im so glad the bump has a special needs section. I'm a mother of a teen son who had been born with bilateral cleft lip and palate. If anyone has questions, needs resources, support or anything. Please ask. I'm 5 weeks pregnant with second so I'm hanging out in first trimester board but not sure if my second will have it but I'm experienced enough to talk with you about what to expect with your child. It's important to me, I never had resources or help of any kind. During an ultrasound they discovered my sons condition.