Monday Bitchfest 3-21

beforeyou

Let's hear it! 

beforeyou

My bitch is that The Bump has been glitching for the past few days. I have to keep refreshing any page I'm on or else the whole website turns into a link for The Nuk. I can't click anywhere or else it takes me to an advertisement for this product. Seriously, anywhere I click. So annoying! 

UTAmbs11

My husband has been really supportive with how crappy I've felt lately.  He'll pick up food if I ask, and he's ok with me not cooking as much... then yesterday I asked if we could go to McDonald's for a mcgriddle (love those things!!!!!).  We went, but I had to keep hearing about how bad ive been eating.  And i need to be sure not to gain too much weight, and I can't get fat.  I've lost a couple pounds since BFP especially since there isn't much food I do like, he's the one that's already gained weight!

He then went to Taco Bell for lunch, had a huge bowl of pasta for dinner, then wanted a PBJ for a snack at 10pm!

m6agua

@peachykeen17 it has been doing the same thing to me!! So annoying.

Hedgessm

I threw up as soon as I woke up this am. I had one sip of water. That's it. I've done this already. I know there's a light at the end of the tunnel. I forgot how utterly frustrated I get with how long pregnancy takes. 

ShallowSeas

I hate mornings now. I especially hate Monday mornings.  I've never been a morning person, but throw in nausea and sore boobs...no thanks.

hellopartyof5

Every morning when I wake up I have to poop and then I feel like puking. That's the worst chain of events to ever happen ever. Luckily I haven't actually puked yet, but on Wednesday I have to go into work and when I wake up early is when I puke. I'm dreading it. 

beforeyou

@m6agua what the heck is that bs! I'm so annoyed and frustrated with it. Get your ish together Bump!!! 

SRJR2013

edit because my life isn't that bad and I feel bad for b*tchinh about it! 

AdmiralKitty

Same thing is happening to me @m6agua @peachykeen17 - it's beyond annoying and has forced me to mobile bump which I hate

KilgraveMadeMeDoIt

My wonderful, amazing, supportive and incredible husband is really, really getting on my nerves right now. But I barely get any opportunities to talk to him because once the kids are in bed he plays The Division all evening. 

virginiaham

I am waitlisted for a certification class that I need in order to apply for a job.  The next class is in a month.  The class is an hour and a half away and I'm going to drive there and keep my fingers crossed that someone doesn't show up so I can slip in last minute.  But my lemons to lemonade is that we have, like, an Ace Hardware and a grocery store where we live, and the class is over by a J. Crew and a B&N.  If I can't get in I'm going shopping!  

LikeICantEven

UTAmbs11 said:

My husband has been really supportive with how crappy I've felt lately.  He'll pick up food if I ask, and he's ok with me not cooking as much... then yesterday I asked if we could go to McDonald's for a mcgriddle (love those things!!!!!).  We went, but I had to keep hearing about how bad ive been eating.  And i need to be sure not to gain too much weight, and I can't get fat.  I've lost a couple pounds since BFP especially since there isn't much food I do like, he's the one that's already gained weight!

He then went to Taco Bell for lunch, had a huge bowl of pasta for dinner, then wanted a PBJ for a snack at 10pm!

I don't know you or him, but you need to nip that sh*t in the bud right now. As long as your OB/Midwife isn't concerned with your weight, you have nothing to feel guilt about. He clearly isn't an expert on nutrition OR how to speak to pregnant women. I don't really see how supportive that is when he's already complaining 6-7 weeks in.

LikeICantEven

Edit: removed petty BF. 

Replaced with the nurse at my OB office telling me, "Well, some people manage morning sickness by laying on the couch all day."

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
My son opens his eyes in the morning and DOES. NOT. STOP. Until bed. This is not an option for me and I'm honestly shocked this considered normal to suggest. I told her she is to speak to my OB about a Zofran scrip because that is not going to work for me.

KilgraveMadeMeDoIt

UTAmbs11 said:

My husband has been really supportive with how crappy I've felt lately.  He'll pick up food if I ask, and he's ok with me not cooking as much... then yesterday I asked if we could go to McDonald's for a mcgriddle (love those things!!!!!).  We went, but I had to keep hearing about how bad ive been eating.  And i need to be sure not to gain too much weight, and I can't get fat.  I've lost a couple pounds since BFP especially since there isn't much food I do like, he's the one that's already gained weight!

He then went to Taco Bell for lunch, had a huge bowl of pasta for dinner, then wanted a PBJ for a snack at 10pm!

If my husband told me that I "can't get fat" or tried to food police me, the next time I saw him would be at the marriage counselor. It is so, so not okay for a grown man to treat his wife like an errant child in need of correction. 

NatashaSprout

DH was rubbing my shoulders last night...bless is heart after a rough day. Then he said "babe your Lat spread is looking small." WTF. Yeah cause I haven't been lifting heavy for 2 months because of the baby YOU WANTED! I know he didn't mean it to hurt me and was probably trying to keep me motivated but seriously I haven't been at the gym because I've been tired. Grr. Now we are leaving for vacation and I am sitting here googling for a full gym close to the hotel. 

nibu

7 weeks today. Woke up with a lot of cramping pain. Decided to call the doctor and thankfully they made an appointment to see me. Little baby was there on the screen with a beating heart. Too bad in my falopian tube. Now I'm in the hospital waiting for my emergency surgery to remove tube and baby.

