I was 9 weeks. Things looked so good, my hcg was high, no bleeding, on progesterone. So I told my family, co workers, and some friends. Now I'm in the boat where I have to tell them what happened so they don't bring it up later. This sucks. I know, not supposed to say anything till after 12 weeks, but this was my 3rd pregnancy and I was convinced it was a go. Ughhhh.