Hey everyone! Who's doing something fun this weekend? Who's relaxing?
Happy Jean Baptiste Day to any Quebecers who might be lurking!
Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13

TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD:
10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
Re: TGIF June 24th
Saturday we're having my oldest friend and her sweet bf over for a BBQ. We've known each other since we were 12. She's a bit flighty and getting together with her can be extremely frustrating, but she's wonderful company. She's also a hoot, having gone to law school in the UK - her already potty mouth came back with delightful new turns of phrases that shock and amuse. Her bf was raised in Texas, so he has soft manners that we don't see up in Canada all that often. She went vegan a year and half ago (without my food influence) so it's just funny how we've spent all these years apart and our lives have converged on so much of the same. Was thinking of making a cheesecake, but don't have a reliable recipe. We got a sparkling Riesling at the market, so we'll do our first sparkling tasting with them.
Sunday I'm going to spend some time working on my website. The farmers I fed asked for a recipe (!!!!) for something that I had just thrown together. Lucky I write down every new I do when I'm doing it in case it's delicious. It was a tarragon green apple coleslaw, but I thought it looked thin, so I threw quinoa in the last moment. I don't even like quinoa very much, it's in the pantry for DH, but it cooks faster than anything else I could think of. Figures. Hopefully doing some work on the garden, too.
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
@reneeannemm I'm glad you get to spend time with your dear friend, it sounds like it will be a fun filled evening. Also, so exciting that the farmers want the recipe!
As for me. We are heading up to the camper this weekend. We were looking forward to a nice night to ourselves but that has been kyboshed yet again. We have not had a weekend alone since the beginning of May, which for us is a long time. Our friends have campers in the same spot we do and we just a found out they're going out this weekend too. I love our friends, but I am disappointed it won't be just DH and I. But it'll still be fun.
DH works a rotating schedule where he works a week away and then has a week home and during week nights when he's home we're usually busy and don't spend real quality time together.
DH wants to plant some flowers this weekend, I have been very much slacking on the flower planting this year, whoops. So that'll probably happen on Sunday. As I've said before, if it's not food my interest just isn't there lol.
Me: 26 DH: 28
TTC #1 since 06/2014
BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17
This weekend is the Art Fair in Des Moines, so I'll probably try to check that out some time with friends. Unfortunately, DH works all weekend, so I likely won't be roaming around, taking in all the pretty artistic sights and yummy foods with him.
It's my best friend's birthday, tomorrow, and she's throwing a shindig at her house. They're moving out at the end of the month, so it'll be jarring to see everything packed up in boxes. It'll be an interesting summer to see them living at her DH's parents' house while their new home is being built. I'm a little envious that they're getting a brand new house in a new suburb by the end of the year.
AND I am also doing the legacy challenge! My game glitches out and refuses to save 50% of the time, but I just keep on going. On the third generation right now.
@roper2617 Hopefully you can steal away some intimate moments!
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
@roper2617 hopefully you and DH can have some alone time this weekend even with friends there!
@dubcompanion sorry DH is working all weekend but sounds like the art fair will be fun!
We haven't really planned out our weekend yet, it is one of those rare weekends where we haven't committed to something in advance! I have my boot camp early tomorrow morning but then after that absolutely nothing is planned! Maybe we will finally go check out the big summer flea market that we have been meaning to go to! We can't go on the outer beach with the Jeep right now because it is closed due to bird nesting, but maybe we can still go to the beach any. Who knows! Only thing I know is I am desperate to be outside this weekend, whether it be shopping at the flea market or relaxing on the beach, I just need to be outside!
TTC #1: September 2015-January 2016
BFP #1: 1/25/16 - MMC Diagnosed 3/22/16
TTCAL: June 2016
BFP #2: 8/26/16 - EDD 5/9/17
Jackson born 5/6/17 at 8:36 PM - 9lbs 5oz & 21in
I'm onto the second generation now of my legacy (almost third, if I can find a suitable partner for one of the sons). My short attention span makes me go back and forth between that and my "for fun" families. I've played The Sims since the original, and this is the first legacy challenge I'm taking on.
@roper2617 have fun camping! I wish we had a camper...it's tent camping for us! Sorry you won't get to be alone with DH all weekend but hopefully your friends will be respectful of your limited time together and give you some alone time.
@dubcompanion I love art fairs! That sounds like fun. Sorry DH is working all weekend. My DH goes out of town a lot and I know what it's like to get stuck doing things on your own.
