TTC after 35

Re-Intro + Question (child/losses mentioned)

Hi! Quick background:

I was part of this group when we were trying to conceive my daughter. At 40 we did IVF. We implanted two embryos, one split and we conceived triplets. Unfortunately we lost the twins but I gave birth to the singleton six days shy of age 41. She is a happy and healthy almost two year old.

Since her birth we have had two spontaneous pregnancies (RE jargon for we conceived them the old fashioned way). Unfortunately both ended in miscarriage. We went back for our two frozen embryos and both cycles failed (just found out about the second which was our last embryo).

I'm now 42 and will be 43 in two months. The stats for a natural pregnancy are bleak but we would love to have another and give our daughter a sibling. 

I am wondering what are other options besides IVF/IUI. We don't have the money for IVF with donor eggs which would give us our best shot. We would like to try on our own but want to boost are chances. I can't remember what the other options are that RE's do...I remember something about timed intercourse? We meet with her on the 9th but was curious if anyone can offer any insights. Thanks!




Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.

Re: Re-Intro + Question (child/losses mentioned)

  • happyktmomhappyktmom member
    edited February 2016
    First, I am so sorry about the failed IVF cycles and the miscarriages. 
    Second, I have heard good things about ICSI with IVF as well as alternative therapies in correlation with IVF.   RE's are usually not fond of herbals but will atleast shrug at acupuncture and Mayan Abdominal Massage.  Worth a shot?  I'm going in next month to restart my acupuncture and consult with a lady on MAM. 
    Good luck! this is still a great support group!

    edited: posted before I finished.
    **child mentioned**
    Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid   DH(43)Low T/ED
    MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012   TTC #2 since 04/2014
    BFP 8/26/2016


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  • Thank you! We used ICSI with my daughter. We don't want to do IVF again so that would be out, but I'll look into the other ones you mentioned.
    Me:39 Dx LPD, Fibroid, AMA and all that goes with that. H:37 Dx low motility and low morphology. TTC since 3/12. Clomid 8/12 and 9/12: BFN. 11/12 on a break for Myomectomy sched. 11/26. Resume TTC early 2013.
  • Welcome and I am so sorry about your losses :-(  I dont have any advise since I still haven't had my first RE appointment yet but wanted to say good luck. 
  • Welcome.  I'm sorry that you had a challenging time and sorry for your losses.  I wish you the best in finding what is right for you this time around.  I haven't gone to the RE yet so I don't know much about options.  
    Me: 41
    Husband: 40
    TTC#1 since 9/2014
    Unexplained Infertility - Trying naturally
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