I'm sorry and hurt to write this, but I got bad news at my 12 week scan yesterday. I went in at 12w5d, but there was no heartbeat or movement. It was pretty unambiguous. The fetus was measuring on schedule, so it happened less than a couple days ago. Things had looked good at my 8 week scan, a nice strong heartbeat, but I guess it wasn't meant to be. It doesn't seem at all related to the SCH I had earlier in the pregnancy, just got unlucky I guess.
It's a small thing, but I suppose I am grateful that it happened before this scan rather than after. It's painful now, but I can't imagine the hurt if I had gone home thinking everything was okay to only miscarry days later.
This was my first pregnancy, and I'm so sad it ended this way. I'm very thankful for the support from my husband, as well as from the OB office during this time. I'll miss this board- you seem like a great group of kick-ass ladies and I wish I could share your journeys with you.
I do truly wish the best for you and your families, and I hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months.
I am so sorry. It hurts no matter what, but especially this far in when things looked promising earlier. Lots of healing vibes to you. I did find the miscarriage and loss board to be very helpful.
BFP #1 10/30/15 MMC found 11/30/15 D&C 12/11/15 EDD 7/9/16 BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16 BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
healing comes in waves, and maybe today the wave hits the rocks and that’s ok, that’s ok, darling. you are still healing, you are still healing- Ijeoma Umebinyuo, be gentle with yourself
I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you're going through, but know that we're all thinking of you and send our best wishes for you in your healing.
So many big squishy hugs. This sounds so much like what happened with my first loss and my heart is breaking for you. I know you don't know me too well but if you need to talk please pm me.
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BFP #2 3/21/16 Nora Mae born 12/6/16
BFP #3 11/27/20 EDD 8/6/21
Unexplained infertility
NTNP: 10 years!
TTC: Since 2014
5 IUI: BFN
IVF 1: MC
IVF 2: BFP! DD 11/20/16
Awesome Kid #2: Due November 2016!
Georgia 3/15/2012 Matilda 6/12/2014 TWINS!! Babies 3&4 EDD 11/22/2016
Married 8/16/13
BFP#1 DS 11/13/16
BFP# 2 MMC dx @ 13w 10/30/18
BFP# 3 Preemie DD born at 38w (IUGR) on 8/28/19 weighing 5.5lbs. Our little miracle
BFP 3.8.16 EDD 11.20.16
Sweet DD born at 41 weeks Feb 2015
*Diagnosed with lean PCOS*
TWINS due 11/22/2016
3/6/16 BFP
EDD: 11/14/16
DD: 8/20/14; DS: 11/13/16; DD: 5/3/19; DD: 8/31/21; Baby #5 (team green) due 3/24/24
- BFP: 3/10/16 — Baby Girl born 11/20/16
TTC#2 April 2019Married 7/2012
DS born 11/2013
Ectopic , right tube removed 8/2015
BFP 3/2016
After 31 cycles, baby boy K (IUI) born 11/03/11
BFP (Femara) - 08/09/13 m/c around 6 weeks. xoxox Baby April
Rainbow baby girl E (Femara) born 11/16/16
That's heart breaking.
BFP: 2/25/16; DD: 11/6/16
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