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Can I come back ***TW Loss Mentioned***

I’m devastated to say that our recent BFP (this past Sunday/Monday) will be ending within the next week.  My PCP ordered a blood test to confirm the pregnancy on Wednesday and the HCG levels came back at 34 (within normal limits for that early) but she had concerns that it was “very low” since she thought my period was several weeks (instead of only a few days) late.  Because she thought my period was 3 weeks late she ordered another blood test which was done yesterday morning.  

After a very confusing, frustrating, and stressful day yesterday, we figured out the confusion and DH and I were reassured by our PCP’s nurse that the 34 HCG was in fact within the normal limits for that early and that we should wait for the 2nd blood draw results and expect to come in for a first appointment closer to 12 weeks – their normal practice.

After the rollercoaster of emotions, my PCP called yesterday afternoon and said that my HCG levels dropped from 34 to 16 - within that 24 hours.  She said she wants to check them again tomorrow morning to make sure they’re still decreasing and that I should expect bleeding to start within 7 days.  I suspect it’ll start soon since the symptoms I did have (mild persistent cramping, exhaustion, and aversion to my favorite Diet Coke) have disappeared.  Yesterday, there were random cramps but that is completely gone now.

DH and I heartbroken and in shock.  But, in some ways, I think it’s better to know what’s coming instead of being caught off-guard.  We made a place in our hearts for our little peanut and now it’s empty.  Thankfully, we’re allowed to start TTC immediately – we don’t have to wait at all before resuming.

I’d love to come back and participate in the WTO/TWW (and all the others) threads.  For now, I’ll probably lurk a little more and jump back into the WTO once we’re at that point. 

Me - 33  DH - 36
DD 10/4/02
DS due 9/28/16

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Re: Can I come back ***TW Loss Mentioned***

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    I'm so sorry.


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    Oh no I am so sorry to hear this!
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    I am so sorry for you loss. 
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    So sorry to hear this news @ajn092 .
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    Me: 39 DH: 40
    Married: 12/6/2014

    BFP#1: 1/20/15      MC: 2/14/15
    BFP#2: 10/28/15    MC: 11/24/15
    BFP#3:  3/20/16     MC: 4/26/16
    BFP#4:  7/15/16     DD: 3/18/17
    BFP#5:  5/1/18     EDD: 1/12/19
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    I'm very sorry for your loss. 
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    TTC #1 - Nov '14
    BFP 2/3/16  EDD 10/16/16
    DS born 10/18

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    I'm so sorry.

    Me: 33     H: 36

    Married: 12/14/13   DS: 1/29/09

    BFP2: 10/9/15  MMC: 11/12/15

    BFP3: 4/6/16   DD: 12/12/16


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    Oh no. I'm so, so very sorry. Sending you internet hugs and good wishes. 
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    I'm sorry for your loss :(



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    Oh my gosh I'm so sorry. I'm brand new to the board but I have been through what you're going through now. Give yourself lots of time to go through the emotions and reach out for support when you need it!
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    I'm sooooo sorry to hear this. 
    *creepy internet hugs*



    Glad you don't have to wait before TTC again.
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    So sorry to hear this. Big hugs!
    Me: 29 years old, DH: 31 years old
    TTC #1 since July 2015
    SA Feb 2016 & May 2016: Excellent count and motility, 3% morphology
    Surgery Dec 2016: submucosal fibroid removed
    Awaiting RE appointment

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself and each other. Sending you hugs.

    Me: 32 & DH: 37
    Married: November 2014
    TTC #1 Since: October 2015
    BFP #1: 11/18/15 - CP
    BFP #2: 2/8/16 - EDD 10/20/16
    IT'S A BOY!!!!
    DS Born 10/16/16

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    So sorry for your loss! Give yourself time to process however you need to!
    Rainbow baby Dean is due 2/17/17!
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    Oh no, I am so very sorry. 
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    I'm so sorry. You and your husband will be in my thoughts. Take care of yourself. *hugs*


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    I'm so very sorry for your loss.

