September 2016 Moms
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I never get to stay and play. (Loss)

Just stopping by one last time to say goodbye. RE confirmed this morning that I have lost my 4th pregnancy. I feel like a failure and I'm so devastated that yet again I'm not going to get to meet my baby. I hope that none of you ever have to go thru this pain. Good luck to you all and be sure to cherish every moment you have with your LOs. Maybe someday I'll get to, too.

Re: I never get to stay and play. (Loss)

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    I am so sorry for your loss.  Praying to peace and comfort.
    DD 5/23/11 - DS 11/20/12 - BFP 1/10/16; EDD 9/22/16
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. You are not a failure. This is not your fault.
    Married 6/4/11
    Reese born 3/23/13
    Due 9/14/16

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    I am sorry for your loss. You are in no way a failure. *HUGS*
    Me: 31
    DH: 31
    TTC #1 10/2015
    BFP 1/2/2016 -- EDD - 9/11/2016
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    I'm so, so sorry for your loss.  *Hugs*
    Me - 33  DH - 36
    DD 10/4/02
    DS due 9/28/16

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    I am so so sorry...
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    I'm so, so sorry. You're not a failure. Thinking of you.
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    I am so, so sorry for your loss!  As PPs have said, you are most definitely not a failure.  I can imagine that might be difficult to hear over and over but it is true.  Take care of yourself and be kind to yourself.  I'll be thinking of you.
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    I'm so sorry @tigerfish227  try to tell yourself positive thoughts. I wish you both a lot of strength at this time.
    Me:35, DH 37  ~ Married July 2014
    ttc July 2015 ~ bfp Nov 2015 (cp)
    bfp Dec 2015 ~ (tfmr 17wk, March 2016, genetic disease)
    ttcal May 2016
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    @tigerfish227 - my heart breaks for you. This is so not fair. Please do not think for a second this is your fault. If you'd like to talk, please feel free to PM me. September 2016 won't be the same without you. Please come back in the future and let us know about your successful pregnancy, because it WILL happen. Hang in there momma, your rainbow is on its way. Xoxo.
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    I'm sorry for your loss.   You are not a failure.  Take the time you need to heal.   Sending thoughts and positive vibes your way.
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    Ugh this makes me so very sad. I'm so sorry you're going through this and I want to send you all my love.
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    I totally understand. It's unfair and so hard going through this. Go easy on yourself. I'll be thinking of you.
    bfp: 09.22.10   m/c 11.05.10 @ 10w5d
    bfp: 10.02.12  m/c 11.05.12 @ 9w3d
    bfp: 05.15.15  m/c 06.25.15 @ 9w6d
    bfp: 09.22.15  m/c 10.20.15 @ 8w1d

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    I am so so sorry for your loss. I know it is hard not to when our bodies don't work the way they should, but please don't feel like a failure, none of it is your fault I promise.
    Sending you lots of internet hugs!! Please take care of yourself.
    35 years old, TTC #1 Dec 28, 2011
    PCOS, Hypothyroidism.
    First IVF cycle June 5th 2015 --- BFP
    Miscarriage at 8 weeks
    FET December 15th 2015--- BFP!
    First saw  at 6w4d
    It's a boy!

    Luciano Alessandro Maximiliano was born on September 3rd 2016

       



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    I'm so so very sorry. I can't imagine the hurt you're going through right now. Sending you hugs and positive thoughts.
    Me: 29, DH: 29
    Married 9/27/14
    TTC #1 since 8/15/15
    BFP: 1/2/16, EDD 9/13/16 - MMC 2/10/16
    BFP: 3/17, EDD 11/23/16
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    I am so sorry! Everything will work out... And, that baby will be meant to be.
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    This is so heartbreaking, I'm so sorry. Please take your time to grieve and let yourself feel whatever you will feel. I wish this wasn't so, my heart sank when I saw this post from you. I pray you can find an answer and get a beautiful baby to bring home soon. Please don't consider yourself a failure, these things unfortunately happen and most of them get happy endings. I'm praying for your happy ending.
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    So very sorry.  :'(
    Me: 37, DH: 34
    Married: 10/29/09
    DD born: 11/30/10


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    So sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself.
    Me: 26     DH: 25
    DS1 -- 9/30/2016


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    So many hugs girl, I am so heart broken for you. 
    Me: 29 DH: 29

    5/13 Married

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    So sorry for your loss. You are NOT a failure, but I know how that feels. I hope the future holds something amazing for you.
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    So sorry... best wishes to you
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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. You are in no way a failure. Hoping for a rainbow baby once you are ready
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    I am so very sorry for your loss.
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    UGH NO!!! :(:( I am so so so sorry to read this. Sending love and hugs your way. 
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. You are not a failure, please don't think that. Sending hugs and prayers your way.

    DH: 35 | Me: 29
    BFP #1- 07.25.12, EDD: 03.24.13, DD born 03.26.13
    Surprised BFP #2- 02.25.15, EDD: 10/29/15 |*m/c 7w4d, D&C 04.02.2015 
    BFP #3- 01.21.16, EDD: 09.29.26 |*m/c-blighted ovum 2.19.16 8w1d, D&C 03.04.16 
    BFP #4- 05.24.16, EDD: 02.04.17 |*natural m/c-  07.08.16, 9w1d
    BFP #5- 09/25/16, EDD: 06.07.17 GROW
    , BABY, GROW! 

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    I am so sorry!!! :(
    Married: 3/21/15
    First time mom to a human but have been a puppy mamma for over 12 years :)

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    So sorry ((((HUGS)))
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    So sorry sending you lots of hugs ❤️
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    I'm so so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. :'(

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    My heart is breaking for you and you are not a failure! Don't give up! Im praying for you and the miracle baby that you will be able to cherish and love one day (((hugs)))

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    First of all I am beyond sorry for your pain, I hope you get to read this and brings you hope and comfort. My grandmother lost her first 4 pregnancies at different stages and went on to birth 9 kids after that. So keep your faith. You are most definitely not a failure.
    I'm 29, husband is 30
    Together since 2006
    Married 01.17.15  <3

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    Sending thoughts and prayers your way. Life is so incredibly unfair sometimes, please try to be kind to yourself.
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    I am so sorry. Be kind to yourself. 
    DD1 6.2011 
    DD2 4.2013 - vbac
    DS1 9.2016 - vbac, team green
    Baby #4 due 9.2018
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