I think you hit the nose on the head here. It could be that he wants better for you and knows how they struggled. Fathers sometimes view their daughters differently then their sons and can be more overprotective. I think he is going to find out sooner rather than later if your mom knows. I'd just tell him and if he needs time he needs time. It doesn't mean he is correct in his response but I think the longer you wait and if he knows others have known for awhile it could be problematic depending on your dad's personality.santanaanna said:@PinkLady2015 my brother is about 10 years older than me but he would have been 22 when his wife had their first baby. Like I get that we're young but we are really mature for our age and we are doing better then both of our parents were when they had us.
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We both have well paying full time jobs! I don't understand him and I'm trying to not get too stressed out
As for telling him....I don't have too many suggestions other than to just put it out there, explain that you are happy, give him space to process the news if he needs it and don't be upset if he isn't over the moon immediately.
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