My UO is I HATE cheese...except for the cheese in Kraft Mac N Cheese...I know it's not real but I wish they would bottle it up so I could pour it on everything....I do love pizza so Mozzarella doesn't bug me, but most cheese makes me gag
I can't...I can't get past this. Please list for me the types of cheeses that you've tried. Kraft American does not count. Are these the cheeses youve been exposed to and made your judgement off of? I feel like there's still time to change your mind, lets not give up yet.
Re: UO Thursday
DD 10/4/02
DS due 9/28/16
When i try to put myself in my husbands shoes like "we had sex....about 9 months passes..... I drink beer and eat whatever I want, maybe move some furniture. Now there's a baby that's 50% mine! And my body is the same that it's always been, no one needs it for anything unless we want to make another baby! When I laugh or jump, my underpants stay dry!" I can't even imagine. The grass is greener, man.
Re fox stuff, I had to stop myself from buying this changing pad cover at Target this week
Eta:picture. Mobile, sorry for size. TB app hates me
July: Patriotic Fails
They make their own cheese curds... my Canadian mama's know the absolute sinful amazingness that are cheese curds. GIVE ME ALL THE CHEEEEEESE
Most of me is happy because it's ridiculous for all the reasons mentioned (and we literally have maybe one digital picture of us together because we both hate having our picture taken), but part of me is wondering if she thinks we don't love each other or something and that's why she didn't "challenge" us.
● IUI #2: BFP - early M/C
● IUI #3: BFN
● IUI #4: BFN
● IVF/FET #1 (2 transferred): BFP! TWINS!
● FET #2 (1 transferred): BFP! BOY #3!
● Natural #1: BFP - M/C @ 8 weeks
● Natural #2: BFP - M/C @ 5w5d
I need to remind myself that these comments came from the girl who likes her boyfriend to match colors in their clothes when they go out so they look good together!
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So now I do have to admit that I did say something nice about my husband just this week on FB because he made me feel super special on my birthday. I never post about us, but sometimes it's nice to say something nice once and awhile. He did hear it in person many times too.
Thanks, it's pretty toxic with him right now. He keeps giving me a GD diagnosis that is not necessarily accurate. He accused me of lying about what I eat because he doesn't believe my numbers could be that low by eating normal meals. He threatened to call the state on me. I am not a bad patient. However, I am a paid to be an advocate. The first person I will always advocate for is my child. He also sabotaged my appointments with two other doctors who agreed to take my case. He told them I am non-compliant/putting my child at risk/high risk etc.