How far along are you? 20+2 Rant/Rave/Symptoms? First ultrasound today!!! I have been waiting what seems like forever for this day! 3:00 seems so far away. RLP. All. The. Time. Starting to get really uncomfortable at night and having trouble sleeping.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Trying to decide on crib bedding and researching the big ticket items.
Questions? Nope
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Being outside on the lake, barbecues & bonfires with friends and family
@mrsschmity I can't believe you have waited this long for your FIRST ultrasound. You have the patience of a saint. I would have lost my shit by now.
How far along are you? 20w5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: Bed rest. End of rant. Rave: Today is my birthday! Sadly, I get to spend it at home doing nothing. My mom is coming over for lunch but sometimes I feel like I'd rather be alone because a) I feel sorry for myself, and b) I saw her last night at my birthday dinner and it's not like I have anything new to talk about! I got some $ and a Carter's/OshKosh gift card for my birthday. I hope the high risk doctor will let me out to do some shopping! Even if it's one store per day, lol. I seriously need a new bra! Symptoms: Feeling baby move a lot more now! Not really tired anymore, lol.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Shopping online. Maybe I'll re-organize the secret registries I've made today.
Questions? I always think of them later...
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Honestly, drinking in the back yard! BBQing with friends and just hanging out in the nice weather.
@mrsschmity you have the patience of a saint for waiting this long! Good luck today! I'm excited to hear how it goes!
How far along are you? 18 + 2
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Monday, ugh. Report cards, ugh. That's about all I've got for today. Only 4 more sleeps until the anatomy scan, so that's something to rave about!
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Nothing today.
Questions? Nope.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Drinking on a patio, lol. Or poolside. And going to the beach & just being at a cottage, spending time outside with friends & having Bon fires.
@mrsschmityHave fun today. I am anxious to hear how everything turns out Are you a cryer? I cried during my first u/s with my DS.
@deepaddy24 I love that someone else counts in sleeps. I actually find it much easier.
How far along are you? 21w3d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Heart burn. RLP. Stretching everything in my insides pain. But lots of kicks!!
What are you doing to prepare for baby? We got the ENTIRE den cleared out this weekend. It was like a giant junk drawer. The furniture will be moved into the "new" office area, and this coming weekend I may begin painting/shopping for my DSs new room. Then we can slowly start to set up the nursery...
Questions? None
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Being warm. I seriously love summer. And if I did nothing but soak up the warmth I would be happy. If I have to be active? It would be going to our cabin with our friends. Or playing soccer (but I am old and outdated now).
@DeePaddy24: I count sleeps, too. Seems to make time go by faster!
@NicknShan: Sounds like quite a productive weekend!
@cmillar36: How wonderful you're feeling baby kicks! Been thinking of you, and I hope you recieve good amnio results very soon.
How far along are you? 17w5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Not really having any symptoms? Rationally, it's probably just the whole "feeling good" part of 2nd tri. Irrationally? Freaking me out a touch.
Rave: While DH got the first coat of paint on the kitchen cabinet boxes (yay!!!!!) I cleaned out the master bath and my closet. I have a trunk full of stuff to donate, and I threw out 2 trash bags of trash. Gah that felt good.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Starting the registry, kitchen, and cleaning things out.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Relaxing in the shade at the beach.
Good luck today @mrsschmity !!! We'll be thinking of you!!
Happy happy Birthday @candicek15 !! Online shopping seems like a good way to treat yourself & pass time on bed rest!!
@DeePaddy24 Hopefully this week passes quickly for you till your A/S!! So exciting!
@NicknShan Yay for a productive weekend! Always feels awesome to cross big things off the to-do list!
How far along are you? 18+3
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Congested bloody nose... all.the.time. & lower back pain... but honestly I'm just used to it by now!
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Nesting! This weekend we were snowed in so DH & I cleaned out the laundry room & did some re-organizing in the house... felt good to purge tons of garbage/clothes/crap to the curb!! Also I read "Baby Bargains" cover to cover (all 600+ pages of it) in basically one sitting yesterday, so I am on overwhelm with baby information but I have started a registry and a long list of websites & products to check out!! I feel a lot more informed, and a lot more confused at the same time!
Questions? None I can think of right now.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? We live at the NJ shore, I just love walks on the beach, drinks on the back deck, bike rides to our favorite waterfront restaurants... and I love that my whole family moves to the area for the summer, lots of BBQs, pool time, and visits with my side of the family in the summer!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Feeling pretty good, but my food aversions are still kicking around. I had a terrible bout of projectile vomit last week (as bad as it sounds) and I'm becoming food phobic.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? I love the way you ladies think! I love drinking on patios, laying around in the sun (reading, tanning, etc.), going to the beach. We were starting to hike last summer, not sure how feasible that will be this summer but maybe!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? BIG rave today! I felt our little girl kick for the first time this weekend! I have been feeling tickles like her moving for a week now but on Saturday I felt two distinct kicks! Then again on Sunday I was reading and had my hand on my tummy and felt her kick again! It was so hard I jumped out of my seat! lol I was amazing! The only bad part is my husband is away in training so he didn't get to feel them but he comes home Feb 5th so I hope she kicks again so he can feel it!
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Same..researching baby stuff etc
Questions? Any other ladies working out on here and doing strength training? I recently got back into my work out groove and have been slowly easing my way back in but I am wondering some safe core workouts? I have done planks and side bends when you hold a weight and bend to the side lol Idk the name for them. Any other safe core workouts you ladies are doing?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Definitely going to the beach!
