TTC After a Loss

INTRO-First time poster, long time lurker *Lost mentioned*

Hi ladies,

I wanted to introduce myself to the board, as I have lurked for a very long time and it helped me get through some really difficult times on this fertility journey.  I had a miscarriage in May 2015 at 11.5 weeks, after the heartbeat and development was a behind what it should be.  A week later they confirmed there was no heartbeat and I opted to have a D&E.  Of course nothing goes smoothly and there was retained tissue so I had to have a second procedure 5 days later. My husband and I had a really difficult road after that miscarriage, as I am sure so many relationships do, but we got through it with some counseling and tough conversations.  Since then we have been actively TTC since August.  I tried acupuncture for 3 months, NFP and recently started charting (or trying to at least, haha). I just wanted to say hi to everyone and introduce myself officially. I have appreciated all of your posts these past few months and look forward to contributing and sharing.  Thanks!

Re: INTRO-First time poster, long time lurker *Lost mentioned*

  • Welcome to the boards - I'm sorry for your losses - glad you feel like sharing and contributing - the diversity of voices is what makes this board special.
    ---TW BFP and MC mentioned - scroll down past the Lilo and Stitch gif to avoid ---




    Me: 33 & DH: 33
    Married: 07/2006
    TTC: 10/2015
    BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
    BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017



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  • Welcome! I'm glad lurking has helped you. It helped me too - there's power in numbers, even in hard times. 

    June Siggy Challenge: Dad Fails

    Married 7.28.2012
    DD born 7.27.2014
    BFP 09.2015 - m/c 10.21.2015
    BFP 4.12.2016...EDD: Christmas Eve 2016!




  • Hello, welcome. Sorry for your loss. Hopefully your stay here is short and sweet.
    Renee, 34 + Devon, 29 married 08/13 <3
    TTC  09/15
    *TW Loss mentioned*
    BFP 12/15/15 EDD: 08/26/16
    MMC discovered 1/25/16 at 9 +3
    TTCAL 3/2016
    Acupuncture 11/16
    Dx December 2016: unexplained 
    January 2017: 50 mg Clomid + TI =
    BFP #2 01/30/17  Please be a sticky baby!
    EDD: 10/15/17  Measuring ahead! 10/12/17 
    Ambrose born on his due date!

  • Sorry about your loss, but welcome. 
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    Me: 26 DH: 28  
    TTC #1 since 06/2014
    BFP #1 09/23/15. MMC discovered 11/24/2015
    BFP #2 08/24/16 EDD 05/08/17


  • Very sorry about your loss. With all the work and time you've already put into TTC it sounds like you're hopefully well on your way to a BFP in the near future.
  • I'm so sorry for your loss. Welcome. 
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  • queenklauqueenklau member
    edited March 2016
    I am sorry about your loss. Lurking definitely can help answer some questions and put your feelings into perspective of others here. I am glad you found us during this trying time. We are here for you.
    ******TW******Siggy warning
    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

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  • Sorry for your loss and procedure complications.  But welcome!!!

    MC #1: D&C Oct 23, 2015 (7.5 weeks)
    MC #2: July 1, 2016 (5.5 weeks)
    MC #3: October 17, 2016 (CP)
    RE #1: RPL testing November 2016-January 2017
    MC #4: Feb. 28, 2017 (CP)
    RE #2: Additional RPL testing March-November 2017
    MC #5: January 2019 (6.5 weeks)

    RE #3: More testing 2023. 
    Egg Retrieval Sept/Oct 2023, 2 good embryos after PGT-A testing.
    Surgery for endometriosis January 2024
    Lupron Depo March 2024.  Benched 3 months.

    FET #1: June 3, 2024 (failed)

    Lupron Depo June 2024. Benched 3 months again before next FET.

    FET #2: September 2024 (failed)

    FET #3: December 2024 (failed)

    #BitterHagPartyOf1

  • Hate that we must meet this way, but am happy you have found comfort here. I am sorry for your loss!

    Me: 40, DH: 35 / Married: 2009; TTC #1: 2013

    2013 - 2015: 5 pregnancies —> 5 miscarriages

    TTCAL with RE (RPL specialist): February 2016

    2016: 3 medicated TI cycles —> 3 medicated IUI cycles: All BFN

    Donor Egg IVF Transfer: May 1, 2017

    May 11, 2017: BFP!! Beta #1: 449.1, Beta #2: 844, Beta #3: 1714

    EDD: 1/17/18, it's a GIRL!  <3 E. L. A. born 12/7/2017








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