May 2016 Moms

How long? (Maternity leave & other)

Moms who have already been through the maternity leave process... how long did you take off to be with your LO and was it long enough?

My work allows up to 12 weeks and I will file for FMLA. I know some ladies only took 6 weeks and said it was definitely not long enough. So how long are all of you working mommas planning to take? Mine is unpaid but I can use all my acquired leave that's saved up. I really want to take at least 10 weeks. I know I'm going to HATE coming back and leaving my LO.

My next debate will be sitting down with SO and seeing if it makes sense for me to continue working after LO arrives depending on which daycare we choose and the cost vs. how much income we have. We have several large bills already and I wish I could find a way to get rid of some of those so maybe we'd have a fighting chance to keep an income plus afford day care.. but I'm not so sure. I'm an LPN and he is military. Obviously he makes more than me but even both our incomes I'm not so sure what this is going to look like with a baby. Any of you ladies have advice or stories on how you make it work and what works best for your family or what you plan on doing come May?

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Re: How long? (Maternity leave & other)

  • I'm a teacher so in addition to the 12 weeks FMLA I'm entitled up to 10 months of unpaid leave. With my first I took off 6 months and will do the same with this one. We save like mad and live bare-bones to make it work, but I think it is worth it to have that time with LO that many aren't able to have. 
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  • I can't talk to the maternity leave side but I can the staying home side.

    We decided that I would be staying home back when I got pregnant with my DD. Partly because, even though I had worked daycare for years, we wanted our daughter raised at home by me, not raised at a daycare. Not that we are anti-daycare, it was just important to us.

    Financially, child care for an infant would have taken most of my paycheck. Another large chunk would have gone to gas, etc. By the time it would all be set and done, I would have been working for $50/week at the current cost of gas then.

    We decided it wasn't worth it. I was able to "make" $50/week at home by making everything from scratch, limiting errands and such to 1-2 times a week, focusing on coupons and sales, a few things online like Swagbucks, etc. It made no financial sense for me to work. That's not to say money isn't tight but me working wouldn't really change that fact.

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  • I'm going to use my saved PTO (2 weeks), then six weeks of short term disability at 60% pay. So 8 weeks total. I could file for FMLA after that, but probably will not as it is unpaid.

    DH will be the primary caretaker after I go back to work, and I will be working from home at least initially. So I'll still be there for feedings and backup.
  • FTM, but facing a similar decision. My husband lost his job a few months ago. He's been applying/interviewing like crazy, but nothing has stuck yet. If he does not get anything by the time I return to work from FMLA (taking all 12 weeks- 6 as PTO and 6 as short term disability at 70% of income), we won't be able to afford to send the kid to daycare.

    However, at that point, I wonder whether I could apply for a more advanced position (which I am fully qualified for, just not my ideal opportunity) and increase my income by 15-20K annually, which would be enough to support my husband caring for our son. At that point, we could have our second child sooner to finish out our family - otherwise we'd have to wait until the first is out of daycare before having the second.

    If my husband does find a good opportunity before then, our kid will definitely go to daycare- my company has great benefits and could never be a SAHM- too career oriented.
  • I am not taking any. After my c-section I will probably be off until I'm recovered and then I will work from home for a couple of months.

    But I will be working. And I am so scared.

    DH technically makes enough for the three of us, but I do want to earn some money towards the house etc.

    My sis and I run our own thing and I can't really drop her for 4 months. We'll see how it goes - I'll probably be working less than my 8 hours a day though.
  • I think it depends on the person. If you BF, your supply will not have regulated within 6 weeks, so that could be an incredibly hard transition to make so soon. Either way, I'd imagine that it would be emotionally difficult to go back to work that early because you have a new baby, there are still many night wake-ups by that time usually, hormones are still in flux, and you may be JUST healed.

