Any advice for LOs who like to fight sleep? My two week old has been doing it since shortly after we got home.
He'll get tired and start to cry and try to nurse again, but I know it's just for comfort. I've gotten to where I'll hold him and put a pacifier in his mouth, but then if I set him down he'll wake back up and we're on it again.
He's not hungry, he's just fighting sleep. He's well fed, gaining like crazy already, and he goes through the amount of wet and BM diapers he should. My FIL thinks I need to feed him every time he cries and that drives me crazy. I have a 'fed less than 30-20 mins wait an hour before feeding again and more than that wait two hours' rule when he starts to show cues, and I wake him if he ever sleeps four hours straight to feed him too.
Gas isn't the problem, he gets burped. I just can't for the life of me figure out how to get him to stop fighting sleep. He does it day and night but it's easier to handle during the day. I keep falling asleep holding him and it worries me.
Re: Fighting Sleep
I'd get rid of your feeding "rules", though. Particularly during growth spurts, LO needs to be allowed to cluster feed, since it will trigger your body to make more milk. If I have just fed LO, I'll try other things first, but if they need to nurse, they need to nurse.
No one is saying you have to feed him every time he cries, but if you've tried other things and nursing is what he wants, then let him nurse.
If you're seeing a lot of spit up or reflux concerns, talk to your pediatrician so they can evaluate it. It sounds like normal baby behavior to me, though.
Also, spitting up a couple times is hardly a reason to limit feeding him. Babies spit up. Don't make hard and fast rules based on this.
Honestly, I would just nurse to sleep. He's uncomfortable for whatever reason. Just help him out.
@ladyofsummer, Is this your first baby or have you implemented this feeding rule/sleep training before?
But it sounds like you can sometimes get him to sleep with a pacifier, he just wants to be held while sleeping? I don't think that's abnormal for a two week old. Try to remember how little he is, in the tc grand scheme of life...only two weeks! He hasn't learned how to stay asleep by himself yet - he needs your help sometimes:) trust me, I know it's frustrating, but these are things I remind myself.
have you tried a swing or wearing him in a carrier? Sometimes the movement helps. With my second son, I had to walk around the block for 30 minutes with him in the carrier every evening and, lo and behold, I think this baby is taking to that too. Not my first choice, but doable.