DH is finally back from a work trip (he came home last night) so I am excited to spend time with him. It looks like he will have the weekend off too which rarely occurs. He is going to run to an open house with his mom and I am going to my mom's to spend time with my brother and niece. My little home town has a summer festival this weekend and we plan on swimming in my mom's pool, walking to the festival, and then watching the fireworks at night. DH will meet me back at my mom's house and will spend time with us too. I am supposed to go to a baby shower for my niece's aunt but I'm really struggling with it. She has two babies and didn't want another. She was using an IUC and I guess it malfunctioned and she ended up pregnant. Must be nice. I can't get pregnant will all of the planning in the world and she gets pregnant on birth control. I know I shouldn't be bitter but I'm thinking of just sending a gift and skipping out. I'd rather spend time with DH.
Anyways, enough of being a downer. I am actually really looking forward to this weekend and enjoying our beautiful weather!
@roper2617 i totally understand your disappointment and wanting some alone time with DH. I hope you guys can find some time to hang out just the 2 of you.
@dubcompanion have fun at the Art fair!
@lilylover27 I hope you find some fun outdoor activities for the weekend, it's supposed to be gorgeous weather.
@MooFish2364 your plans sound lovely, I don't blame you for wanting to skip the shower.
this weekend is quite busy for me. I'm having dinner with my parents tonight, tomorrow is family day at DH's school, followed by DHs friends bbq, followed by heading out to the beach since DHs family is in town. We will probably stay late at the beach sunday night and then drive home which will make next week more hectic but that's ok. I usually like having low key weekends to prepare for the week but everything this weekend will be fun and worth it. and of course we need to find time to bd
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
@roper2617 Have a great time camping!
@dubcompanion I love art fairs!
@lilylover27 Being at the beach sounds awesome! I am jealous.
@MooFish2364 Enjoy time with your DH!
@brooklyngirl18 Sounds like you have a fun filled weekend planned!
For me, no real plans this weekend. I have to work on Saturday and Sunday (I work at a hospital so unfortunately have to work weekends every couple months) so it kind of puts a damper on our activities. Have a big honey do list for DH to do while I'm at work
@roper2617 too funny, that's exactly how I feel about gardens! We don't get to do a garden this year because of the move but when we were talking about it DH was talking about flowers and I said if I couldn't eat it, I wasn't interested! Bless him; he then started googling "edible flowers" lol
@dubcompanion enjoy the art fair and your friend's birthday!
@lilylover27 I hope you get to the flea market and/or the beach!
@MooFish2364 hooray for DH being back! But boo for the baby shower; I'd have a hard time with that one, too
@brooklyngirl18 good luck with your busy weekend and finding time to BD!!
Well, DH was only able to contact me once this week to tell me that he'll be back Saturday instead of today. I have no idea what time and things tend to change a lot anyways so it could even be today but I doubt it lol Regardless, I'm looking forward to him being home, it's the first trip he's been on without any cell signal or wifi!
As for plans, I imagine it will be more unpacking and setting up the new house. I can't wait til we actually get to do something fun on a weekend again! He should get Monday off, too, so maybe we can squeeze something fun in there. If not, just some alone/intimate time will be nice
Today I'm going to work on the kitchen a bit more and then on destressing. I don't know if it's since the mc or the break-in or a combination but I've just felt angry a lot more recently and I'm not typically an angry person. It's happened after traumas in the past so I'm going to work on it!
Today I am at a coworkers house. We're going to go swimming when we stop being lazy.
Tomorrow I am gaming while DH is at work, and then we're going to see a movie with my friend and her fiancé, and my SIL and her fiancé.
Sunday I'm hoping is just a day for DH and I to finally relax together because our schedules have been completely opposite in terms of who's home and who's working over the last week and a half. I want to do a big summer clean but we'll see how the day goes.
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
@allysondunn2 I haven't been to a waterpark in a while! Have fun there AND BDing
@roper2617 - camping sounds like fun!
@dubcompanion - the art fair sounds like fun - I love stuff like that!
@lilylover27 - I love free weekends. Have fun with whatever you decide to do!
@MooFish2364 -Im sorry you have a baby shower this weekend and the circumstances of that one seem particularly rough. I know I would have a hard time with that.
@brooklyngirl18 - I know it can be so hard to BD when you are busy, lol!
@allysondunn2 - Little getaways are the best -have fun!