    I had 18 weeks off with DS because I took FMLA and then didn't take a summer teaching position (another teacher here). Even with 18 weeks, I didn't feel like it was enough. That said, I'm in the camp of women who didn't expect to want to stay home or work from home, and realized a bit too late that it's what I'd rather do. Going back to work was very hard because of the emotional element, arranging a pumping schedule that would be respected, and my school is not particularly friendly to those returning from maternity leave (we're treated like 1st year teachers in terms of scheduling and evaluations even though I had tenure before having my first). This time, I'll have 15 weeks off unless we can figure out a way to cover insurance costs I'd accrue for me to take a 10 month unpaid leave after FMLA (which would end up giving me a year +15 weeks).  FX we can make that work.
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    edited January 2016
    I'm a FTM, so I don't know how realistic my timeline is yet, but I'm planning to take a leave somewhere in the 8-10 week range (assuming there are no complications). Because I will have only been at my current job for 11 months as of my due date, I will not qualify for FMLA or my company's maternity paid leave benefits (I would need to have been there for at least a year to qualify for either.).  Not qualifying for FMLA time off isn't a huge deal because I have been assured that my job will be here regardless of how much time I need off, so financing the leave is my bigger concern.  I will be using my paid vacation time & personal/sick days (about 4 weeks), and I will have to take any additional time off unpaid.  The good thing is that my supervisor is very pro-family, and I will have the option of working from home for as long as I need.  He has told me to take as much time as I need before and after the birth, and we would figure something out - whether it's working from home during that time and/or coming in part-time a day or two a week for a while, etc.

    Ideally (and my boss is on board with it), I would like to start working from home shortly before my due date (especially if commuting becomes uncomfortable) and, after the birth, take 4 weeks of leave and then work from home from week 5 to 10'ish so I don't have to take any unpaid time (depending on my health, LO's health and sleeping habits, etc.). We have started a savings account, though, just in case I'm not able to return that soon.  My company has a daycare at our office, and we have already gotten on the wait list for it. They don't accept infants younger than 6 weeks (which I think is standard), but we probably won't start daycare until at least 2 months. My MIL works in the school system and will have the entire summer off, and she is planning to fly in from out of state and stay at her condo across town for a month or two after the birth to help with LO.

    I will definitely be returning to work after LO.  From a financial standpoint, I make about 3 times as much as DH, so there is no way we could sustain our lifestyle without my income.  I'm also not willing to put my career on hold, so I'll be going back as soon as possible.  DH and I have discussed it, and if either of us were to decide to stay home with LO, it would make much more sense for him to.  

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  • I'm doing the full 12 of FMLA. 6 weeks are 100% pay, 2 weeks are 70%, and the last 4 are unpaid. We used most of my check to pay down debt in the last 15 months, and now that we're debt free and buying a house, we plan to use it to buy furniture, baby stuff, and build up savings. I wish I could take longer than 12 weeks even if it was unpaid or at least go back for a month part-time. I just found out that my husband will be leaving for some air force related stuff for 3 weeks the same time I will be transitioning back to work. Good times.
  • FTM... I'm planning on taking 12 weeks with FMLA, however it is possible with how busy things will be over the summer that I might go back early. If that is the case though I'm pushing for being able to work from home a few weeks before I go back to the office.

    I get 6 weeks paid at 60% with short term disability and then the rest will be out of pocket for me. We've been saving up money for the rest of that time. DH is going to take a week off in PTO then go back. He also has enough days saved up where he can actually sell some of his days (I think like 15 days worth) to get a little bit more money.

    As far as I know I'll have to cover my insurance during my leave, but work does pay a good portion as it is so its not more than I can handle.

