June 2016 Moms

Monday Check-In

How far along are you? 

Rant/Rave/Symptoms:

What are you doing to prepare for baby? 

Questions? 

GTKY: If you had to give up wine or coffee for one year, which would you choose? 
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  • @mrsschmity I've been in a funk lately, too. Really anxious/depressed. Last week was especially bad for me. I think a lot of it has to do with crazy pregnancy hormones, but also stress with work. And my poor H makes me stabby all the time. Sorry you're struggling with it all as well. 
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  • Questions? 
    Is anyone else feeling more ragey, anxious or moody all of a sudden? I feel like this was more of a first trimester thing.

    Yeah, I've been getting more easily annoyed lately.  Mostly the stupid questions. 
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  • @mrsschmity I've been in a funk lately, too. Really anxious/depressed. Last week was especially bad for me. I think a lot of it has to do with crazy pregnancy hormones, but also stress with work. And my poor H makes me stabby all the time. Sorry you're struggling with it all as well. 
    Glad I'm not alone @DeePaddy24. I've been feeling the same way, and I can't put my finger on what's causing it. I have been feeling really good overall through this pregnancy, but the last 4 days or so I'm just really anxious. I have a feeling it's a mixture of still not landing a new job and a little tiff H and I had (which has been over and done with but here I am still thinking about it). I hope your funk ends soon too. Hugs <3
  • @kbequette08 What stroller did you decide on?
    @Huskerfanz I'm going to be stalking the June board when it starts to get closer to see birth updates from you. I can't believe it could be that soon!
    @hockeyfan42 Good luck at the doctor appt today!
    MeganF08 How nice of your FIL! Happy early anniversary and have a WONDERFUL time on your trip! Where are you guys going?
  • @mkemommy Sorry you're a victim of the crappy sleep too :(
    @crdo Hormones suck. Enough said.
  • @mrsschmity - We live near Houston so we are driving just a few hours away to a B&B outside of Austin but I can't wait :) Mostly I just want to sleep and lounge around which I can't usually do at home because there is always work to be done.

  • MeganF08 said:
    @mrsschmity - We live near Houston so we are driving just a few hours away to a B&B outside of Austin but I can't wait :) Mostly I just want to sleep and lounge around which I can't usually do at home because there is always work to be done.
    Have fun!  We are in Texas too (College Station) and love the B&Bs in the Austin area and over near Fredricksburg.  There are some really pretty views at a lot of them!  The weekend we got engaged we were staying in one in a historic house near downtown Austin and it was a really neat one, with fun hosts who cooked a great breakfast!!
  • I have a rant to add & maybe need some advice. There's this one teen boy I work with once a week (when he decides to show up). He isn't on the spectrum but has learning difficulties, so it's basically tutoring instead of him going to high school. At the beginning of the year there was an issue with him playing with himself under the table (I mean full on pants lowered) & taking pictures of female teachers on his iPad. We started having me work with him in a room with another student & the issues went away. Now that other student works in a different room so I'm left with this kid alone again. Not even 20min into the morning I heard his zipper...I've never been so uncomfortable. I instantly went to notify my principal that the it's happening again & that i don't feel comfortable working alone with him. Keep in mind this is the principal I've had a lot of issues with recently. She actually laughed in my face, completely brushed it off, & said I just need to keep him more engaged & he won't do it. Because somehow this is MY fucking fault. How am I supposed to feel comfortable/respected in a school when my principal can't take such a serious issue seriously?! We aren't unionized (it's a private school) so there's no one higher up I can talk to. I've been struggling with how I'll get through the next 3 months already...this morning I had to leave her office fighting back tears, feeling worse than ever here. UGH. 
    Sorry for my long rant. 
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  • @deepaddy24 - What the hell?!?  This isn't a young kid, this is a teenager who is clearly jacking off to you in your classroom.  OF COURSE you are going to feel uncomfortable.  Can you call his parents in for an emergency conference?  Have you spoken to the boy about it?  Is there a HR you can speak with even though your boss is the only "higher up" technically?  Can you switch with another male teacher?
  • @egirl1025 - Ha!  I've had coffee every day of this pregnancy after the first trimester.  Caffeine in moderation is ok so why wouldn't I and why wouldn't you?  My H asks me questions like that too on occasion (i.e., not really questions but "my friend said you should do X while pregnant").  It usually doesn't end well for him.  ;)
  • I have a rant to add & maybe need some advice. There's this one teen boy I work with once a week (when he decides to show up). He isn't on the spectrum but has learning difficulties, so it's basically tutoring instead of him going to high school. At the beginning of the year there was an issue with him playing with himself under the table (I mean full on pants lowered) & taking pictures of female teachers on his iPad. We started having me work with him in a room with another student & the issues went away. Now that other student works in a different room so I'm left with this kid alone again. Not even 20min into the morning I heard his zipper...I've never been so uncomfortable. I instantly went to notify my principal that the it's happening again & that i don't feel comfortable working alone with him. Keep in mind this is the principal I've had a lot of issues with recently. She actually laughed in my face, completely brushed it off, & said I just need to keep him more engaged & he won't do it. Because somehow this is MY fucking fault. How am I supposed to feel comfortable/respected in a school when my principal can't take such a serious issue seriously?! We aren't unionized (it's a private school) so there's no one higher up I can talk to. I've been struggling with how I'll get through the next 3 months already...this morning I had to leave her office fighting back tears, feeling worse than ever here. UGH. 
    Sorry for my long rant. 

