Postpartum libido

mrsmtothek

...I have absolutely zero. Maybe its because of LO's presence but DH always seems to want to get it on in front of him and I just cannot jump that mental hurdle of it completely and totally weirding me out. Sex is also the absolute last thing I want when I have free time too. Top three things I want in order of desire are sleep, food, and more sleep. I feel like a horrible spouse. Anyone else going through this??! Ugh.

wildtot

Same here! Last thing on my mind and DH keeps saying how he can't wait till we get the thumbs up (currently 4wks pp)...yeah idk I'd rather sleep and take a long shower/bath.

RoseShadow873

I would not do it in front of the baby. Some people remember things from when they were that young.

Cwyatt2571

Libido ??? Whats that??? Sounds like something i lost around 8 months prego! I feel bad but i so don't feel like doing IT. I feel gross jiggly and sooooo sleepy!

redselig

I feel a desire to be intimate in terms of cuddling on the sofa. I'm 6 weeks PP and I still don't feel up for sex. I also feel strange about any sexual conduct involving breasts. Last thing I want is for them to be fondled.  

wildtot

redselig said:

I feel a desire to be intimate in terms of cuddling on the sofa. I'm 6 weeks PP and I still don't feel up for sex. I also feel strange about any sexual conduct involving breasts. Last thing I want is for them to be fondled.  

I just imagine leaking all over...not sexy

sarahufl

Knottie2891384 said:

redselig said:

I feel a desire to be intimate in terms of cuddling on the sofa. I'm 6 weeks PP and I still don't feel up for sex. I also feel strange about any sexual conduct involving breasts. Last thing I want is for them to be fondled.  

I just imagine leaking all over...not sexy

H tried touching my boobs last night and I had to stop him. Glad I did, because about an hour later, I ended up spraying milk in DDs face. I'm not sure H would've enjoyed that.....

mrsmtothek

redselig said:

I feel a desire to be intimate in terms of cuddling on the sofa. I'm 6 weeks PP and I still don't feel up for sex. I also feel strange about any sexual conduct involving breasts. Last thing I want is for them to be fondled.  

Boobs are absolutely OFF LIMITS. Nope.