    Also we're pretty excited bc we found a few daycares with availability in our price range. We haven't gone to see them just yet, but we're glad we have a few options.
  • I have not talked with HR specifically yet, but my supervisor is under the impression that we only get six weeks.  More if there are no complications.   The six weeks is fully paid  between PTO and STD according to the handbook.  Anything over there (if there are complications etc) is STD only. 
    I would love to be able to be a stay at home mom.  Unfortunately it would cost more out of pocket for me to be a stay at home mom than it would to pay 800 a month for daycare.   If DH were to add me to his insurance and the baby to his insurance that would be more than a half a month's paycheck.   (All thanks to the ACA or aka: Obamacare forcing us to have insurance or be fined......) At least with the daycare I'm paying for my own insurance and will probably pay for the baby's as well.  Also with my paycheck will be paying for the daycare.  It is still a huge hit financially.  
    I've never understood how it can be so easy for low income families to pop out kid after kid (they qualify for gov't assistance) and high income families can pop out kid after kid (they can afford it), but if you are barely out of the low income zone it gets rough.  We are just a tiny bit past the allowed income amount to receive gov't assistance so we can't.  It sucks.   We were looking at seeing if we could get a few trusted friends and family to commit to one or two days each week to "babysit" or "nanny" and we would pay them.  It would be cheaper than daycare, but two of the three people we were looking at all have health issues that prevent them from being able to commit. 


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  • With my DD I got 8 weeks paid at 80% with short term disability (had a c-section otherwise it would have been 6), I ended up taking about 12 weeks total, I supplemented the rest with my accrued PTO at 100% pay.

    I'm thankful I had PTO saved up, because I couldn't imagine going back at 8 weeks, let alone 6. This time my company has changed their policy to give 8 weeks 100% paid for c-section maternal leave, and 8 weeks 100% paid for bonding leave. So essentially, 16 weeks paid, taking me likely through the whole summer. I'm definitely so grateful for this!
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  • With DD#1, I had a c section and was off 2 months. I will do the same with DD#2 as I will have a repeat c section. Not returning to work is not an option for me. I enjoy working and I make too much money not to contribute to our household/ lifestyle. I felt like the 2 months was a decent amount of time. Of course I would have liked to have had more, but it was good to return to work and get back into a routine. 
  • I work at a school so I will be taking leave right at April break. With my accrued sick time, I will be able to be paid 100% through May, but will have unpaid leave in June with FMLA. Then, I won't be working at the summer school program so I will have July and August off as well, but again, unpaid. I hope that wedding season is more lucrative this year since I have been making demo tracks and almost have my website fully up. Also, MH just started working at a limo company so he will have more connections in the wedding business to get me more gigs. I have a few funerals lined up, but weddings are where the real money is as an event singer. All told, I will be able to be home with my baby for 4 1/2 months and feel ridiculously lucky!

    With my son, I had to take STD for the month I was on bedrest before he was born and wasn't able to return to work due to complications. I ended up getting a job as a nanny for another little boy and it was the greatest job of all time. I got to be with my son, he got a play mate, and we were actually making more/saving more than we are now. Without having to pay for daycare (which is ridiculously expensive in my area) and being paid under the table, we were actually pretty well off. The family paid for any outings for both their son and mine so we got to go to museums and all sorts of fun activities we may not have been able to afford otherwise. They would also pay for groceries and I would make huge batches of baby food for both boys so we were saving there too. I was able to be with my little guy for the first year of his life. It was awesome. I honestly have no idea why I went back to being a school nurse full-time. I think I felt like I wasn't using my nursing degree/license and wanted the pride of going into work as a professional nurse. Ha! If I could go back, I would still be working for the family because being a nanny was the best job ever!

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  • I'm a teacher, due about 3 weeks before the end of school.  I have enough accrued sick days (and we have to use those first for maternity leave) that I'll be able to be paid through the end of the year, then have the summer off till we go back at the end of August.  If baby arrives on time, that'll be about 14 weeks paid leave, so I'm feeling very fortunate!

    Last time around I was working for a non-profit that had amazing benefits.  I got 12 weeks, 8 of it at 100% pay and the last 4 weeks at 60% pay.  That applied even though I hadn't even been there a whole year at that point; maternity benefits kicked in after 3 months of employment! 

    I definitely feel like more time is better, but with such crappy maternity leave policies in this country I understand why so many women have to go back to work after short leaves.  If you can get away with it financially, I recommend taking as much time as you can get, even if it's unpaid.  My SIL took a whole year after my niece was born (she also works in education, and got the 10 months unpaid that a PP mentioned above).  Things were tight for them financially, but she loved being able to be home with my niece and nephew for so long.

