My baby is three weeks old. My son is 2 years and 4 months old. I feel completely overwhelmed caring for both of them. The baby is constantly hungry and my toddler, who used to be the sweetest kid, is having tantrums left and right. We were really laid-back parents who brought our kid everywhere and now I'm afraid to leave the house with two of them for fear of a toddler meltdown that I can't properly address because of baby's needs. And I feel so guilty - like neither child is getting my full attention. My husband is back at work after paternity leave today. I'm kind of freaking out. Tell me this gets easier!