    Are you kidding me? A student is exposing himself to you and your Principal laughed about it? That's awful and I would look to see who next to talk to. No way should you be forced to deal with that. Why, given his history, is he not working with a male teacher? I know that wouldn't necessarily solve the problem, but it sure as F could take some of the threat away, no? I'm SO sorry you are dealing with this. I am shocked!
  • @kbequette08 What stroller did you decide on?
    @Huskerfanz I'm going to be stalking the June board when it starts to get closer to see birth updates from you. I can't believe it could be that soon!
    @hockeyfan42 Good luck at the doctor appt today!
    MeganF08 How nice of your FIL! Happy early anniversary and have a WONDERFUL time on your trip! Where are you guys going?

    I had originally wanted a travel system but my husband and I really liked the idea of a good jogging stroller so we registered for a Baby Trend Expedition FX Jogging Stroller and just a separate carseat. Might see if there are any good used carseats that are in good condition. The stroller is very easy to maneuver and compact and I like that.



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  • tjenkins528tjenkins528 member
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    @DeePaddy24 - I agree with PP, I would definitely get parents involved. Would your principal think that's okay if he was doing it to other students? Completely unacceptable and gross! So sorry you have to deal with that and that the principal thinks that's something to laugh over.

    ETA: took out higher ups. Sorry for missing that part on the first post!
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  • Oh forgot to mention my first Bradley Birthing Class is tonight. Little excited/nervous! Not sure what to expect!



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  • How far along are you? 23 + 3

    Rant/Rave/Symptoms: I cannot get comfortable to sleep. I know we're supposed to be sleeping on our sides, but I cannot do it, it feels like my belly is pulling away from my body when i sleep on my side, despite having a snoogle & propping a smaller throw pillow under my tummy- I feel like its too much pressure/pulling weight and it doesn't feel healthy so I am sleeping on my back. Is anyone else having this feeling?? 

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? I ordered 6 maternity dresses from Asos Maternity today (6 dresses for $250!!) ... so does dressing baby's mama well count? If not, gestating... working! Trying not to eat all the crap that I ate over the weekend... I need a detox of junk food. 

    Questions? See above - anyone else having this lovely symptom when side laying? 

    GTKY: If you had to give up wine or coffee for one year, which would you choose? This is really hard because I've given up both during the pregnancy (I was a coffee addict but it made me nauseous in the first tri so I gave it up & haven't reintroduced it since.) I have been doing pretty well not really craving any wine... though I do miss the ability to have a glass and relax... the thought of the acidity of it right now with my heartburn is off putting. I guess the one thats been harder for me not to have has been wine so I'll give up coffee for a year... begrudgingly! 
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  • @DeePaddy24 That is terrible and I'm sorry you're dealing with that. Truthfully - if he's a teenager, can't the police be involved because that is like a sex crime? If he was doing it in public on a bus or something he'd be arrested, this should be no different! I'm so so sorry I would be so uncomfortable and I bet you are. Other posters are correct PUT IT IN WRITING to your principal how uncomfortable you are and request that there always be another teacher or student in there with you given the situation. If it is in writing it is a lot more difficult for her to brush off. 
    TTM - EDD 4/23 - Team Green <3 
  • MsBeachNJ said:
    How far along are you? 23 + 3

    Rant/Rave/Symptoms: I cannot get comfortable to sleep. I know we're supposed to be sleeping on our sides, but I cannot do it, it feels like my belly is pulling away from my body when i sleep on my side, despite having a snoogle & propping a smaller throw pillow under my tummy- I feel like its too much pressure/pulling weight and it doesn't feel healthy so I am sleeping on my back. Is anyone else having this feeling?? 

    What are you doing to prepare for baby? I ordered 6 maternity dresses from Asos Maternity today (6 dresses for $250!!) ... so does dressing baby's mama well count? If not, gestating... working! Trying not to eat all the crap that I ate over the weekend... I need a detox of junk food. 

    Questions? See above - anyone else having this lovely symptom when side laying? 

    GTKY: If you had to give up wine or coffee for one year, which would you choose? This is really hard because I've given up both during the pregnancy (I was a coffee addict but it made me nauseous in the first tri so I gave it up & haven't reintroduced it since.) I have been doing pretty well not really craving any wine... though I do miss the ability to have a glass and relax... the thought of the acidity of it right now with my heartburn is off putting. I guess the one thats been harder for me not to have has been wine so I'll give up coffee for a year... begrudgingly! 

    Yes On the side sleeping! I thought it was only me but yes I always feel a pulling sensation even though my stomach isn't huge I feel like it all gets squished when laying down and laying on my left side is so painful I have to sleep on my right which I'm hoping isn't harmful to baby.



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