I just need to vent lol I received an invitation to a bridal shower a few weeks ago and replied that I was going. We just received the wedding invitation and it was addressed to just DH and I so I wasn't sure if DS was invited so i started to question if i could bring him to the shower or not. I called the mother of the bride (she's hosting) and she left me a message stating that the bridesmaids aren't bring their babies so she said that I can't bring DS. It was not stated on the shower invite that it's adults only! Am I wrong to be upset? I understand people having adult only parties but please specify on the invite. Now DH has to change all his plans at the last minute.