Well I am at the ER right now, I have had spotting for two days now and they couldn't find a heartbeat and baby hasn't grown for two weeks. I am 8 weeks 4 days today and no where close to that. We decided to try the pill that is supposed to move things along, I really hope it works and we can try again soon.
My fiancée and I are absolutely crushed, I have never lost a baby before and it is a horrible experience. I honestly don't know how to function, I feel like I don't know what to say to my fiancée. I want to comfort her but I am so sad myself. This is such a confusing situation and heartbreaking.
Thanks for the laughs and having somewhere to vent. I wish you all a happy and healthy nine months and hopefully I will be checking in from another BMB soon.
I'm so sorry you're going through this right now. I hope you and your fiancée can find comfort through each other somehow. I wish you didn't have to deal with this. I hope everything works out for you for the next time around, hopefully in the near future. Here to talk if you need somebody.
So sorry to hear. I hope you and your fiance are able to lean on each other through this difficult time. Take care of yourself, I will be thinking of you.
I am so, so sorry. All the hugs and comfort to you right now. You are not alone, you didn't do anything wrong. I found comfort and closure writing letters to the little one and making a couple of scrapbook pages with little mementos and such. Much love to you, this will never ever be easy! If you need or want to talk, I'll be here, as will many others who have gone through it too. Hugs.
I am so so sorry. Please take care of yourself and take the time to heal. I am in the same situation as you are and just experienced a loss. If you ever want to talk, please send me a message.
About me: TTC#1: October 2015 dx: PCOS & MFI IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP July 2016: Blighted Ovum IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN FET February 2017 ~BFN IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17 Team Blue X 2!
I'm so sorry. It is the worst, but please know it was nothing you guys did and a lot of us have unfortunately gone through the same thing. Take care of yourselves.
BFP #1: DD born on 08.25.12
BFP #2: 09/08/15 miscarried at 6w
BFP #3: DD2 born on 02.07.17
Re: *TW* I'm out
Ben and Maggie - 4/10/09
Mia - 6/16/11
Surprise! due 2/23/17
Married: October, 19, 2015
EDD 2/22/17 DS1 born on 3/2/17
EDD 3/8/20 DS2 born on 3/10/20
EDD 11/24/23
(Formerly Marriedhamstermom Feb ‘17)
TTC since January 2016
BFP - 3/12/16 - MC 4/5/16
BFP - 6/11/16
First BFP: 12/16/13
EDD: 08/23/14
Baby BOY born: 08/29/14
Big Bro 7/14/13
Little Bro 2/6/17
BFP #1 8/4/2015, MMC 9/24/2015
DD 2/13/2017
BFP #3 8/24/2017, MC 9/20/2017
BFP #4 11/14/2017, CP
BFP #5 1/5/2018, MC/BO 2/17/2018
BFP #6 7/15/2018, CP
BFP #7 12/15/2018, EDD 8/28/2019
TTC#1: October 2015
dx: PCOS & MFI
IUI #1 w/Femara + Ovidrel June 2016 ~ BFP
July 2016: Blighted Ovum
IUI #2 w/Femara + Ovidrel September 2016 ~BFN
IUI #3 w/Femara + Ovidrel October 2016 ~BFN
IUI #4 w/Femara + Ovidrel November 2016 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI January 2017 ~BFN
FET February 2017 ~BFN
IVF with ICSI March 2017 ~BFP--Twins Due 12/8/17
Team Blue X 2!