Oh no, still no "O"

smnewby

Yesterday I was happy to discover that sex is no longer painful (yay) but i am so disappointed I am not enjoying it like I used to!  Its like my G spot moved or retired or something.  Its not emontional it seems physical. Positions that worked before do nothing for me. I have an appt with my ob tomorrow but we run in the same social circle and I dont feel comfortable broaching the subject with her. 

That being said I do feel comfortable asking bumpies. Anyone else have this happen?  Do things eventually go back or do you have to relive your youth and try to re-figure out your body?

MargaretC5

No advise, but if you do not feel comfortable talking to your dr about personal issues maybe it is time for a new dr.  I am sure your dr hears questions like this all the time and would not even bat an eye.  If you worried that yout dr will discuss your issues outside of the office then it is definitely time for a new dr.

hlz128

Same here! Everything is opposite. Things I used to like and enjoy is now just eh.. And I still haven't been quite in the mood for it. I mean if DH makes the move I'll go with it but I haven't felt the urge yet. 

rachswi

hlaverett88 said:

Same here! Everything is opposite. Things I used to like and enjoy is now just eh.. And I still haven't been quite in the mood for it. I mean if DH makes the move I'll go with it but I haven't felt the urge yet. 

I'm the same way. I'm not overly into it yet but I at least feel close to DH. We're still trying to figure out how to get me going (mostly because boobs are out right now)... We'll get there eventually 

hlz128

rachswi said:

hlaverett88 said:

Same here! Everything is opposite. Things I used to like and enjoy is now just eh.. And I still haven't been quite in the mood for it. I mean if DH makes the move I'll go with it but I haven't felt the urge yet. 

I'm the same way. I'm not overly into it yet but I at least feel close to DH. We're still trying to figure out how to get me going (mostly because boobs are out right now)... We'll get there eventually 

I don't allow boobs to be in the games either because they leak 

mrsgabus

Things will go back to normal.  It just takes time , and until then try other things .

 I think last time It was around the 5 month mark before things were good again . 

I wouldn't know this time since I'm still out of the game.