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  • I will be taking 12 weeks off. My maternity leave isn't paid, but I do get up to 12 weeks. Thankfully I have enough leave saved up that I can use that and still get paid the whole time I take off.

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  • I have an unusual situation, but I'll go on leave when the baby comes (due May 9) and be on paid leave until mid-Jan. I have started thinking that's too much and I could actually hurt myself if I don't work during that entire process. No way in hell I'm coming into the office if I don't have to, but I'm seriously considering getting a nanny to start coming in 3 days a week or so to give me maybe 15 hours a week of work time? I can be in my home office while the nanny is with the baby. 
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  • I'm a business owner with a company that is focused around electoral politics so while I would normally get 12 weeks paid, I think I'm only going to take about eight, then work from home for a couple weeks, and then be back in the office full time by mid-July. Being out after that just isn't feasible in our line of work. After I go back, DH will take about 6 weeks off unpaid before we start with a nanny share or daycare.

    AND cosign to what @vinerie said above. xoxo.
  • vinerie said:
    It always amuses me how on every thread about or related to working moms, someone has to come and explain why it was important to them that their kid not be raised by daycare and that's why they are a SAHM. "But kudos to you all ladies who are willing to make a different choice!"

    It comes off as judge-ey. 

    That is all. 
    That is not how I meant it at all. After having worked in daycare for years, some great ones and some not so great ones, I decided I wanted to stay home with my child. It was my experiences on the child care provider side of the fence that helped me decide that, for my family, I didn't want that. I could go into the specific whys but it really isn't important.

    I have zero issues with daycare in general. I have zero issues with moms who choose to work, whether because they need to or just plain really enjoy it and want to. I specifically said it was important to me that I stay home with my child. I specifically said it was important to my husband. Just like it is important to some moms that they work or some moms really want their kid to have the experience of daycare, it was important to me to have the exact opposite experience.

    I am not judging at all and am sorry that anyone thinks that about my post. The OP asked about maybe staying home so, in full disclosure to her, before I went into the financial aspects that made that decision easy for us, I explained that it was already something we had been leaning towards doing.

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    vinerie said:
    It always amuses me how on every thread about or related to working moms, someone has to come and explain why it was important to them that their kid not be raised by daycare and that's why they are a SAHM. "But kudos to you all ladies who are willing to make a different choice!"

    It comes off as judge-ey. 

    That is all. 
    That is not how I meant it at all. After having worked in daycare for years, some great ones and some not so great ones, I decided I wanted to stay home with my child. It was my experiences on the child care provider side of the fence that helped me decide that, for my family, I didn't want that. I could go into the specific whys but it really isn't important.

    I have zero issues with daycare in general. I have zero issues with moms who choose to work, whether because they need to or just plain really enjoy it and want to. I specifically said it was important to me that I stay home with my child. I specifically said it was important to my husband. Just like it is important to some moms that they work or some moms really want their kid to have the experience of daycare, it was important to me to have the exact opposite experience.

    I am not judging at all and am sorry that anyone thinks that about my post. The OP asked about maybe staying home so, in full disclosure to her, before I went into the financial aspects that made that decision easy for us, I explained that it was already something we had been leaning towards doing.
    Yes I know that is not how you MEANT it. But I'm trying to explain that when you come into a thread in which the OP asks about maternity leave for working moms and assert that you can't provide any information on that, but that you would like to share your story of being a SAHM because you just couldn't imagine having someone else raise your child...it comes off as judge-ey. Self awareness is a thing. 

