R/R/CS: FF gave me dotted crosshairs for CD17, which is when I initially thought I might have O'd. But with my temps as erratic as they have been (definitely woke up with my mouth open this morning...) I'm going to wait it out and see what happens with a couple more temps. I'm just acting like I haven't O'd yet.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have two older brothers. So I am the youngest, and only girl. I always wanted a sister, but I do have wonderful sisters-in-law!
WAYDTGKU: Temping, OPKs, waiting impatiently for my u/s on Friday to see how the Clomid worked for me.
R/R/CS: I have heard that Clomid can cause dryness. We have and have used preseed, but I'm thinking about trying Mucinex this time instead (or in addition?). **question** When should I start taking the Mucinex? A couple days before expected O? I'm just not sure if it will work right away or if I need to have it in my system for a couple days.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the oldest of three, all girls. We are 34, 29, and 21.
DS: June 2008 Married: July 2015 BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
WAYDTGKU: Waiting for AF to leave the building. Then everything.
R/R/CS: I feel nauseous and crampy, DH is sick, and the puppy was going crazy this morning. Just a rough start to the day and I already know work is going to be a nightmare. Just can't wait to just back on the TTC train.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the oldest. My little sister is 10 years younger than me.
R/R/CS: I'm starting to think I'm not going to O this cycle. I'm hoping it's just xoming a little later. its a snow day here today meaning DH is working from home so that's nice!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
R/R/CS: I've been gone a while, I was on leave from work for two weeks because of a botched laser eye surgery and I wasn't temping because I was sleeping in. I still P'dOAS though and oddly enough my usual FW came and went with no signs of O. I thought it was going to be anovulatory, except yesterday I temped for the first time in a couple of weeks and it was still SO low! Even after warming it up under the blankets. I thought my BBT was broken but then got EWCM later that day. At 8pm I used my LAST opk and it was +! Tthat's only happened once before, so that was exciting and lucky. Now I am back into a routine for work, back into a temping routine, possibly O'd today or yesterday, ordered more OPKs for next cycle, all is good!!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the baby, we are two girls
Me: 33 | DH: 34
TTC #1 Oct 2015
BFP Mar 26, 2016 - DD born Nov 2016 TTC #2 since Mar 2017 DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility) IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts! FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO) = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269
R/R/CS: I am pretty sure I already O'd. If discard the temp on Sunday (cd 22) then I get dotted CH on Cd 20 (fri). I should probably discard that temp anyways because I went to bed at 3am with a buzz and then woke up at 7am to temp (normal temp time is 5-6am). But, if I have a high temp tomorrow I get CH whether or not I discard that one temp, so I'll stick around here until then.
**Question: I am not so sure I buy cd 20 as O date... Does anyone else O on the same day they get a peak on the adv OPK? I even checked twice on the day before, morning and afternoon to see if I could get a peak before I headed out of town because I wanted to not have to bring the tests with me. I had flashy smileys both times. Chart attached. GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
i am the oldest of three girls. We are three years apart all born within 2 weeks of each other. We are 30, 27, and 24. My my poor dad lol. He travels a decent amount for work and I wonder now if it was timed strategically at certain times of the month lol. Pretty sure we all synced up.
DH is an only child so no siblings in law there. The youngest just got engaged so I have a BiL in my future. The middle had a girlfriend (that we adore) so hopefully there will be another sister in the future.
sldp123 is Mucinex for CM a thing? I have never heard of that. I just know that the really good Mucinex, the behind the counter kind, is the best cold medicine ever, and i haven't been allowed to take it since i got pregnant in 2014. because you can't take the good stuff pregnant, and it's also best to avoid while breastfeeding because Mucinex, and some other cold medicines like Sudafed, can dry up your milk. I find it really interesting that it would dry up breastmilk but would do the opposite and increase CM? I'm interested to hear about this too!
Month/Cycle: 2 (NTNP)
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: straight chillin'. haha. temping and sex when we feel like it.
R/R/CS: since going off BC in 2014 i've never O'ed before CD 19, so i probably have a while still unless my body really wants to F with me. Since my cycle came back after giving birth, i've also noticed multiple rounds of fertile CM before O, and i haven't seen any yet this month. So i'm not expecting much to happen anytime soon.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have one younger sister. Technically i also have 3 younger step-siblings (two brothers and a sister), but my dad didn't marry their mom until i was about to graduate college, so we didn't grow up together or anything, and we're not close, so i don't really count them.
@delujm0 I think that regular old mucinex... Just the expectorant... will thin mucous. Not just the crud in your throat, but all mucous inc CM. I took it last week because I had a chest cold and needed it but I don't recall a difference in CM.
as with anything... I would ask a doctor if breastfeeding of course
Month/Cycle: 5/5 (10/11 in all)
CD: 24
WAYDTGKU: all the things we've been doing
R/R/CS:
********** TW Loss Mentioned*********
Today is a hard ttcal day. I debated whether bringing this up at all, but I feel like this is the only place I can. Today is the EDD for my loss. I'm pretty sure it's why I've been so emotional lately, just the anticipation, knowin it was coming. I'm just really sad and not sure how to express it, so I keep it in. I'm glad I have a training this morning where I do not know anyone and I can just keep to myself.
