Hi I'm 36 weeks and baby already weighing at 7lbs and I have 4 more weeks to go. There is a possibility I may have to get cut if I don't go in labor before then so now I'm scared. My 1st labor, which was almost 9 years ago, was vaginal and was an easy pregnancy but this one has put me through a lot. In case I have a cesarean, how long is recovery and will I'll be able to breastfeed right after delivery. Breastfeeding will be 1st for me also by the way. Any advice?
Re: Possible Cesarean
Last time I wasn't able to do skin to skin or breastfeed in the OR and had to wait until people in my extended family stopped playing pass the brand new baby all around in the recovery room. Baby was fine and breastfed (no formula) until toddlerhood.
So either way breastfeeding shouldn't be an issue just because of a C-section alone. But do find out your hospital's policies just so you can know what to expect.
And if you have questions about breastfeeding see if they have LC's (Lactation Consultant) available. Read The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding, and attend a LLL (La Leche League) meeting or two before baby to make connections that you may need later while getting the hang of breastfeeding your baby.
My OB had 2 c-sections with her own children -- the first unexpected, and the second was scheduled. She said she had no problems BFing both, so that has made me feel a little better going into this second delivery. Either way, you will do great!
As for breastfeeding, I didn't produce enough to sustain DD. My Dr. says it has nothing to do with my scheduled CS. I saw a lactation consultant regularly, ate the cookies, drank the tea, did everything I could. As a result it stressed me out, which probably didn't help matters. And everyone has advice and tips. In retrospect I wish I had just calmed down, drank a lot of water, and let it happen, instead of switching things up every time someone said to try something new. Less stress this time is my plan.
Lots of women have cs, so don't worry too much about it. I know, easier said than done.
ETA: Skin to skin is invaluable PP!!! Especially for BFing
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At my hospital, skin to skin isn't allowed for up to several hours after LO is born, as they require mom to recover before. However, DH can do skin to skin, so that had been our plan.
BF is more difficult after, due to delay on skin to skin, and I guess vaginal labor sends signals to the body to prepare for BF, which doesn't happen the same w/ CS.
Of course, L&D is different for every person and is different each time, so these are just general trends that my OB noticed.
I'm not clear on why you're looking at a possible CS - is LO measuring big? If so, please be aware that sonograms can be off significantly when it comes to weight & measurements. Per my birthing class, there was a study in which each method for determining weight & height were tested against mom's best guess. Consistently, mom's guess beat all scientific measurements.