@mrsschmity enjoy your first ultrasound! It truly was a magical moment! I can't wait until next Monday for our a/s!
@cmillar36 I'll be praying for you and that your results come in today!
How far along are you? 19w1d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: Emotional day yesterday with not the most supportive SO... But today is a new day! Rave: baby kicks galore! Symptoms:mostly just hunger but throw in some constipation and rip...
Questions? None today
Favorite summer activity? The beach ❤ with a couple of drinks and some good friends. I love watching our dog bruno (German Shepherd) play in the water!
@candicek15 Happy Birthday!! @mrsschmity I can't believe you've been able to wait for this long. Have a blast!
How far along are you? 21 weeks TODAY!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? No rant's yet. It's still early though. Rave: Flax Seed. Just, thank you Jesus for Flax seed. Symptom: RLP, though it's sporadic and I don't get it all the time. And I love feeling her move. I'm pretty sure she had hiccups yesterday because what I thought were kicks were pretty rhythmic. It was cute.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? We sold our treadmill on Offer Up (if you haven't used this app, it's the funk), so her room is now officially clear and ready to be painted. Now I just have to fight him to actually do it. Also, I found a chandelier I'm in love with but it's on Wayfair...actually this should go under questions.
Questions? So I found a chandelier I like on Wayfair. Has anyone used the site before? Is it fairly reliable? Also her crib furniture is dark but the base boards and door frames in her room are white. Her rug will probably be white and navy...would a white chandelier match?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? margaritas. I really miss margaritas.....just sitting poolside or right on Miami Beach with a cooler of lime-a-rita's and a Publix sub. I'm never gonna lose this baby weight lol
@Huskerfanz Good luck at your appointment today! Praying for you and your LOs.
How far along? 18+2
Rant/Rave/Symptoms: I'm in a super grumpy mood today mainly because people at work are being extra annoying. Also I didn't get much sleep last night so that doesn't help! Not a lot as far as symptoms go
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Still thinking about names and sometimes adding things to the registry. And growing
GTKY: I love sitting outside and having a drink! And taking the dog for a walk when it's nice out! I'm excited this LO will be born in the summer because I have no motivation to go on walks when it's freezing outside!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Nothing new symptom-wise. Rant is that it's Monday!!! Rave is that I have a pretty easy week of work
What are you doing to prepare for baby? I put together the Chicco Caddy yesterday and figured out how to use the Chicco Keyfit carseat I then wheeled my dog and a stuffed bear around the house. At one point I put some garbage from the living room in the Caddy storage and dropped it off at the kitchen garbage. I've lost it!
Questions?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Taking a ride in my husband's mustang with the top down, hair in the wind, to a restaurant with outdoor seating whereby we drink some frosty beers, cold margs, and listen to some live music!
Married July 2014 DD born June 2016 Second due August 2020 (team green!)
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Had a weird cold all weekend, and my throat is super dry still. I'm also uber tired and just overall achy/wanting to sleep.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Enjoying a rare Starbucks
Questions?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? We live in MN, so we have a short window to appreciate the gloriousness of warm weather. We're outside as much as possible, either hanging out in the backyard, gardening/landscaping, going to a local beach (it's man made and filtered and amazeballs), or taking walks/bike rides.
Thanks for the birthday wishes, everyone! I would just like to note that today's GTKY is making me really, really desperate for summer! SO excited we'll all have the second half of the summer to enjoy!
@Jerseygirl9090 I don't have any great answers, but I've run into the same challenges as you regarding core workouts. I googled "standing ab workout" at some point and found some decent exercises that are conducive to a growing belly.
How far along are you? 21w5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? I've been mostly sleeping on my sides, and lately I wake up in the mornings so achey. It's like the weight of my body is just too much for my shoulders and hips, but thankfully it goes away once I get up and out of bed.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Taking care of all the necessary paperwork for parental leave. I'm trying not to wait until the last minute, just in case there is any confusion or delays anywhere in the process.
Questions? None today.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? I love pool days with lots of grilled foods. I'm also a big fan of any kind of festival where H and I can walk around outside and sip on a beer.
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? This baby is just sitting on my sciatic nerve so my back has been killing me for a week! And my balance lately has been shit, and I've fallen twice this week.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Unfortunately for my wallet, I've done a lot this month! I can't resist the carter's coupons, so I've started buying some cute summery clothes (but not too many, we're going to try to reuse as much as we can from DS). We're leaving the nursery the way it is and moving DS to a new room, so I bought new furniture for his bedroom this week as well (bed and some shelves).
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? I love going to the beach! DS was a huge fan of the waves last year, so I'm looking forward to taking him again this summer.
@mrsschmity I would have lost my mind by now with no ultrasound. Why did they make you wait so long??
How far along are you? 21 weeks
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: My DH didn't clear out any of our bonus room like he told me he would this weekend. Grrr. No real raves unfortunately. Symptoms: Super stuffy nose. Cravings for fruit smoothies (yay) and then any kind of junk food I can get my hands on (not yay)
What are you doing to prepare for baby? This week trying to put together the stuff we've bought or presents we've been sent so I can take all the cardboard boxes they came in to the recycling place. Also still need to get all our old bedroom furniture in the nursery-to-be picked up or dropped off so I can paint!
