TWATWAFFLE Tuesday!!

cal031686

Hubby wins the twatwaffle award today (and everyday lately)!! I am BEYOND frustrated with him!!! He has a part time job that he works overnights on the weekends..... that's it!!  It clearly doesn't help with bills.  And lately hubby hasn't been helping keep the house in order! Hello, dude, extra body to feed, clothe, and shelter coming in T Minus 4 weeks!! You need to step up your game LAST MONTH!!! I've told him and written out lists of what he needs to be doing on his FIVE days off every week!! That list does NOT include sleeping away the f*$&ing day everyday while I bust my @$$ to keep everything barely in order and taking care of 3yr old DD. At this point I'm thinking it's almost easier to just be me, DD, and baby. Some Days it feels that way already! 
Sorry to rant and vent to you ladies but I try not to talk negative and air dirty laundry about our private life to IRL friends. But I need to get it out and talking to him is like a brick wall lately. 

jamiesc58

@cal031686 sorry you have to deal with that! Good luck!!!

Knottie1445647715

I hope he gets it together soon. 

sbelle474

@cal031686 I am sorry to hear that.  I think he must be related to my DH.  DH works part time too, and stopped doing housework, because he "mows" the yard.  It took him over a month to put the crib together, and he is quitting the job in a few weeks to go back to school... Such a hard life.  Will be praying your situation gets much, much better, and your stress is alleviated!!!!

cal031686

Thanks ladies. I tried talking to him again last night about how I'm feeling like I'm carrying the weight with everything. He did do some of the list last night while I tried to sleep. We will see if he continues to help or if it's another in one ear out the other to smooth things over for the minute.