Tonight after work Im going shopping and out for dinner with my Mom. My Mom has been such a big support throughout all of this and I always feel so much better about everything after spending time with her. Tomorrow we have a graduation party for my cousin. Sunday we are going to go out to dinner to celebrate our anniversary 6/27 (Monday) will be six years together and we got engaged on that day 4 years ago and we got married on 6/28 3 years ago. So we have a lot to celebrate! lol
@MooFish2364 I hope the shower goes smoothly for you, if you go.
CP 1/25/16 4.5 weeks, developed Graves' disease
@TScalei Happy Anniversary and have an awesome weekend with all the celebrations!
@amberruka That's awesome you got to see it! We saw Garrison Keillor perform when he came to Des Moines. It's so amazing to them live, and they sound even better than on the radio (which we didn't realize was even possible).
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
@MooFish2364 Don't blame you one bit for considering skipping.
@amberruka Nice to see you around.
@TScalei Happy anniversary!
@allysondunn2 *Cue the 90s sitcom sexy woo noise*
@rainbowturtles I demand you fit something fun in! Renos and moving are so stressfull! Entertaining is my fav! I get to control how and when I socialize and exercise creative muscles. Hospitality is so, so important to me as a value, too.
@lilylover27 Have fun outside and don't forget the sunscreen!
Have fun everyone that I missed, I keep scrolling up and down to see who I forgot to tag and it's just not sinking into today.
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
@dubcompanion That's exactly what it's like. And that's why I love it so much. It's a legitimate cross between the two games and it can suck you in and absorb alllll of your free time.
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
TTC 09/15
*TW Loss mentioned*
BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
TTCAL 3/2016
Acupuncture 11/16
Dx December 2016: unexplained
January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
BFP #2 01/30/17 Please be a sticky baby!
EDD: 10/15/17 Measuring ahead! 10/12/17
Ambrose born on his due date!
ETA: those two I suggested are both for 3DS!
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
PS: I'm a teacher too!
Also of course now I have to ask; what do you teach?!
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
Do you teach particular grade levels or math subjects, or do you get to shake things up each school year?
Also - I'm going to try out Harvest Moon ANB first.
Maybe I'll get so wrapped up in the game, I won't have the TWW crazies!
Also, that Amazon delivery basically sounds like the perfect combination of things. I hope ANB can take away the TWW crazies for you, though let's be honest, we know very few things can actually do that
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
@AliciaGoose & @dubcompanion I used to work as a paraeducator during college & grad school. I did it for 8 years and worked with students with severe autism. I spent most of my time in elementary but also worked at the middle school and preschool levels.
Im finally finished with my horrendous workweek and have a weekend off finally. I'm still dealing with ulcer pains, but all my bloodwork came back wonderful. I'm supposed to do 2 weeks minimum of medications and go from there. If I'm not feeling better I go to GI and will probably need a scope and H. Pylori testing. My doc left it up to me if we wanted to bench ourselves this cycle or not. We had mostly decided on benching, but had a whoops on Wednesday, so more like NTNP I guess. I got a positive OPK today and so that would make our timing -3, so there's a small chance. If in the slim chance I'm KU this cycle I will just keep up with the meds since they are essentially pregnancy safe and deal. DH and I have decided that after two losses, we can't control life and therefore whatever happens happens. I'm at peace with that. We have nothing major planned this weekend except some minor house projects.
@reneeannemm I hope you have a lovely BBQ with your friend tonight!
@roper2617 I love your comment about food. I love food as well...cooking and eating. I hope your camping is fun and you get lots of quality time with DH.
@dubcompanion Sorry you won't get much time with DH. Sounds like you have fun things planned, though.
@lilylover27 I hope you get lots of outside time this weekend! The weather is going to be lovely where I'm at, I hope it's the same for you!
@MooFish2364 I don't blame you for wanting to skip on the shower. Especially for a third child, to boot. I hope you have a great weekend regardless.
@brooklyngirl18 Sounds like you have fun things planned, hope you find time to HIO!
@rainbowturtles Moving and renos are stressful. I hope you find time to relax in all your business.
@AliciaGoose Welcome to these parts. I hope you get some nice quality time with DH.
@TScalei Happy anniversaries of all your things!
@amberruka Planting rosebushes sounds stressful. I inherited many at my house and actually want to pull them out this fall (not because they aren't pretty, but previous owner thought they'd be great out front where many small children run by).
@allysondunn2 A waterpark weekend sounds awesome! Enjoy!
Im sorry if I've missed anyone. I've missed you all this week.
Also, huge LOL's to the gamers here. I'm terrible at most video games but am quite good at Mario Kart on the WiiU. I'm in need of easier games that don't require mad skills.