Sorry for being a Debbie Downer
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
I have an older brother and a younger sister. I'm right in the middle. I also have a SIL and two BIL.
@delujm0 I don't think it necessarily helps with CM production, but it thins it, which I guess is good? My gynecologist mentioned it when I first told him we were going to start TTC. I will try anything at this point, haha.
DS: June 2008 Married: July 2015 BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
@sldp123 I tried mucinex a few cycles back and I found I had even less CM. I made sure it was just plain mucus too. Since then I haven't used anything for fear it will make things worse but it works for other people!
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: Acupuncture today, DH is doing his semen analysis tomorrow
R/R/CS: A little nervous right for my first acupuncture!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I am the oldest. My brother and sister are 7 and 9 years younger. I was a bit of an oops when my parents were young!
Me: 29 years old, DH:31 years old
TTC #1 since July 2015
SA Feb 2016 & May 2016: Excellent count and motility, 3% morphology Surgery Dec 2016: submucosal fibroid removed Awaiting RE appointment
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm a middle child. I have an older sister and a younger sister.
Me: 31 | H: 32
Married September 2014
TTC #1 December 2014 RE appt 12/2015 CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent Dx: Unexplained Infertility February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6 BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16 It's a girl! Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S -------- TFAS March 2018 RE consultation 8/2/18 Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19 It's a girl! Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
WAYDTGKU: temping, cm, pnv, hopefully sex ed starting today?
R/R/CS: My chart is no longer pretty . I had a giant temp spike this morning to post O zone. I believe it is due to a sore throat. Ughhh. Question: I tried to search but only found years old stuff that was super inconclusive. Tell me about green tea? Does it work for anyone? When do you have to start drinking it in your cycle?
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? Middle between two brothers. We're 29, 27, and 23. My H's family also consists of two boys and a girl.
furbabymom2007sldp123 that is really interesting; i'm not planning to try it right now (i have had a ridiculous amount of CM for like WEEKS at a time before O ever since my PP cycles started up), i was just curious! No one ever mentioned that on here when i was TTC#1. You learn something new every day!
WAYDTGKU: BBT and checking CM and having sex occasionally. Gearing up to start OPKs soonish...
R/R/CS: I haven't done one of these in a while because even I get tired of the same ol' same ol'. I think it has been good in a way because I don't obsess so much even when there is nothing to obsess over.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a sister who is 3 years older than me. We weren't very close growing up and still not super close but we are there for each other. We just don't have a lot in common.
@itsmehere1212 I can only imagine how hard today may be for you, hugs! Do something special for yourself today. Month/Cycle: 6/7
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, BBT, OPK, CM, BD. It has also been over a week since I've had a coke! I typically drink one a day, but decided I'd give that up as well for any chance it can help this process.
R/R/CS: Got a flashing smiley on the OPK this morning. Had one this early last cycle too, but then ended up seeing 6 days of flashing smileys last cycle. Really hope that doesn't happen again. I know OPKs aren't the main predictor here, but it's just annoying to get so many days of that flashing face.
Question - I really want my H to get a SA. I can't get into my OB until April, has anyone ever called their doc to get a SA scheduled before having a real appointment to talk through everything? I'd just like to get the ball rolling on feeling like we are getting somewhere.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I am the oldest and have a brother and sister. My H is also the oldest and he has two sisters and a brother.
@anj27 I am assuming he probably can, only reason I was holding off on that is I have seen some people on here say that their OB/RE wants everything done through their office, so wasn't sure what most have done.
R/R/CS: OPK was maybe a little darker this morning! It would be convenient for a variety of reasons if I could get it together and O this week. Also, I promised DH last night that I would wake him up for a quickie this morning, and I actually had time to follow through for once. That was fun.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a sister who's about a year and a half younger than me. She has insisted on telling people that "we are sixteen months apart" since she was a little kid. It kind of annoys me. I am thirty two years old. It does not matter how many months.
@jmr1515 thanks! Maybe I shouldn't try anything new, I definitely don't want to make anything worse. But obviously what I've been doing to this point hasn't worked anyway, so... I don't know.
@Sparty18 I don't have any personal experience, as my RE ordered DH's SA, but I don't think it would hurt for him to call his PCP to see if it's something they can order. The results can always be sent to your OB/RE when the time comes, if needed.
DS: June 2008 Married: July 2015 BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
R/R/CS: I'm starting to get so stressed as approach my FW. I feel so much anxiety that we're not going to be able to make it happen. I'm really hoping that my body sticks to the schedule, because if I O around CD17 like FF thinks I will, I think we'll have a chance this time, since we will actually be able to HIO this weekend.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the oldest, I have one younger sister.
Me: 28 | DH: 31 Together since 2006 | Married May 2015 TTC #1 since November 2015 BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
WAYDTGKU: just waiting for FW. In the meantime, taking PNV, folic acid, OPKs, BBT
R/R/CS: I cut off all of my hair yesterday. I have long, thick red hair that was halfway down my back, and it's above my shoulders now. It's so strange to see so short! I don't know if I hate it or love it. DH says he likes it, so whatev.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I am the oldest. I have a sister that is 3 years younger than me. My parents are divorced, and they remarried and had kids with their spouses. I have a 16 and 13 year old half brothers and a 11 year old half sister on my dad's side, and an 11 year old sister on my mom's side. It was definitely a shock to have extra siblings later in life.
