Okay, so now that we are all in or quickly approaching 3rd trimester, I thought it would be fun to see what everyone was most looking forward to after pregnancy (of course, we are all most excited for our babies! So that answer doesn't count). Is it something you've had to give up for pregnancy? Something you've had to take on like a special diet or bed rest you can't wait to have behind you? Maybe it's just being able to see your toes again and put shoes on comfortably! What are you most looking forward to?!
for me, it's a nice large glass of red wine and a jimmy johns turkey sandwich!!
Trading the constant physical exhaustion for just being tired from sleep deprivation. Newborn snuggles. DD has never been snuggly unless she's sick, so I'm hoping DS will want more snuggles and like baby-wearing more, because I'm pretty sure he's going to have to be strapped to me more often than not so I can chase DD Mostly, I'm excited to have control over my body back - pee when I need to, not when baby shifts; the ability to twist, bend and rough-house/roll around with DD without getting stuck. I mean baby will have dibs on the boobs, but the rest is mine again!
Being comfortable in any way, shape or form, the ability to shave without looking like I'm blind (thank you SO for pointing that out and assisting), not having to pee every 5 minutes, normal clothes, and MARGARITAS (oh how I miss you)!!
I am looking forward to DS interacting with his new sibling. He already gives her hugs and kisses and talks to her. Last night I ran to the store and he kissed my belly and said: "Bye sister, I love you!" Heart.freaking.melted.
I am looking forward to being pain free in my hips.
I can't wait to sit out on the deck and or by the fire with a glass of red wine and a few blocks of good cheese once the temps warm up a bit.
Running faster than my current very slow jog (which makes my pelvis feel like it's breaking), wine, and whiskey sours. Also being able to clean my house without having to stop every 20-30 minutes because I hurt or am out of breath.
I am looking forward to DS interacting with his new sibling. He already gives her hugs and kisses and talks to her. Last night I ran to the store and he kissed my belly and said: "Bye sister, I love you!" Heart.freaking.melted.
Agree with stomach sleeping and shaving my legs! Also being able to do an intense cardio workout again, eating sushi without feeling nervous, and wine!
I can't wait to see SO with the baby. We've talked about how we don't want her to be raised like a princess and entitled (re: spoiled brat) but I think once she gets here he's going to go all mushy "daddy's girl".
Red wine! Also, weirdly, losing the baby weight. I've never been one for paying a lot of attention to diet and exercise, but I can't wait to be me-sized again; I barely recognize the body I've been living in, and it's super disconcerting. Ooh, and tacos, which used to be my favorite food but which haven't sounded good since I got knocked up.
Definitely also looking forward to not feeling like I'm on a deadline anymore. This whole countdown-to-baby thing (and the associated I'm-never-going-to-be-ready feeling) is stressful!
Sex, alcohol, being able to just flop on the bed however i feel instead of gently sitting and swinging my legs over. For my tailbone to stop hurting. Cold cut sandwiches, sleeping on my stomach, and for the heartburn and swelling to be gone!!!
I am excited to see Dd with her new sister. She is going to be great and such a big helper.
I also look forward to not having people ask when I am going to pop and if I am excited to be pregnant. It would also be nice to not have to sleep with a bunch of pillows.
I am excited to see Dd with her new sister. She is going to be great and such a big helper.
I also look forward to not having people ask when I am going to pop and if I am excited to be pregnant. It would also be nice to not have to sleep with a bunch of pillows.
What is up with that? I hate when people ask me this question.
I am excited to see Dd with her new sister. She is going to be great and such a big helper.
I also look forward to not having people ask when I am going to pop and if I am excited to be pregnant. It would also be nice to not have to sleep with a bunch of pillows.
What is up with that? I hate when people ask me this question.
I like to say "no, but I'm excited to meet my son". Tends to throw people enough to just get an awkward "oh" in response but isn't too sassy.
Oh man. Sleeping on my belly (or my back, I don't even care at this point), comfortably reaching my toes, BELGIAN QUADS, German doppelbocks, margaritas, rye whiskey, Grey Goose, running without immediately needing to pee (or actually peeing myself), being able to easily put on and zip my boots, not waking up simultaneously needing food and to pee in the middle of the night. And I'm sure there are more!
But honestly, I have no legitimate reason to complain. I've been fortunate enough to have a very easy pregnancy so far.
Ooh, and people looking me in the eye again when they talk to me instead of at my stomach. I've never been chesty so it's very strange that someone doesn't look me in the eye...