My goal is to teach high school eventually. 5th grade used to be the oldest I wanted to teach, but with each higher grade, I find the students to be even more fun and amazing. My classroom is next to preschool and kindergarten (we're a really small school district), and whenever I hear them screaming and throwing tantrums, I know I definitely prefer to deal with B.O. and hormones!!
Haha, I can just see my thought process this time next week: "I'm going to finish this farming task, and then maybe POAS. No no, I just POAS 2 farming tasks ago!"
@MooFish2364 I worked as a paraeducator while getting my MA in SPED. It's fascinating to work 1:1 with students with severe autism. Each of them has his/her own method of communication that may look like nothing to the common eye (and at times it is), but it's amazing once you learn what their own 'language' is - and when possible, how to teach them to use it constructively and to hopefully eventually teach them more conventional means of communication. I've worked with students with autism so severe that they are nonverbal. The students with autism that I have now are high-functioning (basically Aspergers back when it was called such), and it's fun to teach them social and adaptive behavior skills.
@Wishilivedinflorida Great to see you back in these parts, friend!! I'm also happy to hear that your bloodwork came back great. And man, I will never knock Mario Kart! Great game series since the SNES!
@dubcompanion So as I said above I was an instructional assistant in an integrated preschool program for a while in college. And in high school and college I worked at before and after school programs with preschoolers and elementary schoolers. People always assumed that because I did that I wanted to teach elementary. Nope! That was never in the cards for me. I enjoyed my time there but I agree BO is better than temper tantrums! How long will your program for the high school cert take to complete? My friend who's mom is a first grade teacher and I talk all the time about how if you compared our jobs (teaching high school) to her job you would never believe that we actually have the same profession because our days would look so different!
Also I'm so disappointed in myself, I forgot my 3DS at home and now my day of relaxing by the pool and then coming inside to play story of seasons can't happen! Ugh. But seriously I know the urge to POAS is going to be so strong this summer being home all the time. Good luck! Maybe you can melt hours away into ANB and forget about the sticks! (Ha!)
@Wishilivedinflorida Thank you! Also don't knock your skills, Mario kart is intense! I'm actually not as good at it on the new consoles. I peaked with Mario Kart 64.
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16
But yeah, whenever I tell people I teach SPED, they're like, "You have so much patience!" And then even more shocked when I tell them I teach middle school. But lower elementary? THAT, to me, takes a crap load of patience - at least for me it does. Honestly, how many times can you tell Bobby (who has no disabilities and is just a normal kid) to take his hands out of his pants for the millionth time without finally snapping?? At least with middle school to high school, you only need to tell them to straighten up a few times before consequences kick in. They'll whine but they know what they did. That's that!
No kidding - teachers are such a diverse group of professionals. And even though elementary is also not your bag, it's cool that, because of your background experience, you can conceivably walk into a classroom of basically any age and be able to teach them. You mentioned before that SPED teachers are versatile, and I think all teachers are to an extent. That being said, I would fail HARD at doing your job day after day! I once got frustrated when trying to figure out a complicated Algebra problem, and my 8th grade student was like, "Mrs. D, do you need to go to your safe place?"
You live in a town where the villagers are animals. You make a living and build up your house by doing odd jobs for your neighbors: fishing, catching bugs, digging up fossils, etc. There are all sorts of activities to do to make money or to just collect things. It's a chill kind of game, and it does work in real time. Stores in town are open during business hours of your actual day, and it's night time when it's your night time. (That said, I have "cheated" at times and changed the settings on my 3DS so the store stays open a little longer!
And yep, you mainly just walk around so even uncoordinated selves can master it!
@reneeannemm @AliciaGoose Feel free to add on.
Yeah, you can neglect it. I will go on a playing-binge for weeks at a time and then forget about it for months. The worst that'll happen is weeds will grow in your town, which is only a big deal if you're trying to plant pretty gardens and to have a good-looking town. Also, if you're away for long absences, neighbors may move away. Each of them has his/her own personality, so even though they're just video game characters, you tend to like some more over others. Oh also, there'll be bugs in your house that you have to squash. It's kinda fun though, if you're into that sort of thing.
*edited to add words
Also with the SPED thing, it is so true how different they are. And you're right every teacher is versatile. For me I can literally teach any math subject and each class will look way different than the other. And I am also certified middle school and can technically teach as low as 5th grade. I honestly believe every teacher has a different job and that's what's so amazing about the career as a whole!
Married: November 2015
TTC#1: January 2016
BFP: 5/02/16 - MC: 5/27/16