My husband is the opposite of me. He's the youngest, and was a later in life baby. He was a surprise. His sister is 16 years older, and his brother is 14 years older.
Married 10/4/2014 (10-4, good buddy!) Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17 Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
"It's when you know you're licked before you begin, but you begin anyway and see it through no matter what. You rarely win, but sometimes you do." -Atticus Finch, To Kill A Mockingbird
Month/Cycle: 5/5 (10/11 in all) CD: 24 WAYDTGKU: all the things we've been doing R/R/CS: ********** TW Loss Mentioned********* Today is a hard ttcal day. I debated whether bringing this up at all, but I feel like this is the only place I can. Today is the EDD for my loss. I'm pretty sure it's why I've been so emotional lately, just the anticipation, knowin it was coming. I'm just really sad and not sure how to express it, so I keep it in. I'm glad I have a training this morning where I do not know anyone and I can just keep to myself. Sorry for being a Debbie Downer GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have an older brother and a younger sister. I'm right in the middle. I also have a SIL and two BIL.
I'm so sorry. That must feel really shitty. It's okay to be sad! Maybe devote some time to thinking about your loss privately and give yourself permission to cry. It might be cathartic. I know it can be for me
R/R/CS: well my opk was like a little more than the squinter it was before, so that's good!!!! I'll keep doing it in the mornings and when it's a decent color maybe tomorrow or the next day if I'm lucky and it progresses I'll start twice a day. Let's hope that's the case at least!!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? im in the middle of some half and step siblings
Month/Cycle: 1/1 (of actively trying/timing. 6/5 off BCP)
CD: 21
WAYDTGKU: OPKs,
Temping (starting next cycle), EOD during FW (estimated by FF right now, hoping
to narrow that down in the next few months), CM checks, etc.
R/R/CS: None yet really. I'm having signs that O is nearing (EWCM),
but not turning an OPK. I foresee OPKs getting frustrating. Hopefully temping
will soon replace them, as others have suggested.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in
(oldest, middle, etc.)? I have one older brother, so I am the youngest. Oddly
enough we pretty much swapped on the stereotypical oldest vs youngest sibling
roles. He’s 32 and I’m 27.
@houseofsetters Sorry your temps are erratic this month. I
plan to start temping next cycle and haven’t decided yet if I will temp orally
or vaginally for the same reason that I can be a mouth breather when I sleep. Hope
the next few days/temps bring some clarity to your chart. BTW love the gif
@sldp123 Wow, 3 girls in one house. I’m sure that was interesting
growing up! I always wondered what it would have been like to have a sister but
it was just me and my brother. I do have a pretty great SIL and will be gaining
a new one this year.
@kristah2 I actually knew a girl who was a “surprise” child
and was 20 or so years younger than her oldest sibling. She is in her 40’s now
and her oldest brother is in his 60’s. Definitely interesting family dynamics.
@itsmehere1212 I’m sorry for your loss. I can only imagine
how hard today is for you. Creepy internet hugs your way.
@shallowseas Happy Birthday to your DH. Hope you both have a
good day.
@lcsrva FX you get a positive OPK today. I am not having much
luck with them, so I hope someone does.
Me: 27 - DH: 33
Married: June 2011
TTC #1: January 2016
BFP #1: February 22nd
2016 MC w/ Misoprostol: March 21st 2016 -Blighted Ovum
R/R/CS: so I got all crazy about charting on FF. Then realized my sleep pattern is bad I can't really temp. So i got a huge pack of opks. The kicker is I'm ridiculously irregular. I charted 37 day cycle last month, but this month my opks say O day is here (day 10-13)! So I'll have to rely on the opks and hope i can catch O. guess I wont be on WTO long this time, straight into the worrisome TWW
Side note- We had our wedding last october and finally booked our honeymoon for end of march (no debt luckily)! Turns out it's easter weekend (oops) lol. Never been far from Florida and we're goin to the smokies and taking our 2 dogs on a road trip!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? 2 Brothers and I'm the middle child. Made me a bit of a tomboy
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R/R/CS: Well, I'm about midway through my first first Provera-induced cycle. (It was about 80 days before AF finally showed!) No sign of ovulation just yet, so I'm hoping my body will give me somethin' in the next week or two. I started taking my BBT, too, which I was hesitant about at first but now I'm happy - it makes me feel like I have some control over the situation, even if I don't know how to read the chart very well yet. I'm just hoping this Metformin works for me and my cycle isn't ridiculously long again. We'll see....
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a younger brother, he's about 5 years younger than I am.
@itsmehere1212 - Sorry about your loss, and that you're going through such an impossibly difficult time. Lots of creepy internet hugs to you and take care of yourself. @gonetothesea - Yay for new hair! @sparty18 - Way to go on giving up Coke! That's awesome! @PrettyPalomino - Welcome back! I was wondering how you were doing. Glad to hear things are turning around for you!