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? We live in Colorado, so every summer, DH and I will find a new trail to hike, usually something long and grueling to preemptively burn calories. Then we find the closest brewery and stuff our faces and order craft beer samplers. Good times. I grew up in FL though so I spent every summer at the beach or on a lake wakeboarding
@Jerseygirl9090 I have been doing core workouts from the 10 minute prenatal pilate series (on YouTube) but am planning on scaling back in a few weeks. There is a YouTube video if you look up "Prenatal Workout Heidi Klum" that has some safe ab exercises in it that I plan on doing until labor (hopefully). They are suppose to work the transverse abs (which don't cause the abs to separate, whatever that's called). I've also been doing planking which is supposed to be safe. I hate planking though!
Married July 2014 DD born June 2016 Second due August 2020 (team green!)
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? We found out Friday that we are having a GIRL! More importantly,
everything looked good. I got a copy of the report on Saturday and the only
items she noted for follow up are a short nasal bone and my low lying placenta.
I’ll talk to my midwife today about both but I’m feeling happy about the
results! Also consistently feeling kicks from little girl.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? We started discussing names this weekend and I’ll be
getting our registry up and running in the next week or so.
Questions?
None today.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Drinking beer on my patio in the sun. I like that
this is a common activity here.
@mrsschmity enjoy your first ultrasound! It's such a blast.
@candicek15 happy birthday! Here's to hoping your bed rest is over soon.
How far along are you? 21 today.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Rant. It's Monday. Rave. My whole family is getting together for a birthday dinner tonight for my cousin so I'm super excited for that. DH was supposed to work but finagled his way off so I'm glad he'll be able to come too. Symptoms. My back is killing me. RLP. Still not feeling this little dude as often as I've deemed "normal" with my no experience at all so I can't watch for my scan on Thursday to reassure myself that everything is okay.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? We filed our taxes! Getting a nice refund that we'll probably utilize a portion of to buy a few big ticket items.
Questions? I actually have one. Every time we buy something baby related my family gets annoyed and says, "you could've waited and got that for your shower!" Are FTMs just supposed to wait til their shower to buy things and see what they get? What did/are you guys doing?
I want to buy our crib and at least one of the two car seats we plan to get but I'm afraid I'll get executed. Lol
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Drinking and BBQing by the pool. Or escaping to the beach. It gets HOT where I live.
@ahernandez16 - My DH and I are buying a lot of the big ticket items ourselves. We figured no way were any of our friends going to spend that much money on any of our gifts. I bought the car seat myself because I found an awesome deal on it. I put another car seat base for DH's car on the registry and one of my friends got that for me. Basically if I find a killer deal on something, I'm going to buy it and then take whatever it was off the registry. Same with baby clothes, I'm buying whatever I think is cute because I'm obsessed.
@ahernandez16 DH & I have bought some things ourselves. We bought our travel system & breast pump, since they were expensive & we bought them when they were on sale. I think as a FTM its fine to be getting some things yourself. You'll still get plenty at the shower...plus, even with a registry people will still buy things that aren't on it. You're ensuring that you're getting the things for baby that you really want!
@DeePaddy24@chelseay416 glad it's not just me. I figure we'll buy the majority of the bigger ticket items and maybe leave one on the registry (my family likes to go halfsies, or split big things 3 or 4 ways) and then if we don't get it, we'll get the registry discount, no big deal. I just wanted to make sure I wasn't committing some big baby shower crime. Lol.
Hey ladies @mrsschmity- yay for your ultrasound! I have one tomorrow and haven't seen baby since 7.2 weeks so also excited. @candicek15 boo to bedrest. I've been there. I do find you get used to it, for better or for worse. @DeePaddy- hearing you re. report cards. I have 2 days this time around to edit every teacher in the school's. I don't have to write any- but the editing can be fairly grueling. @cmillar36- Been thinking about you a lot. Best wishes.
How far along are you? 18w2d
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Rave: Folks, I have finally kicked this sinus infection! I was put on amoxicillin (sp?) and it's really helped. I'm feeling a million times more ABLE than I have since the first week of January. Another Rave: I have my anatomy scan tomorrow. Hoping it all goes smoothly and that the results are positive and exciting.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Hopefully toilet training my daughter before June. My mom keeps making annoying comments about how she's not toilet trained yet and it's really pissing me off. I was gung-ho to start back in October, and then I got pregnant/constantly too ill to take on anything not 100% urgent. My mom never got morning sickness and only had one kiddo so she doesn't know what it's like to be pregnant and look after a toddler!! Jeez, I guess I should have put that as a rant. My daughter is not even 2 and a half yet btw so I don't feel way behind the "normal" range or anything.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? All things in the summer! I am like a heat-seeking missile. I love Canada but even this mild winter we're having kind of depresses me. I like trips to the family cottage, I love eating and drinking all kinds of frozen desserts and beverages... I love wearing fewer layers! And of course I love beers on patios.
@MsBeachNJ - What was the best find/read/advice in the Baby Bargains book? I haven't read it.
@MrsB8214 - I'm with you on the summer walks...I can't wait!
@huskerfanz - My T&P are with you. Let us know how everything is going.
@mrsmartinez16 - I've bought from Wayfair before...it took a while for the delivery but it was fine. I also think a white chandelier would be lovely!
@Jerseygirl9090 - I'm not doing too much core, so no help to you there.
@ahernandez16 - I'm buying the essentials (crib, stroller, car seat, etc.) and not waiting for any shower. My family said they are throwing me a shower the first weekend of May...that didn't happen with a wedding shower though so I don't know if it is going to pan out. I'm also stressed that is going to be too late (36 weeks) so I want to make sure I have the essentials.
How far along are you? 20 w, 5 d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Feeling emotional as all hell.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? I cleaned the entire house yesterday. Hopefully this week we can set up the crib.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Walking long distances (5-8 mile walks)...and drinking wine/ sangria...not together.
