I am 41, and my husband is 51. Are we too old to adopt? I have a medical issue that can not allow me to carry the baby. However, I live an active and normal life. Please give me your thoughts. TIA
@KatieKate absolutely not!! my mom has friends who adopted later in life - in their mid 40's for her, early 50's for him. They adopted an older child, I think he was 12 or 13 at the time.. what a blessing for that boy - he has an amazing life and is so thankful they decided to adopt him good luck!!!
My friends just finalized a foster to adopt. In those situations the state picks you out, rather than the birth parent and the welfare agents care if you are fit enough to pass a home inspection and be a good parent. Age is not a determining factor as such.
Absolutely not! I work within a child welfare agency and it is families like you that help to give a child a wonderful home. Age does not impact that one bit! Good luck!
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Re: Are we too old?
Children: 1 (girl, 3 years)
TTTC #1 since April 2015, Started Treatment Dec 2015
5 Cycles of IF treatment until BFP! (IUI, Gonal-F, Letrozole)
Born: May 22, 2017
TTTC #2 since September 2020, Currently in Testing phase