Month/Cycle: 14/10
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: Letrozole and IUI
R/R/CS: DH got me sick with this nasty congestion headache. I think my eyes might pop out of my head! We both went to bed at 8 last night, I had to be up for a meeting at 7, DH is still sleeping. I wish I was still asleep.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have 1 older sister, 2 older brothers and 1 younger brother. They're all married and we're pretty equally spread out, the oldest is 35 and the youngest is 25.
@itsmehere1212 I'm so sorry you're going through that, creepy Internet hugs!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: All of it this time around. I think it's going to take me a while to get the hang of CP/CM.
R/R/CS: My temps went back down to my usual pre-O range today, so my chart won't be pretty this cycle, but I'm glad they are back to normal.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a half-sister 16 1/2 years older than me. We didn't grow up together and haven't ever been particularly close.
DD born PPROM preemie at 36 weeks on 10/1/17 after over a year TI, then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW, because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
Re: Mucinex, if you don't want to buy actual Mucinex with the other active ingredients (the other meds in them), you can buy guaifenesin. It's the expectorant part (thins mucus) of Mucinex and is way cheaper to buy by itself. I found some at WalMart, but I'm sure it's available other places. @sldp123, @delujm0, @furbabymom2007 (sorry If I forgot anyone, my computer is being a jerk).
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, starting back with OPKs, then sex ED/EOD
R/R/CS: Our doc said we really needed to "focus" from CS13-17. I work all those nights (up until the morning of CD17) and he has school/work. Ughhh, looks like lots of "hey, wake up" in my future (which usually means to is too tired...).
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the youngest. One older sister, two older brothers.
TTGP February Siggy Challenge
creepy Easter bunny coming as soon as I can look at the screen more than 30 min at a time.
Me: 28
DH: 29
Married: October 2012
TTC #1 since September 2015
Clomid round 1 starting: 4FEB2016 = No ovulation Clomid round 2 starting: TBD... whenever AF decides to show up, or I have to take Provera again
@BelcherEars I'll give you my two cents! I'm on my first cycle temping, and wish I would have started vaginally. My chart is kind of a mess, and I hate to think I'm getting a cycle's worth of wonky information. Although, I do still think I probably caught O. Maybe. Hopefully.
R/R/CS: So, I've been talking about this a lot over in TWW, but I got a formal job offer on Friday and I accepted! I'll be starting 2/29!
I'm not sure if I should TTA for a while, and if so, for how long. I've asked myself what do I want more - a baby or a job? And hands down the answer is baby. BUT if we just TTA for a couple of months and I'm able to focus on laying groundwork for being a successful new employee and become eligible for FMLA by the time I would need to go on leave - isn't that worth it? I feel like I'm not rational enough to make the right decision (which would be TTA). On the other hand, I have no idea how long it's going to take to get KTFU again, so what if we keep trying and I'm still not KTFU in another three months? Blergh. /end rant.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? Only child
@schwee25 Why do you have an open circle on CD 7? That could be what is making it look wonky. Also, I know for me my temps are rocky until about CD 8 or 9 and then they settle down, so I wouldn't worry about it not looking pretty yet.
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD: 17
WAYDTGKU: Temping, CM, CP, sex ED
R/R/CS: Oh, confusing chart. Please CS me. I don't buy the CH FF has given me and I think I may have O'd yesterday. I sure hope so because we can't HIO today or tomorrow. I think I'll stay here in WTO until I have a better idea though.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
I have three sisters (ages 26, 24, 21, 19). I'm number 2. I also have 2 brothers-in-law.
Oh, I wanted to say thank you to everyone who wished me well the other day in the WTO thread. I didn't want to revive a zombie thread, but I did want to say thank you.
TTGP February Siggy Challenge
creepy Easter bunny coming as soon as I can look at the screen more than 30 min at a time.
Me: 28
DH: 29
Married: October 2012
TTC #1 since September 2015
Clomid round 1 starting: 4FEB2016 = No ovulation Clomid round 2 starting: TBD... whenever AF decides to show up, or I have to take Provera again
@britters314 Ahh I had no idea what the open circles meant. I looked back and I did take my temp slightly later yesterday morning. Totally forgot about that. Hopefully it will look prettier in a few more days! Thanks!
My temps are always rocky pre-O. They don't start to look normal until closer to O...like CD 9 or 10. This month they're all over the place. If you temp orally it could also be that you're breathing through your mouth which can mess up temps. Hopefully they aren't so rocky the closer you get to O and afterwards.
Me: 31 | H: 32
Married September 2014
TTC #1 December 2014 RE appt 12/2015 CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent Dx: Unexplained Infertility February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6 BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16 It's a girl! Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S -------- TFAS March 2018 RE consultation 8/2/18 Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19 It's a girl! Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
WAYDTGKU: All the things ... except sex, apparently (see r/r/cs)
R/R/CS: My husband re-injured an old back injury in November, and we took December and January off so he could heal (turned out to be a torn disc). This month he was ready to go again, so we were trying for EOD. Then he slept funny and now he's in pain all the time and sex is too rigorous. I'm not particularly type-A, but the idea of wasting another month is driving me insane. I'm trying really hard to not pressure him, but I kind of just want to scream a little bit. It doesn't help that O is later than usual this month, making the couple of times we DID do it (and finish) useless.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm two years older than my brother.