@mkemommy it would be hard to say what the best find was as it went into SO MUCH detail about every item from car seats to high chairs to changing tables etc. I think I found the information on crib mattresses the most helpful mainly because thats not really a topic I find a lot of us have discussed/or that I've discussed with my sisters/family on what they got (Guess its not a flashy or fun item to be talking about like the other stuff!) but they recommended a firm foam mattress as they are less expensive than coil mattresses and a lot lighter to move when changing sheets/etc. I am registering for (on their advice) the Lullaby Earth™ Super Lightweight Baby Crib & Toddler Mattress .
I also changed the crib I was going to get based on their recommendation. I had been eyeing the Million Dollar Baby brand but read that while they do use wood, they use Pine which has a tendency to scratch/damage more easily so I will instead be going with the Baby Appleseed brand.
I really recommend picking up the book, I paid about $10 on Amazon for it, and you don't need to read it cover to cover like I did, you can use it more as a glossary to look up particular items you're interested in! They also have a website (you have to buy a subscription) but it gives you access to thousands of reviews on all products!
@ahernandez16: We're registering for everything and waiting until after the shower to buy what's left. You can get discounts on anything not purchased on your registry (I'm guessing depending on where you register). But, we've been told close family will want to buy some of the big ticket items and our shower will be before 30 weeks so we know we'll have time to get any big items that aren't given to us. If the shower was later, we would probably just get some of that stuff ourselves. We may get some stuff that we really can't wait on, but we're (I'm) trying really hard not to buy anything yet. It's really up to you though. I don't think you should wait until the shower if it will be late or if you just don't want to wait! And it does kind of suck basically having an empty nursery for a while longer...
How far along are you? 19 weeks today!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: Just wishing our street was a little more plowed and cleared, but at least it's plowed (which happened at about 4 this morning). Rave: No work today! Currently planning our next vacation to Florida next month! Symptoms: Stuffy, bloody nose, bits of heartburn and nausea. Also, apparently my nips just turned super dark according to DH and they're still sore.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? A/S tomorrow morning!! Can't wait to see baby again! So glad the street has been plowed, just hoping they go over it again before tomorrow. Moved the queen bed out of the nursery and some other stuff. May go in and pack up some more stuff and vacuum. Next step is moving all my clothes out of the closet (our room doesn't have much closet space). Maybe doing registry stuff online today?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Drinking and relaxing, grilling with fam and friends, and going to the beach!
Me - 33, DH - 33 Married - May 2014 DH - Low Count/Motility/Morph - Varicocele vein x 2 - surgery (8/11) - success! BFP - 10/10/15, EDD - 6/20/16 - It's a BOY! Baby #1 - 6/29/16 - Lucas Christopher, 10 lbs 3 oz, 22.25 inches Baby #2 - TTC May 2017 BFP - 9/10/17, EDD - 5/26/18 - It's a GIRL! - RCS May 22nd
Questions? I actually have one. Every time we buy something baby related my family gets annoyed and says, "you could've waited and got that for your shower!" Are FTMs just supposed to wait til their shower to buy things and see what they get? What did/are you guys doing?
I want to buy our crib and at least one of the two car seats we plan to get but I'm afraid I'll get executed.
I feel like I got hardly any practical things at the shower and the things I did were smaller like a bottle warmer. You can always return things if you end up with dups.
DS 9/2/13 was a BFP from an IUI! Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
Thanks ladies! And for those of you asking how I've waited so long without losing my shit...I have no idea. It is standard practice at my clinic to not do an ultrasound until 20 weeks if you are considered low risk, so I've just been patiently waiting. I'm going to AW myself later and update with a pic of this little ninja
Wish I could respond to everyone - I feel like I haven't been as active lately, other than the daily check in. I've been on the job hunt and studying for my personal training exam, but I am reading everyone's updates!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant:DH and I cleaned the house top to bottom yesterday. It was a long day. By the end of it we were folding laundry and my feet were killing me, so I sat on the bed and noticed my feet and ankles had ballooned up and were swollen. They are still swollen today. So I'm wearing compressions socks, but can't stay off my feet since I'm a teacher. And to top it off, I was walking down the hallway just now and one of my assistant principals saw me from 50 feet away and said "You look tired!" Gee thanks. That's exactly what a pregnant woman wants to hear- that she looks as tired as she feels. How about, you look great! Ugh. Rave: DH finally decided that he would like to find out the gender (I already wanted to, so we were waiting on him). So a week from today we will find out if we are having a boy or a girl! Symptoms: See Rant. Swollen achey feet and ankles, achey back, extreme fatigue, slept poorly last night, headache. Today is not a good day.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Planning a laundry room renovation- paint, remove the wallpaper border from the previous owners, and build a platform for the front loading washer and dryer. I'm having a hard time bending over and reaching all the way back in them at the moment and I know it will only get worse. We need it ready for all the laundry we'll be doing with LO.
Questions? Anyone else in the swollen ankles and feet club? Any tips on combatting it?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Gardening! DH and I have a huge vegetable garden. We grow tomatoes, peppers, onions, broccoli, squash, greens, cucumber, carrots, beans, herbs, and asparagus. I also like working in my perennial beds, weeding, planting, and designing our landscaping. I'm a teacher, so I have time to tend to it in the summer which is very relaxing. I also love sitting out with DH and my pup on the patio and have a good micro-brew and grilling something yummy. We're big beer connoisseurs and love to cook. Ah, I miss summer!!!
