Any STMs have an issue with an L&D nurse the first time? My local, rural hospital where I deliver is small with little turnover, so I wouldn't be surprised if she was still there. She didn't do anything wrong per say, she just wouldn't leave me alone, made some odd comments (scolded my mom for rocking my hours-old baby), wanted to give baby sugar water, etc. I legit couldn't get her to leave my room and it was very stressful. I would prefer to not have her again, but don't want to come off as "that mother". I certainly don't want to offend anyone, but we just weren't a good fit. I know it's totally my prerogative to request to not have her. Any ideas on the most appropriate way to do so?