A friend of mine has just lost her son at 7 months gestation. I am so upset and horrified for her. I have my own baby, who is approaching 3 months, so I've been keeping my distance somewhat as I assume she does not want to be around moms/babies right now. I have let her know that my family is here for her, and also let her know about "Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep" (which she wasn't interested in). I don't know if she's delivered the baby or not, what happened to her son, if there are any plans for a memorial or funeral. My question is how can I continue to support her without being overbearing? I was planning on sending a condolence card, a gift card for food delivery, and dropping off a gardenia she can plant for him. Is that too much? What do you guys think? Any help you can provide is great.