LikeICantEven

nibu said:

7 weeks today. Woke up with a lot of cramping pain. Decided to call the doctor and thankfully they made an appointment to see me. Little baby was there on the screen with a beating heart. Too bad in my falopian tube. Now I'm in the hospital waiting for my emergency surgery to remove tube and baby.

I am so sorry @nibu. Will be praying for you. 

NatashaSprout

nibu said:

7 weeks today. Woke up with a lot of cramping pain. Decided to call the doctor and thankfully they made an appointment to see me. Little baby was there on the screen with a beating heart. Too bad in my falopian tube. Now I'm in the hospital waiting for my emergency surgery to remove tube and baby.

I am so sorry. I know it's hard to be positive right now but catching this early could have saved your life. Thoughts and prayers for you. 

hellopartyof5

I'm so sorry @nibu

virginiaham

@nibu I'm so sorry.

0Face

My lovetit is a giant hug for you @nibu.  I'm so sorry.

m6agua

@nibu I am so sorry.

nibu

Thank you ladies so much. Bawling my eyes out reading all your lovely messages. Thank you for thinking about me. I wish all of you the very best

beforeyou

Oh no @nibu I am so sorry! Take care of yourself. T&P. 

ShallowSeas

@nibu
All the hugs, prayers, and thoughts to you. I'm so sorry  

doraleigh35

@nibu I'm so very sorry, take care of yourself.

SRJR2013

@nibu I am so so sorry 

KilgraveMadeMeDoIt

I'm so sorry @nibu.

SamanthaSue222

Damn Mondays! My bitchfest today is that my pants are all too tight in the waist and uncomfortable. Today I'm rocking the hairband around my button so that I can get an extra inch for the bloat-belly I've got going. This is my 2nd pregnancy, so I have maternity clothes to turn to, I just don't want to go there yet. It seems too early. So I am just dealing with this discomfort, I guess out of spite or something. 

comealongponds

I'm so sorry @nibu. Please take care of yourself. 

DunkinDecaf

I'm so, so sorry @nibu.

yosemite2018

I'm sorry @nibu! I hope all goes well with the surgery and glad you caught it early!

Sheybre

Prayers for you @nibu. So very sorry!

MrsDepo

Thoughts and prayers for you @nibu

My bitch seem so silly right now. DH is such a freakin man child. I have been asking him to file away all our important documents for 2 years now and he hasn't done it. I go looking through his desk last week to find our marriage license and I see every drawer stuffed full with envelopes! It took us 4 hours to file everything. Then this week I get a call from Verizon and DH forgot to pay the bill. So I bug him about that and he apologizes and says it won't happen again....just like every month. Same with Allstate. I'm getting so frustrated! Before I was pregnant I had the energy to come home after work, do a few loads of laundry, a few loads of dishes, pick up the living room and wipe down the kitchen in a couple of hours. And he will load up the dishwasher once a week and forget to run it while bitching about wanting to get off his feet after work and how he doesn't have time to clean. Well now I have no time to do anything but sleep (at least that's what it feels like), and I can't rely on him to do a single thing. Gahhh! Sorry about my long rant. I needed to get it out. 

Sheybre

The wind, EF the wind.

MrsBigTime

@nibu I am so sorry and will be keeping you in my prayers.

pinnerk

Oh @nibu  I'm so so sorry to hear. You are in my thoughts. 


My bitch also seems so trivial since so many bigger things are happening. But if I don't bitch here theirs. 95% chance I'm burning everything bf owns. 
We had plans to go out of town today to get an oil change done on his car by my dad. I was looking forward to it because usually its just me making the trip alone and as much as I do enjoy driving alone and having a Kelly clarkson marathon, it's nice to be a passenger and to see my family. 
So today he informs me 'I don't feel like wasting my day. I want to do my computer gaming stuff. ' 
It hurt my feelings because I don't feel like a day together is wasted time and I also don't feel like seeing my family is wasted. 
Plus we are out of town with HIS family all next weekend and we can't go unless we get that oil change done. 
I know. This is actually so dumb. 
I just need some taco bell and to binge watch a show and I'll be fine. 
I love being able to bitch. 

mtvkv5

My BF is my mother. My parents have been divorced for 15 years and they are still fighting for who is better. My dad is throwing me and my brother a graduation BBQ at his house this year (we graduate a week apart, me grad school, him undergrad). He has a giant house and all our parties are always there. Well my mom got super pissed at me today because I set up a facebook event, and she wanted to be the one to throw the party. (her house is tiny and is not suitable for a party). Its just an afternoon BBQ, nothing fancy, and I don't understand why she is so upset. Now she keeps texting me and calling me and my stupid hormones are raging and I just burst into tears. I wish there wasn't so much freaking drama with everything that involves both of my parents. 

AlexLindzz

I'm so sorry @nibu Please take care of yourself.

AlexLindzz

My BF is that I'm underpaid and overworked. I am so sick of dealing with the crappy commute and stress throughout the day. I am completely drained and it's starting to affect my homelife and sleep.