GTKY: My favorite summer time activity.... Going to the pool, or lake, or beach. Wearing shorts. Traveling. DH has summers off. THIS summer it'll be welcoming my new son into the world! Oh yeah!
@mrsschmity I can't believe you have waited this long for your FIRST ultrasound. You have the patience of a saint. I would have lost my shit by now.
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How far along are you? 19w 5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: SO TIRED. Being at work right now sucks Rave: Looking forward to starting to put together the nursery. Even though we plan on keeping it fairly gender neutral, knowing our LO is a boy certainly makes a difference when we are thinking of decorating options... Symptoms: I guess this could be classified as a symptom... my hips hurt SO much. Sleeping on my side is killing me and no pillow configuration appears to be helping yet.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Doing research on car seats this week
Questions? Do you think if I got one of those wedge pillow that has me at an incline I can sleep on my back? I know sleeping flat on your back isn't advised but this side sleeping is just not working for me.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Favorite? As in just one? Ugh.... can't do that...Drinking white wine or a cold beer outside with my husband. Laying out in the sun. Brunches. Taking long walks. The list goes on and on....
Re: Monday Check-In
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? First ultrasound today!!! I have been waiting what seems like forever for this day! 3:00 seems so far away. RLP. All. The. Time. Starting to get really uncomfortable at night and having trouble sleeping.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Trying to decide on crib bedding and researching the big ticket items.
Questions? Nope
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Being outside on the lake, barbecues & bonfires with friends and family
How far along are you? 20w5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: Bed rest. End of rant. Rave: Today is my birthday! Sadly, I get to spend it at home doing nothing. My mom is coming over for lunch but sometimes I feel like I'd rather be alone because a) I feel sorry for myself, and b) I saw her last night at my birthday dinner and it's not like I have anything new to talk about! I got some $ and a Carter's/OshKosh gift card for my birthday. I hope the high risk doctor will let me out to do some shopping! Even if it's one store per day, lol. I seriously need a new bra! Symptoms: Feeling baby move a lot more now! Not really tired anymore, lol.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Shopping online. Maybe I'll re-organize the secret registries I've made today.
Questions? I always think of them later...
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Honestly, drinking in the back yard! BBQing with friends and just hanging out in the nice weather.
How far along are you?
18 + 2
Rant/Rave/Symptoms?
Monday, ugh. Report cards, ugh.
That's about all I've got for today. Only 4 more sleeps until the anatomy scan, so that's something to rave about!
What are you doing to prepare for baby?
Nothing today.
Questions?
Nope.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity?
Drinking on a patio, lol. Or poolside.
And going to the beach & just being at a cottage, spending time outside with friends & having Bon fires.
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@deepaddy24 I love that someone else counts in sleeps. I actually find it much easier.
How far along are you? 21w3d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Heart burn. RLP. Stretching everything in my insides pain. But lots of kicks!!
What are you doing to prepare for baby? We got the ENTIRE den cleared out this weekend. It was like a giant junk drawer. The furniture will be moved into the "new" office area, and this coming weekend I may begin painting/shopping for my DSs new room. Then we can slowly start to set up the nursery...
Questions? None
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Being warm. I seriously love summer. And if I did nothing but soak up the warmth I would be happy. If I have to be active? It would be going to our cabin with our friends. Or playing soccer (but I am old and outdated now).
DST T4L
Rants. Still waiting impatiently for amnio results. Today is Day 6. I'm quickly losing my patience with the medical system here. It sucks.
Not really a symptom but feeling baby move and kick this morning. Which is making a bad day better.
GTKY Victoria Beach. My parents own a cottage there. So much to see and do. Can't wait for summer.
@candicek15 : Happy, happy birthday!!
@DeePaddy24: I count sleeps, too. Seems to make time go by faster!
@NicknShan: Sounds like quite a productive weekend!
@cmillar36: How wonderful you're feeling baby kicks! Been thinking of you, and I hope you recieve good amnio results very soon.
How far along are you? 17w5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Not really having any symptoms? Rationally, it's probably just the whole "feeling good" part of 2nd tri. Irrationally? Freaking me out a touch.
Rave: While DH got the first coat of paint on the kitchen cabinet boxes (yay!!!!!) I cleaned out the master bath and my closet. I have a trunk full of stuff to donate, and I threw out 2 trash bags of trash. Gah that felt good.
What are you doing to prepare for baby?
Starting the registry, kitchen, and cleaning things out.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity?
Relaxing in the shade at the beach.
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Happy happy Birthday @candicek15 !! Online shopping seems like a good way to treat yourself & pass time on bed rest!!
@DeePaddy24 Hopefully this week passes quickly for you till your A/S!! So exciting!
@NicknShan Yay for a productive weekend! Always feels awesome to cross big things off the to-do list!
How far along are you? 18+3
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Congested bloody nose... all.the.time. & lower back pain... but honestly I'm just used to it by now!
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Nesting! This weekend we were snowed in so DH & I cleaned out the laundry room & did some re-organizing in the house... felt good to purge tons of garbage/clothes/crap to the curb!! Also I read "Baby Bargains" cover to cover (all 600+ pages of it) in basically one sitting yesterday, so I am on overwhelm with baby information but I have started a registry and a long list of websites & products to check out!! I feel a lot more informed, and a lot more confused at the same time!
Questions? None I can think of right now.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? We live at the NJ shore, I just love walks on the beach, drinks on the back deck, bike rides to our favorite waterfront restaurants... and I love that my whole family moves to the area for the summer, lots of BBQs, pool time, and visits with my side of the family in the summer!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Sinus infection is clearing up.