    ETA: The same is true in reverse. It is rude if someone who chooses to continue with their paid career goes into a SAHM thread talking about, say, how to cut costs to live on one salary and explains that she could not fathom giving up her career because that is important to her and her husband/partner
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  • vinerie said:
    Yes I know that is not how you MEANT it. But I'm trying to explain that when you come into a thread in which the OP asks about maternity leave for working moms and assert that you can't provide any information on that, but that you would like to share your story of being a SAHM because you just couldn't imagine having someone else raise your child...it comes off as judge-ey. Self awareness is a thing. 
    OP also asked about maybe staying home and the financials about that. That is what I was addressing as I had a "been there, done that" situation with my first DD when we had to figure out what would makes sense. Again, I included that fact that it was important to us for me to stay home as full disclosure that we had already been leaning that way. The information that I shared is still relevant as she asked about figuring out the financials about possibly staying home.

    Sorry if anyone saw one phrase that was used as background as "judge-y."

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  • @kp90 From a purely financial perspective, it's worth considering not just the balance of daycare vs staying home right now, but also the impact on your future earning potential. I've known women who would pretty much be making the same thing five years from now whether they took time off or not, while others would see their future earnings substantially affected. So that should definitely be part of the financial calculus.
  • I get 12 weeks. 1st week I have to use PTO to get paid. Weeks 2-6 its 70% of my pay. Weeks 7-12 no pay. Because just what you need when having a baby is NO money. I have a nice savings, and will need to dip into it for rent, school loan payment and other expenses. But I am scaling back on unnecessary things to help save.

    I mentioned to my boss I would like to take through Labor Day off (so another 3-4 weeks depending on when I go out) and she isnt having it. I might tack a week of PTO at the end to extend my time off to 13 weeks. I will play that by ear.

    I will say that by the time I pay my portion of rent and daycare, I will be left with one paycheck. Depending on how money looks, we might reassess my time off (meaning after 6 months, decide if it makes sense to work or not). I think the best thing for me to do is to continue to work, since when baby #2 comes along, I probably will need to stay home for a year or so to cut back on daycare costs, but we will tackle that as the time comes. If I get a raise and bonus this year though, I will be making more than DH so loosing that salary will be rough.

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  • First-timer here, so not sure how much use this'll be, but our current plan is:

    I get 12 weeks paid time off through my job (4 weeks guaranteed to all employees + I can use up to 8 weeks of accrued paid sick leave). I will probably tack on two weeks of vacation because we're actually going on vacation at the end of that time. So that's 14 weeks of paid leave, more or less.

    After that, health and circumstances allowing, I'm heading back to work. First and foremost, because I'd go crazy staying at home (I may even end up working irregular hours before my maternity leave is up, depending on how twitchy I get; one of my OB-GYNs told me that she actually started working again at four weeks, not because she had to for money, but because she had to for sanity, and I think I'm wired very similarly to that lady). Second because I'm the primary wage earner, so we really can't afford for me to stay home, and third because my office is very flexible on work hours and I have my own office so I can pump at work without problems (several of my coworkers have done that already and everyone is very respectful). So going back shouldn't be a major hardship in those respects.