Re: WTO Tuesday
CD: 22
WAYDTGKU: BBT, PNV, HIO EOD, omegas
R/R/CS: FF gave me dotted crosshairs for CD17, which is when I initially thought I might have O'd. But with my temps as erratic as they have been (definitely woke up with my mouth open this morning...) I'm going to wait it out and see what happens with a couple more temps. I'm just acting like I haven't O'd yet.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
I have two older brothers. So I am the youngest, and only girl. I always wanted a sister, but I do have wonderful sisters-in-law!
Month/Cycle: 8
CD:10
WAYDTGKU: Temping, OPKs, waiting impatiently for my u/s on Friday to see how the Clomid worked for me.
R/R/CS: I have heard that Clomid can cause dryness. We have and have used preseed, but I'm thinking about trying Mucinex this time instead (or in addition?). **question** When should I start taking the Mucinex? A couple days before expected O? I'm just not sure if it will work right away or if I need to have it in my system for a couple days.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the oldest of three, all girls. We are 34, 29, and 21.
Married: July 2015
BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
CD: 30
WAYDTGKU: All the things, plus metformin.
R/R/CS: I'm fine.
GTKY: I am the middle child. I have an older half-brother and a younger brother.
Me: 33 H: 36
Married: 12/14/13 DS: 1/29/09
BFP2: 10/9/15 MMC: 11/12/15
BFP3: 4/6/16 DD: 12/12/16
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: Waiting for AF to leave the building. Then everything.
R/R/CS: I feel nauseous and crampy, DH is sick, and the puppy was going crazy this morning. Just a rough start to the day and I already know work is going to be a nightmare. Just can't wait to just back on the TTC train.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the oldest. My little sister is 10 years younger than me.
Previously nweg...7878
CD: 15
WAYSTGKU: the usual.
R/R/CS: I'm starting to think I'm not going to O this cycle. I'm hoping it's just xoming a little later.
its a snow day here today meaning DH is working from home so that's nice!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
DH has a brother 4 years older, sister 4 years younger AND a brother who is 20 years younger then him!!
Rare situation but him being sort of upset about his mom being pregnant helped bring us together.
CD: 25
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, CM, sometimes BBT
R/R/CS: I've been gone a while, I was on leave from work for two weeks because of a botched laser eye surgery and I wasn't temping because I was sleeping in. I still P'dOAS though and oddly enough my usual FW came and went with no signs of O. I thought it was going to be anovulatory, except yesterday I temped for the first time in a couple of weeks and it was still SO low! Even after warming it up under the blankets. I thought my BBT was broken but then got EWCM later that day. At 8pm I used my LAST opk and it was +! Tthat's only happened once before, so that was exciting and lucky. Now I am back into a routine for work, back into a temping routine, possibly O'd today or yesterday, ordered more OPKs for next cycle, all is good!!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the baby, we are two girls
TTC #2 since Mar 2017
DX: MF June 2019, varicocele embolization Jan 2020, good improvement (14 mil, low motility)
IUI#1 Aug 2020 - BFN
IVF #1 Dec 2020 (ICSI) - ER, freeze-all - 15 retrieved, 15 mature, 15 fertilized. 4 embryos frozen, all day 5 blasts!
FET #1 Feb 2021 - BFN
FET #2 Apr 2021 - BFP 5DP5DT!! Beta #1 13DP5DT (17DPO) = HcG 1,238. Beta #2 17DP5DT (21DPO) = HcG 8,269
CD:24
WAYDTGKU: everything
R/R/CS: I am pretty sure I already O'd. If discard the temp on Sunday (cd 22) then I get dotted CH on Cd 20 (fri). I should probably discard that temp anyways because I went to bed at 3am with a buzz and then woke up at 7am to temp (normal temp time is 5-6am). But, if I have a high temp tomorrow I get CH whether or not I discard that one temp, so I'll stick around here until then.
**Question: I am not so sure I buy cd 20 as O date... Does anyone else O on the same day they get a peak on the adv OPK? I even checked twice on the day before, morning and afternoon to see if I could get a peak before I headed out of town because I wanted to not have to bring the tests with me. I had flashy smileys both times. Chart attached.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
i am the oldest of three girls. We are three years apart all born within 2 weeks of each other. We are 30, 27, and 24. My my poor dad lol. He travels a decent amount for work and I wonder now if it was timed strategically at certain times of the month lol. Pretty sure we all synced up.
DH is an only child so no siblings in law there. The youngest just got engaged so I have a BiL in my future. The middle had a girlfriend (that we adore) so hopefully there will be another sister in the future.
sldp123 is Mucinex for CM a thing? I have never heard of that. I just know that the really good Mucinex, the behind the counter kind, is the best cold medicine ever, and i haven't been allowed to take it since i got pregnant in 2014. because you can't take the good stuff pregnant, and it's also best to avoid while breastfeeding because Mucinex, and some other cold medicines like Sudafed, can dry up your milk. I find it really interesting that it would dry up breastmilk but would do the opposite and increase CM? I'm interested to hear about this too!
