Greetings, while I am new to this forum, I am not new to TTC, but please
excuse me if my etiquette is incorrect. I made a point to lurk a lot,
but maybe I did not lurk enough... DH and I have been TTC for over
two years now. Our first month of TTC, we did! Unfortunately the next
morning proved to be a chemical pregnancy. We kept trying, and got
another BFP two cycles later. Overjoyed, we called the OB GYN
immediately. They scheduled our first appointment for three weeks later,
so I would be 8 weeks along and the ultrasound would be easier I
suppose. When we finally made it in, the OB GYN said that I was only
five weeks along. I argued with him, knowing exactly when I ovulated,
but he didn't care. He said I must have ovulated later. Which makes no
sense because if I was only five weeks along, then I called for an
appointment the day I ovulated. Five days later I miscarried. I still
hold a grudge against that dr. DH and I were sad but kept trying. Kept
trying for two long years, and have not seen more than one pink line
this whole time. We have a plan to go to the infertility specialists in
the spring. I've been in a dark place for awhile, trying to control the
green monster in my heart that screams when everyone around me pops out
unplanned babies. I've been trying to manage it on my own, DH tries to
help but he doesn't understand exactly what I go through each month, and
I've decided that I need help. I know that I haven't had a recent loss,but I was hoping I could join this community. Thank you for your time.
I'm new to gifs, but I have a huge arsenal of memes!
Wish I could make human babies like I make plant babies!
There's a gazillion of them!! Married to for 3yrs w/5 furbabies
Thank you for the warm welcome! On the therapy, I had done it a few times in high school, but hadn't thought of it recently. I may look into that as we start infertility testing. I have (as most everyone does for the new year lol) taken up exercise and that has made me feel pretty great.
I'm new to gifs, but I have a huge arsenal of memes!
Wish I could make human babies like I make plant babies!
There's a gazillion of them!! Married to for 3yrs w/5 furbabies
I really find exercise to be amazingly stress relieving. I do a variety of classes - TRX, boot camp, cardio and resistance training, and cardio kickboxing. I also run and train for races in the spring, summer and fall. The ones that I find to be most stress relieving are cardio kickboxing and running. I'm actually itching to get outside and run again (treadmill running blows) and maybe train for a race, but I'm kind of hoping I end up pregnant before then and won't want to race!
I also recently started acupuncture and I can't even begin to describe how stress relieving it is!
Creepy hugs and welcomes, you've found a great group for support. I'm so sorry that you've had such a hard road - I sincerely hope that changes soon. Lean on us until then!
I have the reverse story to yours. Ttc for 2.5 years and then had a miscarriage. It's been a long road. I fully understand that feeling of dread and anger when af arrives. Good luck to you.
Welcome and I am very sorry for all that you have been through. I found this community to be healing, supporting and huge source of knowledge. I try to participate often, but sometimes lurking seems to do the trick. I hope that your stay here is short and ends with a rainbow baby in your arms.
******TW******Siggy warning BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d; BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016
So sorry you are Joining us. My story is similar. TTC started March 2014. 8w mc in April of 2015. Miscarriage plus my husband's low sperm count is a double suck whammy.
Wow! you must be a beefcake Miss.Peggy!! Very impressive! Meanwhile, I don't want to run unless there's a donut in front of my nose I have had my current healthcare practitioner that started me on vitex and has been doing my blood work, she recommended acupuncture as well. How well does that work you? Just curious
Thank you ladies all for the warm welcome and internet hugs ) It's already very comforting to have so many that understand and have been down this somber road.
I'm new to gifs, but I have a huge arsenal of memes!
Wish I could make human babies like I make plant babies!
There's a gazillion of them!! Married to for 3yrs w/5 furbabies
I am so sorry for all that you have been through, but certainly join the other ladies in welcoming you to the community. I'm sure you will find the support you're looking for here!
“Be present in all things and thankful for all things.” ~Maya Angelou
Re: N00b alert! *loss mentioned...and described*
Me: 33 & DH: 33
Married: 07/2006
TTC: 10/2015
BFP #1: 11/2015, MC 12/2015 (7 weeks)
BFP #2: 06/2016, EDD 2/15/2017
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
Married to for 3yrs w/5 furbabies
I also recently started acupuncture and I can't even begin to describe how stress relieving it is!
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks;
BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016
Thank you ladies all for the warm welcome and internet hugs ) It's already very comforting to have so many that understand and have been down this somber road.
Married to for 3yrs w/5 furbabies
One of my favorite gym shirts says this:
LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs
BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016
~~~~ TW ~~~~~~
Me: 40 DH: 39
Married 12.19.13
BFP #1 1/14, MC 2/14 (6wks)
BFP #2 1/15, MMC/D&C 3/15 (12wks)
BFP #3 6/15, MC 8/15 (9wks)
BFP #4 4/16, MC 4/16 (5wks)
BFP #5 7/16, MMC 8/16 (10 wks)
BFP #6 3/4 , EDD 11/9/17
BFP #1 8/2009 - chemical
BFP #2 10/2009 - DD #1
BFP #3 8/2011 - DS
BFP #4 9/2012 - DD #2
BFP #5 8/2014 - MC @ 6wks
BFP #7 9/2015 - MC @ 6wks
Sending good vibes your way.