Trouble TTC

New girl on the block!

Hi folks, I've been TTC for 2 years now, the whole time sure I'd get pregnant eventually and rely on the support of my DH until then, but no more. I appreciate all the support you guys give each other and realize I need to reach out. 

DH and I were both "accidents" and like a lot of you, thought we'd get a BFP right away. No such luck. My HSG and other tests have come back normal, so now just waiting on DHs tests. 

I don't have many close female friends and most of them have no interest in kids, so I have felt pretty alone in this. I also work in an office with about 30 women in their 20s-30s, so I feel like I'm always hearing about another pregnancy. 

Anyway, I'm hoping that you lovely people will help me get through this and I can help some of you too.

My favorite color was always purple and my spirit animal is a turtle, so...

Purple turtle

Re: New girl on the block!

  • Welcome! 
    TTC since May 2013
    Mild PCOS, Compound Heterozygous MTHFR
    No Folic acid/pharmaceuticals/supplements (too many to list- private message me if interested), IVIL infusion
  • I'm sorry you ended up on this board, but welcome! I'm sure all of us can relate to how you are feeling.

    I hope your stay here is short and sweet!


    Me: 30 DH: 33

    Married: February 15, 2013

    TCC: October 2013

    MFI- low count/morphology

    May / June 2016- Monitored cycle and TI- BFN

    June / July 2016- Gonal-F + IUI #1- BFN

    August 2016- Gonal-F + IUI #2-

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  • Hi, I'm sorry you have to be here, but you are very welcome. I know how frustrating it is when it seems like everyone around you is getting pregnant easily. 
    I hope working with an RE proves successful for you :)

    Me 34 DH 36 Married since July 2010 
    MFI (High DNA Fragmentation) & Mild endometriosis
    TTC #1 since June 2015 
    Aug 2016 - May 2017  6 IUI's with letrozole - BFN
    April 2017 - laparoscopy to remove mild endo
    June 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU - Cancelled early ovulation, no eggs retrieved. 
    Aug/Sept 2017 - Mini IVF letrozole 12.5mg, Gonal-F 75IU, cetrotide - 13 eggs retrieved, 11 mature
    5 eggs ICSI'd 6 eggs frozen - 1 day 5 blast transfered, 2 expanded blast frozen - BFP!
    May 2018 - Baby girl born - Our Joy

    TTC #2 since July 2019
    July 2019 - FET - BFN
    Jan 2020 - FET - canceled due to family health issues
    Mar 2020 - FET - low beta - chemical pregnancy
    July 2020 - ICSI'd remaining 6 eggs - 3 fertilized - 2 survived to early blast stage, transfered both - Chemical Pregnancy


  • Hey there and welcome!  I think like me, you will feel grateful for this place :)  I hope the RE provides some answers and a solution.  GL on your DH's results!! <3
    ***BFP & Child Warning***

    Me: 34, DH: 38 ~ TTC since 2014
    IUI #1-3 (Nov 2015, Feb 2016, May 2016) = BFNs
    IVF ER (July 2016) = 7 PGS normal embryos
    FET #1 (Sept 2016) = BFP! DD born 5/30/17
    FET #2 (April 2019) = BFN
    FET #3 (July 2019) = BFP! DS born 3/27/20
  • Welcome! I am Sorry you need a community like this but I'm glad you found us! 
    TW: MMC
    BFP1 12/24/14 - EDD 09/07/15 (D/C 8w1d)
    BFP2 6/12/15 - EDD 2/22/16 (D/C 10w3d)
    ———
    Diagnoses and Treatments
    PCOS (myo-inositol, excercize)
    Indeterminant levels of APS IgM antibodies (baby aspirin)
    Sub-septate uterus (hysteroscopic septoplasty 12/18/15)
    ———
    BFP3 05/02/16 EDD 01/09/17 DS born 01/05/17
    BFP4 01/28/19 EDD 10/?/19 🤞🙏

  • Hello, I am glad you found us!  My spirit animal is a sloth
    TTC since May 2015 with domestic partner of 13 years. Me 33 OH 33.  No ovulation or natural menstruation. Normal SA.
    Diagnosed PCOS February 2016
    First cycle 50mg Clomid 5/3/16, O'd CD 19 BFN
    Second cycle 50mg Clomid 6/1/16 O'd CD 18 BFN
    Third cycle Clomid 6/29/16 O'd CD 16 BFP @11dpo!
    EDD April 3 and praying things work out!
  • Welcome! I'm sorry you've ended up here but hopefully this community brings you the support you need when surrounded by people who seemingly all become pregnant by accident or without much effort.

    Married since 2011

    TTC since Oct 2014
    DOR + MFI
    3 failed IUIs; IVF August 2017
    FET January 2018 - BFP
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