Heading to the dr to check on my cervix and contractions.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Trying to keep them in there.
Questions?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? All the festivals and outdoor fun things to do.
Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
How far along are you? 17 + 5
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Feeling pretty good, but my food aversions are still kicking around. I had a terrible bout of projectile vomit last week (as bad as it sounds) and I'm becoming food phobic.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? I love the way you ladies think! I love drinking on patios, laying around in the sun (reading, tanning, etc.), going to the beach. We were starting to hike last summer, not sure how feasible that will be this summer but maybe!
Happy Monday everyone!
Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? BIG rave today! I felt our little girl kick for the first time this weekend! I have been feeling tickles like her moving for a week now but on Saturday I felt two distinct kicks! Then again on Sunday I was reading and had my hand on my tummy and felt her kick again! It was so hard I jumped out of my seat! lol I was amazing! The only bad part is my husband is away in training so he didn't get to feel them but he comes home Feb 5th so I hope she kicks again so he can feel it!
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Same..researching baby stuff etc
Questions? Any other ladies working out on here and doing strength training? I recently got back into my work out groove and have been slowly easing my way back in but I am wondering some safe core workouts? I have done planks and side bends when you hold a weight and bend to the side lol Idk the name for them. Any other safe core workouts you ladies are doing?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Definitely going to the beach!
@cmillar36 I'll be praying for you and that your results come in today!
How far along are you? 19w1d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: Emotional day yesterday with not the most supportive SO... But today is a new day! Rave: baby kicks galore! Symptoms:mostly just hunger but throw in some constipation and rip...
Questions? None today
Favorite summer activity? The beach ❤ with a couple of drinks and some good friends. I love watching our dog bruno (German Shepherd) play in the water!
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@mrsschmity I can't believe you've been able to wait for this long. Have a blast!
How far along are you? 21 weeks TODAY!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? No rant's yet. It's still early though. Rave: Flax Seed. Just, thank you Jesus for Flax seed. Symptom: RLP, though it's sporadic and I don't get it all the time. And I love feeling her move. I'm pretty sure she had hiccups yesterday because what I thought were kicks were pretty rhythmic. It was cute.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? We sold our treadmill on Offer Up (if you haven't used this app, it's the funk), so her room is now officially clear and ready to be painted. Now I just have to fight him to actually do it. Also, I found a chandelier I'm in love with but it's on Wayfair...actually this should go under questions.
Questions? So I found a chandelier I like on Wayfair. Has anyone used the site before? Is it fairly reliable? Also her crib furniture is dark but the base boards and door frames in her room are white. Her rug will probably be white and navy...would a white chandelier match?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? margaritas. I really miss margaritas.....just sitting poolside or right on Miami Beach with a cooler of lime-a-rita's and a Publix sub. I'm never gonna lose this baby weight lol
Married: 12/16/12
TTC #1: 06/15 BFP #1:07/13/15
D&C: 08/28/15
BFP #2: 09/26/15
M: 06/03/16
BFP #2: 02/12/18
L : 7/26/18 (SIUGR, micropreemie)
@candicek15 Happy birthday!!!!
@Huskerfanz Good luck at your appointment today! Praying for you and your LOs.
How far along? 18+2
Rant/Rave/Symptoms: I'm in a super grumpy mood today mainly because people at work are being extra annoying. Also I didn't get much sleep last night so that doesn't help! Not a lot as far as symptoms go
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Still thinking about names and sometimes adding things to the registry. And growing
GTKY: I love sitting outside and having a drink! And taking the dog for a walk when it's nice out! I'm excited this LO will be born in the summer because I have no motivation to go on walks when it's freezing outside!
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Rant/Rave/Symptoms?
Nothing new symptom-wise. Rant is that it's Monday!!! Rave is that I have a pretty easy week of work
What are you doing to prepare for baby?
I put together the Chicco Caddy yesterday and figured out how to use the Chicco Keyfit carseat
Questions?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity?
Taking a ride in my husband's mustang with the top down, hair in the wind, to a restaurant with outdoor seating whereby we drink some frosty beers, cold margs, and listen to some live music!
DD born June 2016
Second due August 2020 (team green!)
21+5
Rant/Rave/Symptoms?
Had a weird cold all weekend, and my throat is super dry still. I'm also uber tired and just overall achy/wanting to sleep.
What are you doing to prepare for baby?
Enjoying a rare Starbucks
Questions?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity?
We live in MN, so we have a short window to appreciate the gloriousness of warm weather. We're outside as much as possible, either hanging out in the backyard, gardening/landscaping, going to a local beach (it's man made and filtered and amazeballs), or taking walks/bike rides.
How far along are you?
21w5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms?
I've been mostly sleeping on my sides, and lately I wake up in the mornings so achey. It's like the weight of my body is just too much for my shoulders and hips, but thankfully it goes away once I get up and out of bed.
What are you doing to prepare for baby?
Taking care of all the necessary paperwork for parental leave. I'm trying not to wait until the last minute, just in case there is any confusion or delays anywhere in the process.
Questions?
None today.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity?
I love pool days with lots of grilled foods. I'm also a big fan of any kind of festival where H and I can walk around outside and sip on a beer.
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? This baby is just sitting on my sciatic nerve so my back has been killing me for a week! And my balance lately has been shit, and I've fallen twice this week.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Unfortunately for my wallet, I've done a lot this month! I can't resist the carter's coupons, so I've started buying some cute summery clothes (but not too many, we're going to try to reuse as much as we can from DS). We're leaving the nursery the way it is and moving DS to a new room, so I bought new furniture for his bedroom this week as well (bed and some shelves).