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    So sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so so sorry! This board and the TTCAL board are great places for support. We are here for you!
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    I'm sorry to see this!
    Me: 30 DH: 32 ~~ TTC #1: Sep 2015 ~~ BFP: Mar 2016 ~~ Daughter: Nov 2016
    TTC #2: April 2018 ~~ BFP: May 2018 ~~ EDD: January 2019





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    Thank you for the kind words everyone. It means a lot.
    Me - 33  DH - 36
    DD 10/4/02
    DS due 9/28/16

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    I'm so sorry! :(  Take care of yourself!

    Me: 25 | Him: 31

    Married: September 2014

    DSS Born 2/2/08

    TTC our 1st since December 2015

    BFP 3/18/16 - EDD 12/1/16

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    DD born PPROM preemie at 36 weeks on 10/1/17 after over a year TI, 
    then 3 failed IUIs, and finally a successful IVF FET.

    Due with #2 5/2/19 after HIO once in my FW,
    because apparently that's how life works now. Team Blue!
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  I'll echo what PP have said and hope that you're kind to yourself over the next few weeks.  
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    I'm so sorry for your loss :( 

    Me: 28 DH: 29
    Married: August 2014
    TTC #1 Since March 2015
    Diagnosed with PCOS March 2016
    SA results normal April 2016
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + TI = BFN
    3 rounds clomid + trigger + IUI = BFN
    Uterine polyp removed July 2017
    Round 1 IVF January 2018




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    I'm so sorry for your loss, hun!  :(
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    I'm sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.

    Me(29)DH(30)
    Baby #3 EDD 10/6/2016
    DS 11/2009
    DD 1/2008
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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
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    So sorry for your loss. Hugs.

    Me: 28 | DH: 31
    Together since 2006 | Married May 2015
    TTC #1 since November 2015
    BFP 5/17/16 | EDD 1/27/17 | Born 2/4/17

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    I'm so sorry. Hugs to you and your husband.
    TTC1: May 2015
    Primary IF May 2016; Failed HSG; Scheduled Lap Sept. 2016
    BFP: August 22, 2016/EDD: April 29, 2017
    DD: May 1, 2017
    TTC2: June 2019
    CP September 2019
    Lap and repeat HSG scheduled December 2019
    BFP: November 24, 2019/EDD: August 2, 2020
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    Oh, no I am so sorry to see this @ajn092. CPs are so hard, I'm sorry for your loss. This sounds exactly like what I went through over new year's. If you need to talk, feel free to PM me. *hugs*

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    I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your husband.
                                                                              Married 12/17/2011
                                                                                  K born 8/31/12                                 
                                                                                  C born 1/11/14
                                                                  BFP #3 Nov 2014: D&C January 2015
                                                                  BFP #4 Sept 2016: Due May 31 2017


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    I'm so very sorry for your loss!
    Me:27 DH: 28
    Married May 2012
     TTC#1 July 2013 - July 2015 (no success)
    Again TTC#1: Dec 2015
    First RE visit: Feb 2016
    BFP: 9/16/16 EDD:5/26/17
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    I'm so sorry.
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    I'm so sorry!
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    Oh no! I'm so sorry!
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Take good care of yourself. Hugs!

    Married May 2014
    TTC Nov 2014-Aug 2016
    Aug 2015 Dx: Thyroid Cancer and Hashimotos
    Total Thyroidectomy October 2015 
    Ovarian Cystectomy Nov 2015
    CANCER FREE and resumed TTC Dec 2015.


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    I'm so so sorry.

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    BFP #1 12/2012, DS born 8/2013
    BFP #2 7/2015, MMC and D&C 9/2015
    BFP #3 11/2015, CP
    BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016




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    I'm so sorry for your loss

    Me: 32 Him: 29 Live : London, UK
    TTC #1 since October 2015
    IVF Fresh Nov 16 = BFN
    IVF FET Jan 17 = BFP
    EDD: Oct 4th 2017
    TEAM: PINK!!
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