@mrsstuessy You are getting no hate from me, sorry you took it that way. I had no idea that is how it happened for you with #1. You were taking BC at the time and only missed one? That is definitely a legit reason to be shocked.
@PepperAT Sorry to just be a whiney whiner. Yes, it was at Christmas time and we were visiting family and driving all around. I had to double up a couple times in one week and then straight up forgot one. Apparently that was enough. I was 22, in college and the first word out of my mouth after the pink lines was f***. I quickly got over that though, thankfully.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
@mrsstuessy wow I didn't know that either! And I was just observing that there seems to be an overwhelming amount of people who say they were shocked on the intro threads on the BMB's and I find it hard to believe that that many of them were so shocked, but your situation is definitely shocking! Definitely no hate here
@Schumerator No worries. I'm just glad you aren't charging me with pitchforks. I 100% agree with you about the ridiculous amount of surprise pregnancies on the BMB. Life is crazy, huh? You better believe we were all about those condoms for a couple years after that.
Me: 28 year old SAHM/Birth Doula DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
Married: October 8, 2011
DD1: September 24, 2013 BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016 DD2: April 16, 2017 BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
ok, super duper late the party. My FFFC apparently is that I am sad you all hate me because I was shocked I got pregnant. I mean, I guess I get it. I sort of hate those people now that I am TTC for #2. But, I literally missed one BC pill. So, it was a pretty legit surprise. Now, I do know those people who claim that baby #3 (why does it always seem to be #3?) was such a total surprise, and then I find out that they were having sex and not using BC. I mean, that is just NOT the same thing. I feel like those people give me a bad name. oh well. I am just sitting over here all butt hurt with my feelings out. Feel free to ignore. But, this was was a FFFC post. So, there is my confession.
Same here! I know plenty of people with surprise #3 but DS was conceived the one time I forgot my BCP. The same week I fell off my horse, had spent 50% of the week on horseback working cattle and the other 50% in hospital due to suspected spinal fractures. I didn't think I had the time, energy or pain tolerance for sex that week lol
Me - 22 | DH - 32 | Married - 24 May 2014 DS - January 2014
TTC#2 - December 2015
BFP - 6 March 2016 | MC Confirmed - 21 March 2016 TTCAL | April 2016 CP | June 2016 CP | July 2016
Re: FFFC! 5/20
Here is a cute gif to help you feel better:
10/2/10
Me:29 H: 31
TTC#1: Aug 2015
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/5e3072
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
DH: 30 year old pneumatic electrical engineer
BFP: June 25, 2016 and MC: July 3, 2016
DD2: April 16, 2017
BFP: November 30, 2018 EDD: August 14, 2019
DS - January 2014
TTCAL | April 2016
CP | June 2016
CP | July 2016