Month/Cycle: 2 (NTNP)
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: straight chillin'. haha. temping and sex when we feel like it.
R/R/CS: since going off BC in 2014 i've never O'ed before CD 19, so i probably have a while still unless my body really wants to F with me. Since my cycle came back after giving birth, i've also noticed multiple rounds of fertile CM before O, and i haven't seen any yet this month. So i'm not expecting much to happen anytime soon.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have one younger sister. Technically i also have 3 younger step-siblings (two brothers and a sister), but my dad didn't marry their mom until i was about to graduate college, so we didn't grow up together or anything, and we're not close, so i don't really count them.
as with anything... I would ask a doctor if breastfeeding of course
Married: July 2015
BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
Month/Cycle: 8/8
CD: 7
WAYDTGKU: Acupuncture today, DH is doing his semen analysis tomorrow
R/R/CS: A little nervous right for my first acupuncture!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I am the oldest. My brother and sister are 7 and 9 years younger. I was a bit of an oops when my parents were young!
Surgery Dec 2016: submucosal fibroid removed
Awaiting RE appointment
CD:9
WAYDTGKU: All the things + Letrozole this cycle
R/R/CS: Today is my H's birthday!!!!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm a middle child. I have an older sister and a younger sister.
RE appt 12/2015
CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent
Dx: Unexplained Infertility
February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6
BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16
It's a girl!
Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S
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TFAS March 2018
RE consultation 8/2/18
Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19
It's a girl!
Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
Month/Cycle: 7/6
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: temping, cm, pnv, hopefully sex ed starting today?
R/R/CS: My chart is no longer pretty
Question: I tried to search but only found years old stuff that was super inconclusive. Tell me about green tea? Does it work for anyone? When do you have to start drinking it in your cycle?
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
Middle between two brothers. We're 29, 27, and 23. My H's family also consists of two boys and a girl.
furbabymom2007sldp123 that is really interesting; i'm not planning to try it right now (i have had a ridiculous amount of CM for like WEEKS at a time before O ever since my PP cycles started up), i was just curious! No one ever mentioned that on here when i was TTC#1. You learn something new every day!
itsmehere1212
CD: 14 ETA: 15 - see, I'm rusty.
WAYDTGKU: BBT and checking CM and having sex occasionally. Gearing up to start OPKs soonish...
R/R/CS: I haven't done one of these in a while because even I get tired of the same ol' same ol'. I think it has been good in a way because I don't obsess so much even when there is nothing to obsess over.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a sister who is 3 years older than me. We weren't very close growing up and still not super close but we are there for each other. We just don't have a lot in common.
@itsmehere1212 I can only imagine how hard today may be for you, hugs! Do something special for yourself today.
Month/Cycle: 6/7
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, BBT, OPK, CM, BD. It has also been over a week since I've had a coke! I typically drink one a day, but decided I'd give that up as well for any chance it can help this process.
R/R/CS: Got a flashing smiley on the OPK this morning. Had one this early last cycle too, but then ended up seeing 6 days of flashing smileys last cycle. Really hope that doesn't happen again. I know OPKs aren't the main predictor here, but it's just annoying to get so many days of that flashing face.
Question - I really want my H to get a SA. I can't get into my OB until April, has anyone ever called their doc to get a SA scheduled before having a real appointment to talk through everything? I'd just like to get the ball rolling on feeling like we are getting somewhere.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I am the oldest and have a brother and sister. My H is also the oldest and he has two sisters and a brother.
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: PNV, EPO, OPK, HIO ED/EOD
R/R/CS: OPK was maybe a little darker this morning! It would be convenient for a variety of reasons if I could get it together and O this week. Also, I promised DH last night that I would wake him up for a quickie this morning, and I actually had time to follow through for once. That was fun.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a sister who's about a year and a half younger than me. She has insisted on telling people that "we are sixteen months apart" since she was a little kid. It kind of annoys me. I am thirty two years old. It does not matter how many months.
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Started TTC #1 November 2015
BFP 6/10/2016 - EDD 2/22/2017
@Sparty18 I don't have any personal experience, as my RE ordered DH's SA, but I don't think it would hurt for him to call his PCP to see if it's something they can order. The results can always be sent to your OB/RE when the time comes, if needed.
Married: July 2015
BFP: 5/20/16 | EDD: 1/28/17 | Twin boys born 1/16/17
@nwegman7878 I really want to cuddle your puppy.
Month/Cycle: 4/4
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: Temping, OPK, CM
R/R/CS: I'm starting to get so stressed as approach my FW. I feel so much anxiety that we're not going to be able to make it happen. I'm really hoping that my body sticks to the schedule, because if I O around CD17 like FF thinks I will, I think we'll have a chance this time, since we will actually be able to HIO this weekend.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
I'm the oldest, I have one younger sister.
