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Hey guys...intro

I was on TB a long time ago and just recently decided to come back. In January I got a positive pregnancy test 2 weeks after what I thought was a normal period. The nurse at my dr thought I was nuts, but I knew something wasn't right. I was diagnosed with an ectopic pregnancy January 23 and had emergency surgery that same day to remove a ruptured tube. I was shell shocked at the time, but have been trying to work through my feelings surrounding that. The past few days have been rough (as I'm sure they have been for many of you) and I have been feeling a lot of anxiety. I am happy to be trying again, but terrified at the same time that something will go wrong again. Irrational I know and so many women have been through worse than I have, but it's always in the back of my head. I am working on being optimistic about getting pregnant again as everything I have read says it's just as easy to get pregnant with one tube as it is with two (I am not sure I believe this, but that's another story). I hope that I can provide some support for everyone on this board and look forward to being a part of the community. 
Me: 32 DH: 36
Married 5/08
BFP #1: 1/27/13 DS #1 born 10/16/13
BFP #2: 1/20/16, ectopic discovered 1/23/16
Surgery 1/23/16 to remove ruptured tube
TTCAL 3/16
BFP #3: 3/24/17 EDD 12/5/17
DS #2 born 12/11/17



Re: Hey guys...intro

  • Welcome, @Taggarab - I am sorry for your loss. That sounds like a scary situation! The fear (however irrational) is real and (I think) completely understandable... It is definitely hard to find a balance between optimism and feeling utterly defeated. I hope your stay here is short, but in the meantime, feel free to vent or whine as much as needed. Big hugs to you.

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








  • As PP says - big hugs and welcome to the boards
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



    Pregnancy Ticker






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  • Hello. I'm very sorry for your loss. Welcome.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • I'm sorry you find yourself here, welcome.
  • So sorry for your loss. Hope that you have a short stay here!
    Pregnancy Ticker
  • So sorry for your loss, welcome to the boards- I hope you can find some comfort here! 
    Me: 35      DH: 35
    Married: 8/16/2014
    TTC 6/2015
    BFP #1: 1/2016, MMC 3/2016 (9 weeks)
    BFP #2: 6/2016, DD born 3/1/17 at 39 weeks 1 day 
    BFP #3: 1/2019, CP (4 weeks 1 day)
    BFP #4: 4/2019, Due 12/10/19


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