You should ask your doctor as it can vary depending on your circumstances (MFI comes to mind as a reason you might be told to abstain). My RE has told us to BD the night of the trigger shot (36 hrs pre IUI), abstain the night before the IUI, and then BD the evening after the IUI. GL!
About me: /loss mentioned/ TTC#1 July 2014 dx: MFI (morphology) IUI #1 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Sept. 2015 ~ BFN IUI #2 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Halloween 2015 ~ BFN IUI #3 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Thanksgiving 2015 ~ BFP!! hb 146 bpm at 7w5d 1/28/16 ~ began to say goodbye to our beautiful baby at 11w d&c, followed by cytotec TTCAL April 2016 IUI #4 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Apr. 2016 ~ BFN IUI #5 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ CP IUI#6 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ BFN
My clinic said we could BD right up until night before IUI (for 3pm IUI). We have no MFI though, so would think it may be different with that.
Me (34) DH (35) Married 08/09/2014 Dermoid cyst removal resulting in loss of right ovary & ft Feb 2011 Off HBC Oct 2014 TTC #1 since Oct 2014 diagnosed with NAFLD Nov 2014 Working with RE as of March 2016 IUI Cycle #1 Mar/Apr 2016 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFN IUI Cycle #2 Apr/May 2016 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFN IUI Cycle #3 May/Jun 2016 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFP @ 11dpiui/dpo (06/10) Beta #1 (06/15) only 37 - Early M/C 06/20 "Natural" cycle Jun/Jul 2016 Jun 2016-Jan 2017 - ON A BREAK - NTNP - started acupuncture 2x per month Oct 2016-Jan 2017 and taking COQ10 IUI #4 Feb 2017 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFP on 02/20 at 9dpo! Beta #1 3w6d 248, Beta #2 4w1d 565, Beta #3 5w2d 13,359 EDD - Nov 4/2017
We are dealing with male factor infertility as well and were told to BD the eve of trigger shot, 24-36 hrs before IUI. We didn't do anything after IUI because I was on vaginal progesterone and my Dr asked us to abstain.
Re: Abstinence and iui
/loss mentioned/
TTC#1 July 2014
dx: MFI (morphology)
IUI #1 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Sept. 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #2 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Halloween 2015 ~ BFN
IUI #3 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Thanksgiving 2015 ~ BFP!!
hb 146 bpm at 7w5d
1/28/16 ~ began to say goodbye to our beautiful baby at 11w
d&c, followed by cytotec
TTCAL April 2016
IUI #4 w/Clomid + Ovidrel Apr. 2016 ~ BFN
IUI #5 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ CP
IUI#6 w/Clomid + Ovidrel ~ BFN
Married 08/09/2014
Dermoid cyst removal resulting in loss of right ovary & ft Feb 2011
Off HBC Oct 2014
TTC #1 since Oct 2014
diagnosed with NAFLD Nov 2014
Working with RE as of March 2016
IUI Cycle #1 Mar/Apr 2016 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFN
IUI Cycle #2 Apr/May 2016 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFN
IUI Cycle #3 May/Jun 2016 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFP @ 11dpiui/dpo (06/10) Beta #1 (06/15) only 37 - Early M/C 06/20
"Natural" cycle Jun/Jul 2016
Jun 2016-Jan 2017 - ON A BREAK - NTNP - started acupuncture 2x per month Oct 2016-Jan 2017 and taking COQ10
IUI #4 Feb 2017 (100mg Clomid CD3-7) - BFP on 02/20 at 9dpo! Beta #1 3w6d 248, Beta #2 4w1d 565, Beta #3 5w2d 13,359
EDD - Nov 4/2017
Unexplained Infertility- Postive for MTHFR Gene Mutation
Natural cycles with 1 miscarriage
-3 IUI's w/ Clomid= BFN
-IVF #1-Follistim and Menopur= BFN
***11 Eggs, 10 mature, 8 fertilized, transferred 1 (day 5) 2 made it to freeze
-FET #1- Transferred 2, day 5 embryos =BFN
-IVF #2- Follistim and Menopur = BFN
***11 retrieved, 8 mature, 6 fertilized, transferred 2 (day 3), 4 made it to freeze (Follistim and Menopur) = BFN
-FET #2- Transferred 2, day 3 embryos = BFN
**Changed doctor**
-IUI #4- natural cycle = BFN
-IUI #5- Follistim (5 eggs) BFP- lead to Miscarriage
-Laproscopic Surgery for Endometriosis, Polyp removal and Cyst removal.
-IVF #3- Menopur, Follistim, Lupron, Ganirellex- BFP lead to Eptopic Pregnancy
***11 Eggs retrieved, 10 Mature, 8 fertilized, transferred 3 embryos (day 3), 0 made it to freeze
-Lapropscopic surgery- Removal of Fallopian Tube
-IVF #4- Estrogen Priming with Vivelle dot, Menopur, Follistim, Ganirellex- BFP
***15 Eggs retreived, 11 mature, 11 fertilized, 2 embryos transferred (day 3), 2 made it to freeze
Found out I was positive for MTHFR Gene Mutation during TWW of IVF #4
Diagnosed with unexplained infertility
IUI #1- April '16 - BFN
IUI #2 - May '16 - BFN
IVF Fresh Xfer #1 (1 blastocyst) - Sept '16 - BFN
FET #2 - 11/8/16 (2 blastocysts) - Beta on 11/18
4 more blastocysts on ice