Hi everyone. I am a 28 yr old single mom to be. After dating my now Ex boyfriend for 6 years, and going through 3 mc, he decided he no longer wanted to be in my life after finding out i was pregnant again. His reason, is that he doesn't feel that he is ready to have a child and doesn't understand why i am choosing to have a baby now as opposed to waiting 2-3 more years, since his life plan was to not have kids until after he turned 30. (Keep in mind, we have not used any kind of contraceptive in the last 5 years we were together). Due to my history of mc's there is no way in hell i was getting rid of it. Fast forward to today, I am now 13w 2d, and my doctor and i were having a conversation about NT scans, and quad screens. Naturally she asked me if there was any history of Down syndrome, birth defects or genetic disorders in both of our family histories Including extended family. Since my ex and I are not speaking, he's not really close to his family, and has never mentioned anything of that sort i figured i can ask his mom since she is insisting she wants to be there for me during this whole process. Her Response: "you cant answer that question yourself? How do you not know about his family yet you are having his baby? Why would you have a baby by a man you dont even know? i thought you guys were super close all this time, but if you dont know the answer to that question, i dont know how u could possibly have this child." (umm, what just happened?) I told her to forget that i just asked her anything and to have a great day. So frustrating!!!!! To the point where i no longer want to include any of his family in anything concerning my child. Am i wrong? or should i still reach out since its her grandchild.?