Hi everyone, I'm a 1st time mom and we're only 11 wks in but my Hubs and I are super excited to meet bebe. My Hubs has a lot of anxiety, though, about being a good partner to me in labor-- he has ADHD and anxiety. My mom and midwife (and maybe a doula) will be there to help too but I want him to be involved and feel useful during labor. Any suggestions or resources for 1st time dads? Folks on #2+, how did your partner prepare with you for labor?