Okay guys, since we have a little more activity going on here lately I figured (selfishly) it would be nice to start a fresh thread about IVF. Our egg retrieval is set for the end of February with the ideal plan to transfer mid-March. Needing all the advice, positive vibes, and fellowship possible! None of this is happening in my body, so my connection with it feels odd. Am I the only one? In the best-case future I'll be carrying embryos from this retrieval as well, but that's in the distance. I'm so excited and freaked out!
Re: IVF
We are doing ivf as well. My wife is doing the retrieval around Feb 5 and I will be carrying. We are hoping to do a 5 day fresh transfer. We are already on the meds so I can try to answer questions you may have! Good luck
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
We're hanging in suppression phase currently. K's cycle and the schedule with our clinic worked out a little funny so we're set for retrieval around 2/27-3/1, depending on all the variables. As of right now she's taking Metformin and birth control, last active birth control pill will be on 2/13.
How are things going for you guys so far?
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
While V and I are not doing IVF (had our first IUI round today!), I am in a similar position of being the "other" parent. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one, so maybe we can offer some support to each other throughout these next several months!
I wish you all the good luck, positive thoughts, prayers, good vibes - whatever it is that you believe in - for a successful process. Best wishes for a healthy baby (or, babies!). I look forward to hearing about how everything goes for you!
@L&V2016 Yes, so nice to hear from another "other." Is it just me or is the lack of ability to say "here, let me just do it." practically unbearable?!
I have that book! I'm in the middle of it right now - pretty good stuff. Such a different "Mom" experience I expect we'll go through than our partners will. You must feel like March is so far away! Fortunately, February is a short month.
RE DX for me: Anovulatory cycles/Mild PCOS RE DX for DW: Endometrioma on left Ovary.
Reciprocal Ivf Feb 2016. DW eggs and I am carrying. EDD: 10/27/16
We're in the middle of our first IVF cycle and since we currently live in West Texas (aka Satan's Armpit) we've been feeling incredibly isolated by the whole process. So needless to say I'm very excited to see this forum! Our first egg retrieval is today, the RE is very positive about a high number of eggs. For my part, I sure hope so because I don't want to do the stim process ever again. This has been no fun whatsoever
Oh, I'm 31 and my wife is 41, I'm looking forward to learning more about all of you guys and the journey's you're on!
Delurking to wish everyone great vibes. I have been sort of floating in and out of these forums, since I'm on a little break. My IVF in January was cancelled, and I'll be trying again in May, so I'm trying not to come on here every day during my down time from TTC.
If the May IVF doesn't work, we'll try again in October with reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs and my uterus. And if that doesn't work, I think we'll go to IUIs for her for a while... it gets fuzzy from there.
But I saw this thread and wanted to chime in with well wishes! This stuff is really hard.
7 IUIs, 7 BFNs.
2 IVF attempts, both cancelled and converted to IUI, both BFNs.
Decided that my tired old ovaries are ready to retire.
Next step- reciprocal IVF, using my wife's eggs, my uterus!
fresh 5 day transfer (2 embryos) 4/17/17- BFP!
Identical twins "due" 1/2/17 (but anticipated arrival sometime December)