I'm a 35 year old mom-to-be again (I hope). I lost my daughter, 2 years ago, at 6 months gestation due to incompetent cervix. I am now nearly 13 weeks pregnant with my doodle. I have a consult tomorrow with a high-risk OBGYN, to talk about a cerclage placement. Has anyone here had one placed? If so, what was the procedure like? Sex or no sex afterwards? I'm struggling to enjoy this pregnancy, for the nightmare that we went through with losing our daughter. I want to be happy, but, I'm scared to get attached. I'm hoping a cerclage is my saving grace this time around. I'm just scared. Any information or advice is appreciated.