I miscarried this weekend at 10 weeks. No one ever talks about miscarriages, how physically painful they are, or about the guilt. How do you move on from the guilt? I feel guilty that I didn't drink enough water while pregnant. I feel guilty that I was so active. I feel guilty about everything, but most of all, I feel guilty that instead of giving my lost baby a proper burial, I flushed it. I was in so much pain that I was vomiting, I was sweaty, DH was calling through the bathroom door insisting that I didn't look at what I was going to see. I panicked and I flushed. It's only been a couple of days but I can't get it out of my head. DH later told me that while he doesn't blame me for flushing, he doesn't think it was the right thing to do. I feel so awful. Does this feeling ever go away?