So from the title you can tell I have a twin sister. We are both pregnant and you would think that would be awesome right??? Being pregnant with your twin how awesome.
Well it's not awesome! My sister today made me feel like crap. It was suppose to be a great day. We had my anatomy scan done and found out we are having a girl after having two boys. I was ecstatic! I sent my sister and my mom a text letting them know the awesome news and went about my day.
My mom texted me that she was very excited and ended to tell people. I told her no because we are doing a gender reveal on Sunday with a photographer and the boys are going to open the box of balloons. My mother kept pestering me so I did what any other annoyed sibling would do when pestered by a parent....I bitched to my sister........ well let me tell you that did not go well.
My sister started botching about me about how no one cares about her baby and he won't be as loved and cared about as my kids. My sister moved 16 hours away from all of us 4 years ago. My parents live 10 minutes from me. She then accused me of getting pregnant only because she was pregnant and since it took her 3 years to get pregnant, I was suppose to wait until she had her baby to even try and get pregnant.
I told her when my husband and I decided to have children it was none of her buisness, and she shouldn't punish me because it took her three years to get pregnant. My husband and I decided to try for our last baby when our youngest turned two and that's exactly what happened. She just happened to be 5 months pregnant. I'm so upset right now. This is the 2nd time she has made me feel bad/guilty for being pregnant.
I'm rethinking my promise to fly down when she goes into labor. She burned many bridge telling people not to come when her husbands family and my family already made plans to fly down and see her, she's going to end up truly alone at the hospital if she does reign in her pregnant lady hormones.