Me: 28 | DH: 31
Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
TTC #1 since November 2015
BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: just waiting for FW. In the meantime, taking PNV, folic acid, OPKs, BBT
R/R/CS: I cut off all of my hair yesterday. I have long, thick red hair that was halfway down my back, and it's above my shoulders now. It's so strange to see so short! I don't know if I hate it or love it. DH says he likes it, so whatev.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I am the oldest. I have a sister that is 3 years younger than me. My parents are divorced, and they remarried and had kids with their spouses. I have a 16 and 13 year old half brothers and a 11 year old half sister on my dad's side, and an 11 year old sister on my mom's side. It was definitely a shock to have extra siblings later in life.
My husband is the opposite of me. He's the youngest, and was a later in life baby. He was a surprise. His sister is 16 years older, and his brother is 14 years older.
Baby Boy #1 born 1/9/17
Baby Boy #2 EDD 11/4/18
Me: 33 H: 36
Married: 12/14/13 DS: 1/29/09
BFP2: 10/9/15 MMC: 11/12/15
BFP3: 4/6/16 DD: 12/12/16
CD: 21
WAYDTGKU: all the things
R/R/CS: well my opk was like a little more than the squinter it was before, so that's good!!!! I'll keep doing it in the mornings and when it's a decent color maybe tomorrow or the next day if I'm lucky and it progresses I'll start twice a day. Let's hope that's the case at least!!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
im in the middle of some half and step siblings
Month/Cycle: 1/1 (of actively trying/timing. 6/5 off BCP)
CD: 21
WAYDTGKU: OPKs, Temping (starting next cycle), EOD during FW (estimated by FF right now, hoping to narrow that down in the next few months), CM checks, etc.
R/R/CS: None yet really. I'm having signs that O is nearing (EWCM), but not turning an OPK. I foresee OPKs getting frustrating. Hopefully temping will soon replace them, as others have suggested.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have one older brother, so I am the youngest. Oddly enough we pretty much swapped on the stereotypical oldest vs youngest sibling roles. He’s 32 and I’m 27.
@houseofsetters Sorry your temps are erratic this month. I plan to start temping next cycle and haven’t decided yet if I will temp orally or vaginally for the same reason that I can be a mouth breather when I sleep. Hope the next few days/temps bring some clarity to your chart. BTW love the gif
@sldp123 Wow, 3 girls in one house. I’m sure that was interesting growing up! I always wondered what it would have been like to have a sister but it was just me and my brother. I do have a pretty great SIL and will be gaining a new one this year.
@nwegman7878 Hope you and yours feel better soon
@kristah2 I actually knew a girl who was a “surprise” child and was 20 or so years younger than her oldest sibling. She is in her 40’s now and her oldest brother is in his 60’s. Definitely interesting family dynamics.
@itsmehere1212 I’m sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how hard today is for you. Creepy internet hugs your way.
@shallowseas Happy Birthday to your DH. Hope you both have a good day.
@lcsrva FX you get a positive OPK today. I am not having much luck with them, so I hope someone does.
Me: 27 - DH: 33
Married: June 2011
TTC #1: January 2016
BFP #1: February 22nd 2016 MC w/ Misoprostol: March 21st 2016 -Blighted Ovum
BFP #2: July 6th 2016 EDD: March 15th 2017
M17 October Siggy Challenge: Animals in Costumes
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: a lot. vitamins, cm, ff chart, etc
R/R/CS: so I got all crazy about charting on FF. Then realized my sleep pattern is bad I can't really temp. So i got a huge pack of opks. The kicker is I'm ridiculously irregular. I charted 37 day cycle last month, but this month my opks say O day is here (day 10-13)! So I'll have to rely on the opks and hope i can catch O. guess I wont be on WTO long this time, straight into the worrisome TWW
Side note- We had our wedding last october and finally booked our honeymoon for end of march (no debt luckily)! Turns out it's easter weekend (oops) lol. Never been far from Florida and we're goin to the smokies and taking our 2 dogs on a road trip!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
2 Brothers and I'm the middle child. Made me a bit of a tomboy
My Personal, Frequently Changing Gif Party>>>
CD: 16
WAYDTGKU: Metformin, BBT, OPK's, and HIO EOD
R/R/CS: Well, I'm about midway through my first first Provera-induced cycle. (It was about 80 days before AF finally showed!) No sign of ovulation just yet, so I'm hoping my body will give me somethin' in the next week or two. I started taking my BBT, too, which I was hesitant about at first but now I'm happy - it makes me feel like I have some control over the situation, even if I don't know how to read the chart very well yet. I'm just hoping this Metformin works for me and my cycle isn't ridiculously long again. We'll see....
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a younger brother, he's about 5 years younger than I am.
TTC Since: Nov. 2015
Dx: PCOS
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round I: BFN
Clomid + Ovidrel, Round II: BFN
Clomid+Ovidrel, Round III: BFP! 7/5/16
@itsmehere1212 - Sorry about your loss, and that you're going through such an impossibly difficult time. Lots of creepy internet hugs to you and take care of yourself.
@gonetothesea - Yay for new hair!
@sparty18 - Way to go on giving up Coke! That's awesome!
@PrettyPalomino - Welcome back! I was wondering how you were doing. Glad to hear things are turning around for you!