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? I love going to the beach! DS was a huge fan of the waves last year, so I'm looking forward to taking him again this summer.
How far along are you? 21 weeks
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: My DH didn't clear out any of our bonus room like he told me he would this weekend. Grrr. No real raves unfortunately. Symptoms: Super stuffy nose. Cravings for fruit smoothies (yay) and then any kind of junk food I can get my hands on (not yay)
What are you doing to prepare for baby? This week trying to put together the stuff we've bought or presents we've been sent so I can take all the cardboard boxes they came in to the recycling place. Also still need to get all our old bedroom furniture in the nursery-to-be picked up or dropped off so I can paint!
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? We live in Colorado, so every summer, DH and I will find a new trail to hike, usually something long and grueling to preemptively burn calories. Then we find the closest brewery and stuff our faces and order craft beer samplers. Good times. I grew up in FL though so I spent every summer at the beach or on a lake wakeboarding
DD born June 2016
Second due August 2020 (team green!)
@mrsschmity: Good luck at the ultrasound today!!
@candicek15: HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
How far along are you? 19+3
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? We found out Friday that we are having a GIRL! More importantly, everything looked good. I got a copy of the report on Saturday and the only items she noted for follow up are a short nasal bone and my low lying placenta. I’ll talk to my midwife today about both but I’m feeling happy about the results! Also consistently feeling kicks from little girl.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? We started discussing names this weekend and I’ll be getting our registry up and running in the next week or so.
Questions? None today.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Drinking beer on my patio in the sun. I like that this is a common activity here.
@mrsschmity enjoy your first ultrasound! It's such a blast.
@candicek15 happy birthday! Here's to hoping your bed rest is over soon.
How far along are you? 21 today.
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Rant. It's Monday. Rave. My whole family is getting together for a birthday dinner tonight for my cousin so I'm super excited for that. DH was supposed to work but finagled his way off so I'm glad he'll be able to come too. Symptoms. My back is killing me. RLP. Still not feeling this little dude as often as I've deemed "normal" with my no experience at all so I can't watch for my scan on Thursday to reassure myself that everything is okay.
What are you doing to prepare for baby?
We filed our taxes! Getting a nice refund that we'll probably utilize a portion of to buy a few big ticket items.
Questions? I actually have one. Every time we buy something baby related my family gets annoyed and says, "you could've waited and got that for your shower!" Are FTMs just supposed to wait til their shower to buy things and see what they get? What did/are you guys doing?
I want to buy our crib and at least one of the two car seats we plan to get but I'm afraid I'll get executed. Lol
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Drinking and BBQing by the pool. Or escaping to the beach. It gets HOT where I live.
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@mrsschmity- yay for your ultrasound! I have one tomorrow and haven't seen baby since 7.2 weeks so also excited.
@candicek15 boo to bedrest. I've been there. I do find you get used to it, for better or for worse.
@DeePaddy- hearing you re. report cards. I have 2 days this time around to edit every teacher in the school's. I don't have to write any- but the editing can be fairly grueling.
@cmillar36- Been thinking about you a lot. Best wishes.
How far along are you? 18w2d
Rants/Raves/Symptoms: Rave: Folks, I have finally kicked this sinus infection! I was put on amoxicillin (sp?) and it's really helped. I'm feeling a million times more ABLE than I have since the first week of January.
Another Rave: I have my anatomy scan tomorrow. Hoping it all goes smoothly and that the results are positive and exciting.
What are you doing to prepare for baby?
Hopefully toilet training my daughter before June. My mom keeps making annoying comments about how she's not toilet trained yet and it's really pissing me off. I was gung-ho to start back in October, and then I got pregnant/constantly too ill to take on anything not 100% urgent. My mom never got morning sickness and only had one kiddo so she doesn't know what it's like to be pregnant and look after a toddler!! Jeez, I guess I should have put that as a rant. My daughter is not even 2 and a half yet btw so I don't feel way behind the "normal" range or anything.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? All things in the summer! I am like a heat-seeking missile. I love Canada but even this mild winter we're having kind of depresses me. I like trips to the family cottage, I love eating and drinking all kinds of frozen desserts and beverages... I love wearing fewer layers! And of course I love beers on patios.
@nicknshan - Yeah for cleaning! That was my entire Sunday too.
@SMLmom - So glad you are feeling better and the meds are working!!
@candicek15 I'm sorry about the bed rest...that sucks! Happy birthday!
@DeePaddy- 4 more days!
@Cmillar36 - Everything crossed for you on the amnio results.
@crdo - Where did you register?
@MsBeachNJ - What was the best find/read/advice in the Baby Bargains book? I haven't read it.
@MrsB8214 - I'm with you on the summer walks...I can't wait!
@huskerfanz - My T&P are with you. Let us know how everything is going.
@mrsmartinez16 - I've bought from Wayfair before...it took a while for the delivery but it was fine. I also think a white chandelier would be lovely!
@Jerseygirl9090 - I'm not doing too much core, so no help to you there.
@ahernandez16 - I'm buying the essentials (crib, stroller, car seat, etc.) and not waiting for any shower. My family said they are throwing me a shower the first weekend of May...that didn't happen with a wedding shower though so I don't know if it is going to pan out. I'm also stressed that is going to be too late (36 weeks) so I want to make sure I have the essentials.
