I'm sorry and hurt to write this, but I got bad news at my 12 week scan yesterday. I went in at 12w5d, but there was no heartbeat or movement. It was pretty unambiguous. The fetus was measuring on schedule, so it happened less than a couple days ago. Things had looked good at my 8 week scan, a nice strong heartbeat, but I guess it wasn't meant to be. It doesn't seem at all related to the SCH I had earlier in the pregnancy, just got unlucky I guess.
It's a small thing, but I suppose I am grateful that it happened before this scan rather than after. It's painful now, but I can't imagine the hurt if I had gone home thinking everything was okay to only miscarry days later.
This was my first pregnancy, and I'm so sad it ended this way. I'm very thankful for the support from my husband, as well as from the OB office during this time. I'll miss this board- you seem like a great group of kick-ass ladies and I wish I could share your journeys with you.
I do truly wish the best for you and your families, and I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.