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Back here after 2nd loss TW

Hi all:

I was a sporadic poster in this board December-February this year. My husband and I just suffered our 2nd loss in 6 months. This one was due to Triploidy (maternal) which we were diagnosed with at 12 weeks. We are beyond devastated. 

Im turning 37 in 2 weeks and my dreams of 2 children are quickly diminishing. I'm very very worried my eggs are bad. I've always had a bad pen/plastic chewing habit. I stopped completely when starting to TTC, but I'm worried that the BPA exposure has left me with only bad eggs left. We start working with an RE after I get my first period.

TTC after 2 losses at 37 is such a mindf$&@. I have no time to wait and I'm scared to death of getting pregnant again. I'm already thinking about egg donors. The good news is that I can get pregnant, I'm trying to focus on that, but it's hard.
Age 39, H 38

Married 8/15

Pregnancy #1, MMC, D&C November/December 2015
Pregnancy #2, Dx with Triploidy at 12 weeks, MMC, D&C May 2016
Pregnancy #3 BFP 10/20/2016- EDD 7/01/2017
DD was born on June 26, 2017
Pregnancy #4 CP 4/2018
Pregnancy #5 BFP 9/13/2018, EDD= 5/27/2019

Re: Back here after 2nd loss TW

  • @chloe97 I am so very sorry for your loss and for your worries. I'm glad you are here - these ladies are amazing support. That you can get pregnant is fabulous! Focus on that and listen to your RE  <3
    Formerly ahrains
    Me: 42 | DH: 45
    TTC since Dec. 2014
    BFP #1 Oct. 2015 | MC Nov. 2015
    Sept. 2016: FSH, AMH, E2, TSH, etc. all normal. | Oct. 2016: HSG all clear! | Nov. 2016: Hysteroscopy & H's SA both great results
    Dec. 2016 - Follistim + TI
    BFP #2 12/25/16 | Natural MC 2/13/17 | False BFP leads to D&C 4/20/17 | Emergency D&C + hysteroscopy 5/16/17
    <3 The road probably ends here <3 

  • So sorry to hear about the loss, I'd wondered where you went (yay to being able to get pregnant!). I know several women in their 20s who have suffered 2 or even 3 losses before carrying a healthy baby full term (and I see it at work all the time), so try not to feel too bad about the age part of it. 

    good luck with the RE and welcome back to the board. (Although I feel sad in saying that :( )
    Me: 39 SO: 36

    Dx: low progesterone, possible DOR - officially "unexplained"

    TTC#1 since November 2015
    9/16/2016 IUI#1 - BFN
    10/12/2016 IUI#2 - BFN
    1/21/2017 Clomid/IUI#3 - BFN
    March 2017 IVF: BFP! (beta#1 191, beta#2 378!) - it's a boy! DS born 12/6/2017

    TTC #2 since July 2018
    May 2019 IVF #2: BFP! (beta#1 346, beta#2 646) - vanishing twin at 8 weeks. Baby B still going strong - due 2/8/20!
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  • I am so sorry for your loss. :(
  • Welcome back, I'm sorry for the circumstances, though, and so very sorry for your losses.  
    Me: 41
    Husband: 40
    TTC#1 since 9/2014
    Unexplained Infertility - Trying naturally
  • VastraVastra member
    So sorry for your losses. Hope the RE can help bring about some happy news. 
    Married: 2011
    TTC #1: 3/2016
    Me 39 - DH 44
    BFP 5/27/16 EDD 1/30/17
    DD born 2/3/17
  • I'm so sorry for your loss and hope that your time here is short. I agree with the PP - please don't blame yourself. We all have good eggs and bad eggs in the queue. Your RE can help assess what the best options are for you to grow your family. Taking that step was inevitable for DH and I and having a plan gave us hope.
  • KT&JohnKT&John member
    I'm so sorry for your losses. Glad to hear you are working with an RE. Hope your stay here is short and with some time you are able to be free of any blame you have placed on yourself.
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    DD- 9
    c/p- April 2016
    missed m/c- 6w5d; discovered 8w2d- September 2016

  • @chloe97 I am so very sorry for you loss
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