Month/Cycle: 14/10
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: Letrozole and IUI
R/R/CS: DH got me sick with this nasty congestion headache. I think my eyes might pop out of my head! We both went to bed at 8 last night, I had to be up for a meeting at 7, DH is still sleeping. I wish I was still asleep.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have 1 older sister, 2 older brothers and 1 younger brother. They're all married and we're pretty equally spread out, the oldest is 35 and the youngest is 25.
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: All of it this time around. I think it's going to take me a while to get the hang of CP/CM.
R/R/CS: My temps went back down to my usual pre-O range today, so my chart won't be pretty this cycle, but I'm glad they are back to normal.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have a half-sister 16 1/2 years older than me. We didn't grow up together and haven't ever been particularly close.
then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.
Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
@itsmehere1212 I am so sorry. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling today. Hugs!
@ShallowSeas Happy Birthday to your hubby!
Month/Cycle: 3/3
CD: 8
WAYDTGKU: temping, OPKs
R/R/CS: First month temping.. I've been waking up at the same time every morning but my temps look a little scattered? CS appreciated!
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I have one older sister
ETA to attach chart
Me: 25 | Him: 31
Married: September 2014
DSS Born 2/2/08
TTC our 1st since December 2015
BFP 3/18/16 - EDD 12/1/16
Proud Parents of a 5 year old Miniature Dachshund
@itsmehere1212, sending you hugs!
Month/Cycle: 3/2 (after count restart)
CD: 10
WAYDTGKU: PNVs, starting back with OPKs, then sex ED/EOD
R/R/CS: Our doc said we really needed to "focus" from CS13-17. I work all those nights (up until the morning of CD17) and he has school/work. Ughhh, looks like lots of "hey, wake up" in my future (which usually means to is too tired...).
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm the youngest. One older sister, two older brothers.
TTGP February Siggy Challenge
Me: 28
DH: 29
Married: October 2012
TTC #1 since September 2015
Clomid round 1 starting: 4FEB2016 = No ovulationClomid round 2 starting: TBD... whenever AF decides to show up, or I have to take Provera again
3 Furbabies
CD: 1
WAYDTGKU: Nothin.
R/R/CS: So, I've been talking about this a lot over in TWW, but I got a formal job offer on Friday and I accepted! I'll be starting 2/29!
I'm not sure if I should TTA for a while, and if so, for how long. I've asked myself what do I want more - a baby or a job? And hands down the answer is baby. BUT if we just TTA for a couple of months and I'm able to focus on laying groundwork for being a successful new employee and become eligible for FMLA by the time I would need to go on leave - isn't that worth it? I feel like I'm not rational enough to make the right decision (which would be TTA). On the other hand, I have no idea how long it's going to take to get KTFU again, so what if we keep trying and I'm still not KTFU in another three months? Blergh. /end rant.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? Only child
Month/Cycle: 6/6
CD: 17
WAYDTGKU: Temping, CM, CP, sex ED
R/R/CS: Oh, confusing chart. Please CS me. I don't buy the CH FF has given me and I think I may have O'd yesterday. I sure hope so because we can't HIO today or tomorrow. I think I'll stay here in WTO until I have a better idea though.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)?
I have three sisters (ages 26, 24, 21, 19). I'm number 2. I also have 2 brothers-in-law.
TTGP February Siggy Challenge
Me: 28
DH: 29
Married: October 2012
TTC #1 since September 2015
Clomid round 1 starting: 4FEB2016 = No ovulationClomid round 2 starting: TBD... whenever AF decides to show up, or I have to take Provera again
3 Furbabies
Me: 25 | Him: 31
Married: September 2014
DSS Born 2/2/08
TTC our 1st since December 2015
BFP 3/18/16 - EDD 12/1/16
Proud Parents of a 5 year old Miniature Dachshund
Thanks!
My temps are always rocky pre-O. They don't start to look normal until closer to O...like CD 9 or 10. This month they're all over the place. If you temp orally it could also be that you're breathing through your mouth which can mess up temps. Hopefully they aren't so rocky the closer you get to O and afterwards.
RE appt 12/2015
CD3 labs normal | HSG 1/8/16 clear | H's SA excellent
Dx: Unexplained Infertility
February 2016, cycle 16 - cycle #1 with Letrozole 5mg + TI | Progesterone=20.6
BFP 2/24/16 - EDD 11/7/16
It's a girl!
Isla Quinn born 10/29/16 at 38w5d via C/S
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TFAS March 2018
RE consultation 8/2/18
Suprise! BFP 8/8/18 natural cycle | EDD 4/19/19
It's a girl!
Afton Noelle born 4/10/19 at 38w5d via natural VBAC
CD:17
WAYDTGKU: All the things ... except sex, apparently (see r/r/cs)
R/R/CS: My husband re-injured an old back injury in November, and we took December and January off so he could heal (turned out to be a torn disc). This month he was ready to go again, so we were trying for EOD. Then he slept funny and now he's in pain all the time and sex is too rigorous. I'm not particularly type-A, but the idea of wasting another month is driving me insane. I'm trying really hard to not pressure him, but I kind of just want to scream a little bit.
It doesn't help that O is later than usual this month, making the couple of times we DID do it (and finish) useless.
GTKY: Do you have brothers/sisters? Where do you fit in (oldest, middle, etc.)? I'm two years older than my brother.