What are your thoughts? My first was breech, so I had a C-section. I feel like VBAC is the way to go, but my doctor is kind of like "do what's right for you" which is not very helpful advice. Does anyone have more concrete info (or a more persuasive doctor)?
Re: VBAC or C-section?
I think your doctor would tell you if you were a good candidate for a VBAC or not. But if your last was just breeched, and they aren't too close together, then I think you would be a good candidate.
My midwife and their team of doctors are all about VBACS if that's what the mother wants.
It's just something you have to want, or not want.
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I highly suggest finding an ican group to atleast hear what people's experiences are,that's how I found my new office. Even if you decide to go for the csec, they can be a lot of help.
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I had to call around quite a bit too find a hospital within an hour's drive that took vbacs (the fifth one I called finally said yes) and went with a doctor off their list that my mom (nurse for over 30 years) had heard good things about.
The labors were strikingly similar, which worried me, but the nurses and my doctor were really cheering me on. It was really nice to have a doctor who was 100% on board with what I wanted to do. Even though I had to get a million stitches, the healing process was so much quicker and although definitely painful, not nearly as bad as the csec recovery.
Edit because I'm on mobile and a big ol butter thumbs
eta: my doctor didn't pressure me either way, but when I told we didn't want any more children after this baby, she gently suggested the tubal ligation as an option if I chose a repeat c section (which I already had even before I got pregnant again). My first c section was not stressful and my healing process was well managed and fairly quick. I felt very confident in my doctor's abilities and all nurses and staff were extra comforting and talked me through the whole process. I think it's just a personal choice.
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I personally will be scheduling a C-section. Our first was 8 days overdue so then I was induced. Every time they would give me Pitocin, the baby's heart rate would drop and all the nurses would rush in with oxygen, flip me on my side and quit the Pitocin. Unfortunately, when they would quit the Pitocin, the labor would stop. After 24 hours of this (breaking my water and attempting other labor inducing drugs), I was only 4 cm dilated. I just don't want to put my baby through that again - it was very scary. Plus, I'm thinking about getting my tubes tied anyway, so I'll probably just do it all at the same time.
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