Not worrying if I'm going to pee myself every time I cough or sneeze will be nice. Other than that, DH has promised to make me a batch of my all time favorite beer Spotted Cow. He's an avid home brewer and the recipe he found comes pretty darn close to the real thing. I was able to time being able to drink with nursing in the clear perfectly so hopefully I can do it again
Oh there's sooo many things!! beer and sake bottomless mimosas sex easily breathing jeans sushi( I eat it now but tuna is my fav and I've had to skip on that) shaving with ease knowing I can do anything without restrictions lol
Going back to CrossFit! I went through week 7 until nausea set in, then back in November, but haven't been at it since then. I feel so weak and miserable not lifting or doing...well, anything. After DD1 I actually went back to CrossFit before I even dared attempt sex! That was more a fear thing though, not desire, because oh my word, being told you CAN'T for that long suuuuuucked.
I am excited to see Dd with her new sister. She is going to be great and such a big helper.
I also look forward to not having people ask when I am going to pop and if I am excited to be pregnant. It would also be nice to not have to sleep with a bunch of pillows.
What is up with that? I hate when people ask me this question.
I like to say "no, but I'm excited to meet my son". Tends to throw people enough to just get an awkward "oh" in response but isn't too sassy.
Omg I hate the "are you excited?!?!?" question!! What else am I supposed to say but yet? If I wasn't excited to be having a baby I'm sure that's a conversation neither party would want to have!
im so looking forward to sleeping flat on my back and being able to breathe and not worry about cutting off blood supply to the baby.
Running! It's my release - my time to clear my head and just get away from being "mom", "wife", whatever! I haven't ran since very early on, and I am so eager to get back at it!
Oh and I am way too honest with people about the "are you excited" question. I tell them flat out, "I am now. Only took me about six months to get used to the idea."
Re: After the bump!
All the sangria my heart desires and sleeping on my stomach again (even if its for short intervals once LO is here).
Being able to get dressed and shave without help or contorting myself into acrobatic knots.
I'd also say riddance to fatigue but I hear that'll get much worse before it gets better haha!
This 100x
Newborn snuggles. DD has never been snuggly unless she's sick, so I'm hoping DS will want more snuggles and like baby-wearing more, because I'm pretty sure he's going to have to be strapped to me more often than not so I can chase DD
Mostly, I'm excited to have control over my body back - pee when I need to, not when baby shifts; the ability to twist, bend and rough-house/roll around with DD without getting stuck. I mean baby will have dibs on the boobs, but the rest is mine again!
Being comfortable in any way, shape or form, the ability to shave without looking like I'm blind (thank you SO for pointing that out and assisting), not having to pee every 5 minutes, normal clothes, and MARGARITAS (oh how I miss you)!!
Not having people touch my belly
Sleeping on my back without waking up in a panic thinking I'm cutting off my baby's blood supply.
I am looking forward to DS interacting with his new sibling. He already gives her hugs and kisses and talks to her. Last night I ran to the store and he kissed my belly and said: "Bye sister, I love you!" Heart.freaking.melted.
I am looking forward to being pain free in my hips.
I can't wait to sit out on the deck and or by the fire with a glass of red wine and a few blocks of good cheese once the temps warm up a bit.
Definitely also looking forward to not feeling like I'm on a deadline anymore. This whole countdown-to-baby thing (and the associated I'm-never-going-to-be-ready feeling) is stressful!
I also look forward to not having people ask when I am going to pop and if I am excited to be pregnant. It would also be nice to not have to sleep with a bunch of pillows.
But honestly, I have no legitimate reason to complain. I've been fortunate enough to have a very easy pregnancy so far.
beer and sake
bottomless mimosas
sex
easily breathing
jeans
sushi( I eat it now but tuna is my fav and I've had to skip on that)
shaving with ease
knowing I can do anything without restrictions lol
Brie and Camembert. Yum.
Seeing DH with our son.
Definitely wine.
running
having energy
having willpower when it comes to food
Sushi... Real sushi!
And all the coffee and sav blanc my little heart desires.
im so looking forward to sleeping flat on my back and being able to breathe and not worry about cutting off blood supply to the baby.
Oh, and wearing "normal" clothes again!
Running. And marathon training. Walking is NOT cutting it!
Not feeling like my pelvis is going to break by the end of the week.
Losing the pregnancy weight. (I'm 190lbs. I want to die)
Having my body back to myself/not sharing it with another person. (This has been psychologically hard on me...)
Weed. But I'm planning to EBF so this will wait for at least a year. Who knows, it may be legal by then >.<
Being able to trim "myself" without help/getting cut and still being uneven.
Not having to hear about "what it's going to be like" after LO arrives from well intentioned (read annoying as fuck) friends and family.