Does anyone have any recommendations for cosleeping with a newborn? How to dress them/you? Our house is slightly chilly at 66. I'm a FTM and want to cosleep, but am a bit confused about how to go about it. We have a pack n play set up next to our bed, but I find it hard to get baby in and out easily. We plan on setting up the crib as a side car, once we receive the hardware. Any help in the meantime would be great.
Some things to keep in mind to get you started when bed sharing with a newborn. - those who smoke, have had alcohol or other drowse inducing medicine, and those who are obese should never bed share - of you have long hair, the it back - only bedshare if you wake when baby mover or makes noise - don't swaddle when bed sharing. Your body heat will keep baby pretty warm. - don't use blankets. Dress yourself as warm as your baby. Pillows are generally a no no. - keep baby on your side. Dads are less aware. - there shouldn't be a gap between the head of your bed and the headboard/wall.
This is NOT an exhaustive list, but just some ideas to keep everyone safe. Make sure to do the research!
I did choose to bed share, and I love it. Nursing is so easy. I do know someone whose mother over laid her baby sister, however. Just be safe!
My daughter hated to be swaddled so she wore pjs. I used the footies or the long "dress" type. We bed share and I just used a light receiving blanket to cover, but she is hot blooded and often didn't use any blankets. She still doesn't as a toddler. Did you pack n play come with a bassinet? Mine did so it was super easier to get baby in and out. I used mine for naps when I could get her to sleep in there.
Re: Newborn cosleeping
This.
OP I highly recommend you read up on safe co-sleeping or watch some videos on it if that is your plan.
I swaddle in a summer infant thin cotton swaddle wrap. Then put inside a fleece halo sleep sack with no Velcro.
Some things to keep in mind to get you started when bed sharing with a newborn.
- those who smoke, have had alcohol or other drowse inducing medicine, and those who are obese should never bed share
- of you have long hair, the it back
- only bedshare if you wake when baby mover or makes noise
- don't swaddle when bed sharing. Your body heat will keep baby pretty warm.
- don't use blankets. Dress yourself as warm as your baby. Pillows are generally a no no.
- keep baby on your side. Dads are less aware.
- there shouldn't be a gap between the head of your bed and the headboard/wall.
This is NOT an exhaustive list, but just some ideas to keep everyone safe. Make sure to do the research!
I did choose to bed share, and I love it. Nursing is so easy. I do know someone whose mother over laid her baby sister, however. Just be safe!