    My husband's going to do the stay-at-home dad gig.
  • Because I work in a school I could use PTO for the last couple of weeks in the school year and then roll right into the summer, receiving my regular pay through late July. I could also use STD but, I'd be expected to return to work around September. We've decided, however, that I will be staying home after LO arrives. Beginning the school year in September would be a huge pain. The summer is needed for planning. Plus because of our work hours I'd need to send LO to a daycare center v. an in-home daycare. I have no problem with daycare centers but, they cost a lot more than in-home daycare in my area. We would need to budget about $1200/ month and for us, it's just not worth the expense. BFing is a huge goal of mine and I'd really like to cloth diaper. Both are still an option if we use daycare but, they'll be easier if I stay home. Plus as others have said, I'll be able to save on gas, clothing, and other expenses if I don't work. We'll need to make some financial sacrifices in order to make this all work but we sat down this past fall and really crunched the numbers. We just need to put the effort in now to pay off my car before May, increase our savings, and change some lifestyle habits (bye bye cable), to make this happen. If staying home is something you might want to do I suggest doing the math and seeing if you can make it happen now. If you decide to go back to work that's fine but, I wouldn't want to wait until LO arrives to figure out if it's doable. You never know if your feelings about staying home or returning to work will change once he/she arrives. 
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  • Do you have a monthly budget? If not, make one asap to include all of your expenses and spending in a month, and you and SO's income. That's really the only way to know what you can and can't afford. You can see what expenses you can cut, where you can spend less, see if it makes more sense to add the expense of day care or to completely remove your income. Being able to literally add up the numbers made my decision on how much time to take off incredibly easy. I knew I'd need X dollars a month to cover expenses if I had no income. I want to take 12 weeks (3 months- all unpaid) so I multiply that X number by 3 and that's how much I have to save in order to do it. It's absolutely impossible to know what you can/can't afford with out a monthly budget.
  • FTM here with a weird situation, so this may not be applicable to everything: My SO has a paternal leave policy of 2 months off at 100% (The Tech Industry can be wonderful). I just got my papers to be a lawyer in Cali all sorted out, so I am looking at the same industry, as PT after May, working mostly from home (so no real "leave" in the traditional sense, but I get to work from home, so ... it's like a leave). We live a continent away from all our family, so no help re. nannies and such from there (I was raised partly by my Mom's parents, which was wonderful and awesome), so the work-from-home thing and making it work, is what we're after - which will mean juggling days between me having to go into the office or not depending on the day(SO has a very flexible work schedule that gives us some legroom we are incredibly grateful for) and likely not having to invest in daycare right now. 

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  • I'm going to try to take the full 12 weeks. After that we're going to make a decision on DH staying home full time.
  • @josie12367 I certainly hope nobody would judge you for that decision. My situation was not as severe, but I also ended up returning to work 4 weeks sooner than planned for mental health reasons. And even though I was going to transition to partial work-from-home, I spent a lot of time in the office the first month or so.

    This time I'll be a SAHM full time (I think), but it took me almost 2 years mentally preparing for that decision. I hope I'm ready :).
  • I'm finding these really helpful to read as I contemplate what I'll do. II work full-time in museum education and our benefits are determined by the benefits state employees receive.

     I actually expected our parental leave package to better than it is, given that our other benefits are quite good. Having said that, I know they are better than many parents' and I'm grateful for that. 

    Depending on the type of birth, we get either 6 or 8 weeks at full pay, provided we have the sick time to cover this, which I do. 

     Then we are supposed to use our vacation time for the next 4-6 weeks, again at full pay. I probably won't have the vacation time to cover this so I'll have to take some unpaid leave and pay to cover my health insurance,

    I get the sense I could take another month or so unpaid beyond the 12 weeks--- my supervisor's boss told me "take as much time as I need." My immediate supervisor took 4 months when she had her son last year. 

    My husband is the major earner in our family and he has to travel quite a bit for work so I expect there will be weeks where I feel like a single mom. The thought of that stresses me out big-time.

    The really lame thing is that DH will probably be able to take only a week or so off work. I know he'll want to be home.

    I so wish we had better parental leave laws in the US. 


  • @josie12367 I'm glad your family supports you! That helps so much.

    Since I'm mostly WFH now and am transitioning out of that, I've started doing weekly play dates with other moms and have DD enrolled in activities like Little Gym. That's great advice, and it's definitely been the best thing for me with respect to making the switch to SAH.
  • @josie12367, hoping that things are better this time around! 

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  • @josie12367 I don't blame you at all for wanting to go back to work so soon. You know what's best for you. I'm glad your family is supportive. My cousins wife went back to work after about 4 weeks, but she was able to take the bay with her.

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    TTC# 2: 12/2017
    BFP: 4/20/2018
    EDD: 12/29/2018
  • I'm a teacher, so I get 5 weeks plus the summer! May baby FTW!

    I would take as much as you can if you can afford to.
    *Siggy Warning*
    Lilypie Second Birthday tickers

  • JessicaB0627JessicaB0627 member
    edited January 2016
    yogahh said:

    @josie12367, hoping that things are better this time around! 

    Me too! I've heard PPD can be a nasty beast!
    @josie12367
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