So, this Friday I am going to my in-laws for the first time since my MMC on March 31st. They are....different. (to put it nicely) They are very abrasive and very nosy. They aren't really concerned about the feelings of others. I am afraid of going there. My mother in law called me after it happened and was asking me all of the details about it (very personal ones) only a day after it happened. It was really really hard and she would not stop prying. She had bought me a bunch of baby stuff very early on in the pregnancy and kept insisting that I "better keep it and give it to the next baby". I have actually had to hide the stuff because every time I look at it, I get really depressed and cry. Anyway, what I'm trying to figure out, because I know they will most definitely want to talk about it and bring it up (even DH's grandma is that way, and she will be there too), how do I avoid these upsetting conversations? I have SO much anxiety about this and I cannot stop worrying about horrible this will be. They are the type of people that if I tell them, or ask them to please stop talking about it, they will argue with me and give me a bunch of crap for not discussing it or, like when my grandma passed away, they will keep bringing it up even though we just discussed not talking about the subject. I'm so scared. Sorry but I need to vent, and can't necessarily discuss it with my DH.
Me: 28 DH: 29
TTC: March 2015
Confirmed MMC: 3-31-16
TTCAL: May 2016
IUI: 5/13/17-Femara and Trigger, POAS 5/27/17 BFP 5/27/17