How far along are you? 20 w, 5 d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Feeling emotional as all hell.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? I cleaned the entire house yesterday. Hopefully this week we can set up the crib.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Walking long distances (5-8 mile walks)...and drinking wine/ sangria...not together.
I also changed the crib I was going to get based on their recommendation. I had been eyeing the Million Dollar Baby brand but read that while they do use wood, they use Pine which has a tendency to scratch/damage more easily so I will instead be going with the Baby Appleseed brand.
I really recommend picking up the book, I paid about $10 on Amazon for it, and you don't need to read it cover to cover like I did, you can use it more as a glossary to look up particular items you're interested in! They also have a website (you have to buy a subscription) but it gives you access to thousands of reviews on all products!
@candicek15: Happy birthday!!
@ahernandez16: We're registering for everything and waiting until after the shower to buy what's left. You can get discounts on anything not purchased on your registry (I'm guessing depending on where you register). But, we've been told close family will want to buy some of the big ticket items and our shower will be before 30 weeks so we know we'll have time to get any big items that aren't given to us. If the shower was later, we would probably just get some of that stuff ourselves. We may get some stuff that we really can't wait on, but we're (I'm) trying really hard not to buy anything yet. It's really up to you though. I don't think you should wait until the shower if it will be late or if you just don't want to wait! And it does kind of suck basically having an empty nursery for a while longer...
How far along are you? 19 weeks today!
Rant/Rave/Symptoms? Rant: Just wishing our street was a little more plowed and cleared, but at least it's plowed (which happened at about 4 this morning). Rave: No work today! Currently planning our next vacation to Florida next month! Symptoms: Stuffy, bloody nose, bits of heartburn and nausea. Also, apparently my nips just turned super dark according to DH and they're still sore.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? A/S tomorrow morning!! Can't wait to see baby again! So glad the street has been plowed, just hoping they go over it again before tomorrow. Moved the queen bed out of the nursery and some other stuff. May go in and pack up some more stuff and vacuum. Next step is moving all my clothes out of the closet (our room doesn't have much closet space). Maybe doing registry stuff online today?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Drinking and relaxing, grilling with fam and friends, and going to the beach!
Me - 33, DH - 33
Married - May 2014
DH - Low Count/Motility/Morph - Varicocele vein x 2 - surgery (8/11) - success!
BFP - 10/10/15, EDD - 6/20/16 - It's a BOY!
Baby #1 - 6/29/16 - Lucas Christopher, 10 lbs 3 oz, 22.25 inches
Baby #2 - TTC May 2017
BFP - 9/10/17, EDD - 5/26/18 - It's a GIRL! - RCS May 22nd
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Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
Triplets due 6/29/16 also from an IUI!
Wish I could respond to everyone - I feel like I haven't been as active lately, other than the daily check in. I've been on the job hunt and studying for my personal training exam, but I am reading everyone's updates!
19w 6d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms?
Rant:DH and I cleaned the house top to bottom yesterday. It was a long day. By the end of it we were folding laundry and my feet were killing me, so I sat on the bed and noticed my feet and ankles had ballooned up and were swollen. They are still swollen today. So I'm wearing compressions socks, but can't stay off my feet since I'm a teacher. And to top it off, I was walking down the hallway just now and one of my assistant principals saw me from 50 feet away and said "You look tired!" Gee thanks. That's exactly what a pregnant woman wants to hear- that she looks as tired as she feels. How about, you look great! Ugh.
Rave: DH finally decided that he would like to find out the gender (I already wanted to, so we were waiting on him). So a week from today we will find out if we are having a boy or a girl!
Symptoms: See Rant. Swollen achey feet and ankles, achey back, extreme fatigue, slept poorly last night, headache. Today is not a good day.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Planning a laundry room renovation- paint, remove the wallpaper border from the previous owners, and build a platform for the front loading washer and dryer. I'm having a hard time bending over and reaching all the way back in them at the moment and I know it will only get worse. We need it ready for all the laundry we'll be doing with LO.
Questions? Anyone else in the swollen ankles and feet club? Any tips on combatting it?
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity?
Gardening! DH and I have a huge vegetable garden. We grow tomatoes, peppers, onions, broccoli, squash, greens, cucumber, carrots, beans, herbs, and asparagus. I also like working in my perennial beds, weeding, planting, and designing our landscaping. I'm a teacher, so I have time to tend to it in the summer which is very relaxing. I also love sitting out with DH and my pup on the patio and have a good micro-brew and grilling something yummy. We're big beer connoisseurs and love to cook. Ah, I miss summer!!!
GTKY: My favorite summer time activity.... Going to the pool, or lake, or beach. Wearing shorts. Traveling. DH has summers off. THIS summer it'll be welcoming my new son into the world! Oh yeah!
How far along are you? 19w 5d
Rant/Rave/Symptoms?
Rant: SO TIRED. Being at work right now sucks
Rave: Looking forward to starting to put together the nursery. Even though we plan on keeping it fairly gender neutral, knowing our LO is a boy certainly makes a difference when we are thinking of decorating options...
Symptoms: I guess this could be classified as a symptom... my hips hurt SO much. Sleeping on my side is killing me and no pillow configuration appears to be helping yet.
What are you doing to prepare for baby? Doing research on car seats this week
Questions? Do you think if I got one of those wedge pillow that has me at an incline I can sleep on my back? I know sleeping flat on your back isn't advised but this side sleeping is just not working for me.
GTKY: What is your favorite summertime activity? Favorite? As in just one? Ugh.... can't do that...Drinking white wine or a cold beer outside with my husband. Laying out in the sun. Brunches. Taking long walks. The list goes on and on....