So we have done 3 failed unmedicated IUIs, everything has looked great on my side. The donor sperm was good. We have another vial left at the doctors office. Our doctor said we could keep going on the same route we are going now or we could get an HSG to make sure everything else is ok. Or go ahead and start taking medication. I don't know what to do. We don't have a lot of people we can talk to about it. Our only other friends that have done Iui got pregnant on the first try. I know that it can take multiple tries but I'm really just emotionally drained. Any advice would be so great!
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I know the amount of time you spend trying to conceive can take an emotional toll on you and your wife, I know it did us. And the medication can really take a toll on whoever is carrying - it did me. I wish you both the best of luck and fingers crossed that you don't have to endure the process any longer than you have to.
The hsg will make sure your tubes aren't blocked. There is conflicting data, but some say your chance of conceiving is higher after hsg bc the fluids help flush your tubes.
The shg will test your uterus for polyps or other obstructions that might hinder implantation.
I think it would help to get all of the testing done you can to make sure you have the best treatment plan in place. Good luck!
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
In theory, you should do 12 IUIs before going a more medical route, since hetero folks should try for a year before calling the doctor. But in reality, this is expensive. There just hasn't been enough data collected on queer women, reproductive technology, and fertility for us to know how many times is enough before we start thinking about infertility challenges.
Personally, I've had 8 IUIs, and I'm about at the point of giving up on my ovaries. The 8th IUI was after IVF was cancelled for poor response. But I'm also 39, and my blood work indicates low reserve. My HSG was clear, but many ultrasounds have led us to think my right (dominant) ovary may be off track, with an adhesion pulling it behind my uterus.
The HSG was not comfortable or cheap for me, but I'm glad I got it done. I did it after 3 IUIs, and it was the right time, and necessary information. My tubes were clear, so it didn't answer any questions, but it was part of the process.
Have you had FSH levels checked? Over or under 35?
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!
fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP!
Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)